theres no way of sneeking out of it and hiding it trust me i have tryed plenty of times!!!!
2006-10-24 18:10:44 · 13 answers · asked by hey ....... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank God your parents have some brains. Do you have any idea how many pregnant 13 year old's there are out there who had been dating for years? I can just never understand why their parents let them date. What were these idiots thinking? It's hard enough for a 16 year old to make mature decisions much less someone who's 13 or 14.
You don't appreciate them now but, believe me, the day will come when you will thank God that they wouldn't let you go out before you were ready.
2006-10-24 18:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting always helps. It will help you become more mature and make the right decisions. Dating looks like fun, but one misstep could drag you down and set you back by a lot of years. Take time and get to know the person. Dating at your age can be as simple as eating lunch together in the cafeteria, going out for a walk etc. Do these things and give yourself time to catch up with the biological changes that you are experiencing. Do these things with the full knowledge and supervision of your guardians as they know what's best for you at this stage. I don't care if this is not voted as the best answer that you may have gotten. However if this helps you and several other teenagers from going down the wrong road, getting into trouble and losing everything,I'll give it to you straight.NO I'm not a mommy but only a couple of years older than you are and I can tell you I am glad I listened to those we call the Ancient folks - our parents. Don't sneak around, you're obviously not good at it and you'll almost always be found out. Be open and honest, they'll appreciate it and will, later on, respect the choices you make.
2006-10-25 02:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Martinique Samuelson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sneek out or hide hun. your younger then 16 wow??? a younge lady with feelings i know what its like i ve been there. if the guy likes you he will wait you have your whole life ahead of you. he will not be the only boy you kiss or hold hands till you meet that special someone. like i said if he likes you back he will wait. Or ask him to meet you parents?????, have a talk with your mom and tell her how you feel and that it will meen a lot to you about her opinion on him. your mom should be your best friend. love each other
good luck sweetie
ps dont rush things. he wont be the last. belive me.
2006-10-25 01:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by bellezza79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to that I say don't be in such a hurry to date if you're not to, it just makes things worse, besides the guy is just after one thing and girlie if you think you're ready to be a "little mommy"
you have NO idea and you'll be dumped like a hot potato. From being where you are at and going through what you are now. I wished I could go back and would of just waited when I was of age. JUST ENJOY being young and your AGE, don't try to grow-up so fast. The day will come when you'll wished you could be young again. Trust me.
2006-10-25 01:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by crazyasain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can suggest is that you plan group things together. You are allowed to go out with groups of friends, right? If you go to school together you could plan times to meet up during the day. I actually agree with your parents that it's better not to actually date until you're a little more mature and legally able to drive with the other in the car.
2006-10-25 01:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by city_savvy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should wait until you're 16.
I know its hard, are your parent's over-protective? Mine are. Im 17. My mum is ok with me dating other guys but my dad isn't! I've just learnt to accept it. I dont date at all. I'm just friends with guys. Oh well. Im turning 18 next year!! woot woot! I'm sure i'll be able to date then..For now, I'm content with family and friends...
2006-10-25 01:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a while if he's worth the wait and he'll wait 4 u if your worth the wait..trust me u'll probably wont even remember this guy's name in 5 yrs! Dont rush!
2006-10-25 01:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by 2tootwosexy4ya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to date, obviously you have pleasant contact with the guy already. If he respects you, he won't need a date to be a good friend. Keep in touch in other ways.
2006-10-25 01:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how old are you???
Well, just go hang out with your friends (im pretty sure your parents will let you do this) then in the middle of this 'hanging out', meet up with this guy. then of course, you always come back home with your friends again. I tried this thousand times - always work. good luck!
2006-10-25 01:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by tiiista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, its not the end of the world if youre under 16, it just seems like it
2006-10-25 01:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by mrbait33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋