Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

Couples! Has giving birth to children had you realize that you simply can't have to much sexual enjoyment?

This question is in relation to another two questions regarding "traditional" or "old school" marriages.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArhtXDkPifvJsKE5HbN_9kLsy6IX?qid=20061023184500AAVgIPW

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsuWi2IMTGhwQVrQre1X01bsy6IX?qid=20061023091405AAJYv4o

Some people have little or not experience with having and raising children. Perhaps that makes it more difficult for them to realize they simply can't be over-dependant for enjoyment from sex.

2006-10-24 19:50:05 · 2 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in college and there's a girl I'm interested in, however, she is a virgin and she has never even kissed a guy before but she is very friendly with guys. She's very down to earth and nice, kind of like a tomboy in the sense she likes fishing and sports but that's it. Me and my friend have both known her for a year now and my friend fell for her but she had no interest. The other day, out of nowhere, in front of my friend and I she told me "you have a good body." Last year, she said I was "cute" which I knew meant in the little boy sense. But she complimented my body this year and told me I looked "handsome" on the one day where I fixed myself up. I don't want to sound insecure but I'd like to ask you guys not if I have a shot, but what does it mean when a girl calls a guy "handsome?" What does it mean when she tells you "you have a good body?" Is it just another two compliments or are they signs of interest? Thanks a lot guys.

2006-10-24 19:49:38 · 4 answers · asked by buffalodude1988 3 in Singles & Dating

I just step into the working society. I am totally unprepared for backstabbers, liars, mean boss who treat staff like dogs. Sometimes i will cry secretly in the toilet and at night. I don't know why~ but i feel so unhappy having to work. Money doesn't give me the motivation. I know one has to work to keep ourselves occupied but i feel so lost in my direction. Even if i quit i might not be happy. So i live in fear.... i don't know what tomorrow might be. Anyone feel the same too?

2006-10-24 19:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'll make this as brief as I can..my gf of two years left me a couple days ago, she originally wanted a break and that lasted a month and I kinda pushed her away by always trying to persuade her to come back, what messed it up is my friend saw her the day she broke up with me and pretty much told her off.....now the day she broke up with me we were actually start talking again and seeing what would happen but that obviously ruined it for me and during the whole break sit we met up a couple times and had a good time which led to other things, when she broke up with me she told me she'll always love me and maybe one day we'd be together again...what does that mean to you? is she just putting me down easily or maybe now since i'm not going to try to presuade her to stay maybe she'll come back to me? I told her to take some time when she's not filled with anger towards me to reconsider everything and she said that she already knows the answer but fine...what can I do? what should i expect?

2006-10-24 19:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by digdoggy299 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Wife cheated on me with a married man. I would just like to know if I could do anything to get the bastard in some trouble.

2006-10-24 19:46:34 · 13 answers · asked by dragoon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex-boyfriend broke up with me three weeks ago and i still find myself crying myself to sleep at night. every time i see him i want to cry. so to help i just ignore him which ends up making it worse. i want to talk and be friends again but it herts so much still. what should i do?

2006-10-24 19:45:38 · 20 answers · asked by Heidi 1 in Friends

me and my husband moved in with my mil 2 yrs. ago. She stole $400 from us, our only wedding photo(they were destroyed in a fire) and some other things. My mother had just come out of the hospital where she almost died and my mil came over cursing at my mother telling her she saw me with another man. (which was a lie) she has hated me from the day we met. she would always talk about how skinny she was and how big her boobs were in front of me. i guess to try to get me jealous. My husband doesn't want to talk to her and wants to cut off all ties with her until she can become more of a mother. we dont live with her anymore. and she hasnt come to visit us in 2 yrs! do u think its bad to cut off ties with her? without her in our life we are very happy. We dont have someone trying to ruin our marriage anymore. i know its his mom but what kind of mom steals from her own son? what would you do?

2006-10-24 19:45:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-24 19:44:53 · 13 answers · asked by butterfly13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 19:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by delias 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you got the opportunity to make
3 wishes by huddenie.
but you only had 6 hours to enjoy
your wishes before poof you died.

what would you wish for?

2006-10-24 19:41:38 · 12 answers · asked by xtegx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 19:41:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 19:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1 in Singles & Dating

you watch your partner make love to someone else? I would NEVER sleep with anyone else but I really love looking into her eyes while she is making love with someone else. Its a huge turn on for me and she knows it too.

2006-10-24 19:39:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 19:39:20 · 9 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2 in Singles & Dating

It is complicated, as always. I have been married 7 years. He loves me, I know, but I can no longer deal with him constantly putting me down, demanding the house to be clean, while changing diapers, making dinner, working full time, carpooling kids, managing a business, while he sits around telling me about his hard day at work. His family hates me because I am american and have different beliefs. They go out of their way to make me upset. I cry to my husband and he refuses to defend me. I feel lonely. We can be home all day and not say 2 words. I don't want to live a lonely life and have my children think this is normal or think that this is what marriage is. I want to be happy and "In Love" and have it be returned. He has denied counseling for years. I fear losing my house, friends, family, and respect. I really need your advice. Am I wrong for wanting to leave? How do I tell him?

2006-10-24 19:38:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you had to choose between
me or pam anderson....
who would you choose [guys]

lmao


and WHY

2006-10-24 19:37:52 · 11 answers · asked by xtegx 1 in Singles & Dating

i only have on day off a week and it's always rain on that day !!!
is there some way i can have a sunny day off
do i have to see god or pay the queen
should i give up and buy a rain mac
is it becouse there is a labour party in power
or is it becouse north korea testing
i might be the earth heating up
what do you think!!!!

2006-10-24 19:36:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

" i need some space, lets have a break" but deep inside you know you can still sort things out and you dont want it that way. Whats the best words you can say to make hm/her change mind?

2006-10-24 19:35:26 · 20 answers · asked by Lo Carla 1 in Singles & Dating

pills that can b take b4 sex.

2006-10-24 19:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by kingofrgu 1 in Singles & Dating

when she will get angry.
when i will make any mistake

2006-10-24 19:33:43 · 16 answers · asked by yashwant 1 in Singles & Dating

My step daughter insists on her father walking her down the isle with the stepfather on the other side. Even after 20 years my husband would rather hurt this guy than even look at him and she knows this. My husband has been in her life and has taken care of her. My husband was hurt and angry when she asked him to do this - is he in the wrong for refusing her? She didn't ask- she simply insisted that he do this.

2006-10-24 19:32:10 · 12 answers · asked by Erik 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she is so confused they have been together since 2 years and she lost her virginity a year ago with him and this is the first time he askes for that
and when she refused he threatened her and said that he can get it by force if he wants to and now he is completly an another person what should she do
she cant leave him cuz she adores him

2006-10-24 19:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend just told me that this guy always touches her when he passes her and is always flirting with her behind my back. hes bigger than me though, so if i do go pick a fight with him my *** WOULD be handed to me. i really need some help

2006-10-24 19:31:32 · 22 answers · asked by Jeff J 2 in Singles & Dating

My original date bailed on me, after I had purchased tickets and a place to stay, near the beginning of this month. So i need to find someone who I can stand and is willing to stand me for Fri-Sat in Vegas, I was trying to see if there was anyone at school, but I haven't really gotten a chance to know the girls in my class, or at least know em enough that it wouldn't be weird to ask them to spend a weekend with me, any advice will help, I now have 1 1/2 weeks left to find someone. Thanks.

2006-10-24 19:31:32 · 2 answers · asked by BillyDaKidd 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone noticed that when you have a boyfriend/girlfriend that you don't date for long you NEVER fight?? Its like the person you are committed to argues with you the most.
I am engaged to the most wonderful man on earth, and we seem to butt heads every once in a while. There is a saying that goes something like this: "The more a couple argues about small things, it brings them closer together."
Does anyone think thats true, or am I just going out on a limb here? I mean, if you argue, there MUST be love there, am I not right? If you didn't care, you wouldn't argue I don't think. Meh...oh well. I guess I will shut up now and let someone answer this, lol.

2006-10-24 19:30:57 · 5 answers · asked by Damien's Mommy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you were stuck in a room with me and you had 45 minutes to live?

use your imagination.
[ in a positive way]

2006-10-24 19:29:02 · 13 answers · asked by xtegx 1 in Singles & Dating

46 years old. Single. Grown kids, locally. Living parents, 8 hours away. Excellent job that requires 80% travel. Parents need help and support. Kids need help and support. I feel alive in my work, am very happy, but could take a position either near my kids or near my parents and stop traveling. The travel pays mass extra, and the career opportunities are more abundant in this sector... But... We're the only family there is. I'm not sure how to prioritize, between myself, my kids and my parents. Any insights to offer?

2006-10-24 19:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by pair-a-docs 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

of the questions and came across a couple of answers that were interesting to me.

I want to know how many of you would find your mate unattractive if they put on weight?

Would it be a deal breaker?

Why? Because you are shallow, for health reasons, or something else?

I am in shape and I don't give a damn about someone being heavy.

2006-10-24 19:25:25 · 7 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 19:24:59 · 11 answers · asked by delias 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I gave my husband a second chance and he cheated on me again. I left him...tonight he came over to my family's house and started crying...and told me that he would change...

I believe in forgiving...we have all fallen short and we all have sinned...

I know that adultery is grounds for divorce...

But...I wanted to know if your spouse has cheated (twice or more) how many times have you taken them back/forgiven them? And did they ever change? Or was it a never ending cycle?

2006-10-24 19:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Marriage & Divorce