My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and we usually have sex approx 3 times a week, right now I have brohncitis and feel terrible and he wants to still have sex, should he wait for me, when I feel better or should I feel this sick and put myself out to please him..........
2006-10-24 18:10:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he cared then he would wait on you to feel better. Let me guess hes sitting there beside you waiting to see what everyone says. Well when your sick then you dont feel like having sex. Tell him to get some ky jelly and go to town
2006-10-24 18:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by bipolar_diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The boy needs to give you a break. Sex should never be so important that the other person isn't up to feeling as good as you do. I always thought it was supposed to be a shared experience. Otherwise, it's just boring. Let boyfriend know that if you're not feeling well, how will you be able to participate fully, making the whole experience enjoyable for both. And if he can't wait a few days for you to get better, it shows he's just after his own gratification and not yours, making him one selfish dude. Sorry, but that's how I feel. I've been married 29 years now, and my husband waits for me, as I do for him. Wouldn't it be better if you were both feeling 100% great? <*)))><
2006-10-25 01:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever ever do something you are not comfortable doing. If you're too sick to have sex. TELL HIM. If he doesn't respect that DUMP HIM. I'm sorry to be so blunt about it, but if he truely loves you he will wait until you feel up to it. Don't put yourself out there just to give him what he wants. If he wants it that bad, he can either hit the road or use rosey palm. (If you dont get it email me i'll explain it.)
2006-10-25 01:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't just sex, it's much more like making sacrifices for the welfare of the one you love. You know, like not trying to force yourself on someone who is SICK. What other stuff is he doing that shows you that he's only in this thing for himself? Think about it.
2006-10-25 01:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him wait...! OMG. I can't even believe that having sex when I was sick is an option. If I don't feel good, neither do you.
2006-10-25 01:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been together 5 years and he can't leave you alone for a couple days? Red flag alert.
2006-10-25 01:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to explain to him the situation you are in, and if he really cares about you he should wait for you until you get better. take care of yourself girl before pleasing him.
2006-10-25 01:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by kidio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's totally up to you its your body and you have any control of what he does and when. and your sick and I'm pretty he doesn't want to earthier but he still loves.also relationships arnt all about sex.
2006-10-25 01:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by stmarkstoddjr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves you, he will wait. Just explain to him that you love him and everything, just you aren't feeling well. If he doesn't take into consideration your feelings, you should reconsider your relationship.
2006-10-25 01:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by Josh R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should be understanding and let you get well before having sex again.
2006-10-25 01:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Chris C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋