2006-10-24 19:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with." There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.There isn't a sure-fire way to mend a broken heart but there are definitely things you can to do to make it feel a bit lighter and ready for new love. First, allow yourself to feel what you need to and take all the time in the world to get over the person. For some people it may only take a few weeks to move on and others years. However long it takes, be okay with that. You can't live your life in the past, waiting for a second chance to do things differently. Doing so is only taking you away from experiencing things that could be better. Don't be scared to give love another try.So, you've found out that Mr. or Miss Right isn't the soul mate you've always dreamed about. Now what? The period of loss and pain doesn't have to extend on to an eternity of what ifs. After spending a few days wallowing in self-pity, you'll probably want to start making a few steps towards life after love. To help ease this transition, try a few of the following ideas.Letting loose on your emotions is a quick and self-healing way to recover from incidents of loss and pain. This is especially true of keeping a journal. Make a commitment to write for at least a few minutes every day.Keep your mind busy with new information. Whether you decide to learn a new word or how to do something new on your computer, it will help you keep moving forward instead of looking back.Get yourself out and about with a 20 to 30 minute walk. Just the constant, repetitive motion of moving your legs one after another is enough to help you put things in perspective.Just because you are not attached to someone doesn't mean you can't enjoy going out. Think of it as a chance to go to all the places you've always wanted to go.Maybe there is something you've always wanted to learn how to do. Now is the perfect opportunity to develop it! Try anything from bicycling, joining a walking club, sewing, bodyboarding or surfing, learning how to watercolor, or cooking.Best Wishes
2006-10-24 20:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a tough thing to go through.
I surrived it.
You will go a period of grief.
Then you move on...put yourself out there and renew your life. Get involved in a variety of things.
Join Yahoo Personals....you will meet some wonderful women there.
Get some counseling. You just have one life to live.....don't ruin it. You can make the choice to be happy
2006-10-25 02:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take all the time you need to grief over it. Once you have done all the grieving you will find that he's not worth it and will eventually move on. Keep busy as it helps. Good luck.
2006-10-25 02:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must release all your emotions perhaps by crying or whatever to feel better. Then think... do you love her that much that you don't want anybody else? if yes... try to work things out with her. If no... try to date another. Maybe there's someone else meant for you... someone who'll make you happier
2006-10-25 02:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by pbinnocent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a really tough time getting over my ex. just try to keep yourself busy doing stuff to keep your mind offa it. itll eventually happen. may take time though
2006-10-25 02:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋