Her friends come over and they play barbie doll with me! They dress me up, do my make up and force me to cook, serve and clean for them. If I refuse they whip me and tighten my collar. I am too shy to tell anyone about this in real life, what should I do.
2006-10-24 18:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please see my previous 4 questions for further details about what else she does to me.
2006-10-24 18:04:19 · update #1
Mat, I have already answered some of your questions. Either you really love this girl or you are into the master/slave thing and willing to take it from her to keep her happy. Somehow, I think it is the first.
If you are not happy about the way she treats you, tell her you don't want to play her stupid games anymore and want equal rights in the relationship, or better still, embarrass the hell out of her in front of her friends.
It sounds to me, like she is the complete Dominatrix. You can either :
1/ put up with it
2/ tell her you've had enough and stop treating like she does
3/ get out of there
#3 would be your best option
2006-10-24 18:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Leah M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you let your gf or whoever that psycho girl that you are with do whatever she wants to! whatever she wants is whatever she gets and you do not draw a line or say anything because, why exactly? you are in this relationship or as i like to call it unhealthy, messed up, screwed up, thing you call "love". if someone loves you they do not do that to you nor do they play the part of the manipulative person unless:a. they dont care, b. they dont care and you dont see it, c. you are too blind to see what is going on, d. this girl has you wrapped up her little finger or e. all of the above. she treats you like crap because you do not stand up for yourself for once and for all and just leave her as hard as it may sound but you need to move on! if i were in your shoes i would be fed up no matter how much you love her since she obviously does not love you back the very same way and the longer you stay with her the longer you will get hurt or you will become way too attached to break up! the girl sounds like a weirdo, no offense, and her friends are just using you as well! get away from her for your sake and find yourself a girl who will be nice and good to you and not so demanding and bossy and fussy and a drama queen like your gf! i hope that helpes!
2006-10-24 18:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should grow a pair and if you like it and is going to continue this behavior don't complain. But you can always put a stop to this. They probably do this because the know these are your weakness.
2006-10-24 18:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysbettathanyou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have read them all and i have decided that there are two possible motives here. you are boasting or your not man enough for what she wants. and i dont say that lightly. if you really enjoy that then stay if not walk away right now or it would be worse later and no matter how you feel about her it wont save you when she wants to try something new!
2006-10-24 18:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok dats not normal or right. stay away from whoever this she is. if its a family member juzt talk to her in private and explain the situation.
2006-10-24 18:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A better question is "Why do you let her?" Find someone that's not a psycho!
2006-10-24 18:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tanyaqt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are either making this up or you are into it and bragging or you don't have a girlfriend and wish it was like this.
2006-10-24 18:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you like it. if you didn't and you were a real man you wouldn't put up with it. i don't think you are serious anyway.
2006-10-24 18:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by sweettee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you've got issues.
2006-10-24 18:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by wildraft1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that is just wow you need to speek up for yourself that is not nice of her to treat you like that she has no right !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! speek UP YOU R A PERSON NOT AN ANIMAL!!!!
2006-10-24 18:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by hey ....... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋