Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

My sister (honest) asked if it would be a good idea if she gave her boyf oral pleasure whilst having popping candy (the stuff you put in your mouth and it pops on your tounge) in her mouth. I think this would hurt her boyfs member alot but she says someone else told her to do it and thinks it will be fine. please help should she do it or will it be painfull for him??

2006-10-24 21:47:51 · 24 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

her fiance was only 16 when they met over the internet. now my friend asked me to be her maid of honour. i really do not believe in this marriage because growing up with her, ive seen the phases she goes through and she was always falling in puppy love. do i open my mouth and tell her my true feelings, this will change everything in our relationship cos im ruining her "happiness" or just go with it and let her make a huge mistake

2006-10-24 21:47:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Such as how to I 'make' them love me more or how do I 'make' them have sex with someone else.
To me it seems if they aren't doing what you want now, 'making' them do it is pretty silly, as it wastes both of your time.

2006-10-24 21:47:29 · 2 answers · asked by Star 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 and I've never seen my dad. I just recently found someone who I think is him. He has the same name, born in the same month and year, and has previously lived where I am from. I have a phone number and an address. I wrote a letter to him bc I'm to scared to actually call the number. What if he has another wife and kids? Would I be hurting his family by contacting him or is my need to actually know who my dad is more important? I don't know what I should do, and what would be the easiest on him.

2006-10-24 21:44:58 · 17 answers · asked by Chi1linVi1lain 2 in Family

2006-10-24 21:44:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-24 21:39:36 · 17 answers · asked by moonlightblaze. 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean, on tv it seems like every girl is bi-curious! Even in bars or clubs, there are always some drunk girls makin out somewhere, who I think are just trying to act "cool"!
What do you think, is it nature or just a fad?

2006-10-24 21:39:18 · 13 answers · asked by Jmyooooh 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 21:38:24 · 14 answers · asked by littlevanbeer23 1 in Singles & Dating

seeing your boyfriend . my boyfriend is apprenticing millright so he works all over and is gone for long times somtimes. how do people do it I m new at tis and I miss him so much . lots of thinking and playing?

2006-10-24 21:37:42 · 9 answers · asked by fairy 1 in Singles & Dating

I love sitting in the corner and watching her ride others then serving them both refreshments afterwards.

2006-10-24 21:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ARE YOU PULLING YR HAIR OUT YET ESPECIALLY WITH THIS AWFUL WEATHER

2006-10-24 21:35:14 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

Is there any one from RICE University here?

2006-10-24 21:34:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 21:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by stefan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

marriage\love

2006-10-24 21:32:08 · 6 answers · asked by hlr168168 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 21:30:31 · 19 answers · asked by dec g 3 in Family

2006-10-24 21:30:12 · 16 answers · asked by lookingforjordyn 1 in Family

2006-10-24 21:30:03 · 14 answers · asked by dec g 3 in Family

2006-10-24 21:27:12 · 8 answers · asked by varunpandey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she doesnt work, has the kids 55% to my 45%, share custody, she does nothing with the 3 kids, I have the 9&10 in music lessons, playing soccer, religion, do their homework with them stay home my two normal days with the 3 yr old boy, I run a business make the money, she hasnt worked for 10 yrs in our 12 yr marriage, she has never picked up or dropped off in 2 yr seperation once on exchanging the kids, she used to drink alot, a 12 pack of beer atleast a day, had seizures and I had them about 75% last year til family court services made this report and judge adopted instead of my concern of child safety, we each have two days and then alternate weekends, I just switched attorneys, I have had to already pay 10 k in legal to her sister who she hired for an attorney, I have spent 45-50 k and all we have is the house and businesss and 3 kids. She claims everything, abuse etc, with not one piece of proof, I pay $4100 mth child/spoused plus health in, yr and half & nothing solved, what to do?

2006-10-24 21:23:27 · 10 answers · asked by Sam1234 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a cuckolded male. I love it. My girlfriend has 5 boyfriends that I know of and we all get along great. Isn't this a better arrangment than a marrage? As 50% of couples who marry get a divorce and those that don't, half of them seem to be unhappy about their marrage but stay together for the kids sake.

2006-10-24 21:21:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mate has JUST broken up with her boyfriend and shes absolutely shattered. She isnt in the mood to talk or nothing.

I was just curious, what could I say to help her?

2006-10-24 21:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I asked questioned but instead of answering the question they bother me with my writing. I used the e-mail to my sis before and if there something i don't go and tell. "Hey your stupid or that's a dumb questioned!" or things like that. But many times i get that especially with my writing because I'm not english that's why i call myself here not english so they would understand if misspelled some words but they don't.

2006-10-24 21:19:38 · 20 answers · asked by Non-English 1 in Friends

This guy ive known for a while tells me that he likes me and that he fancies me. we live in different towns so only meet up when we are in the same town together. Why wont he ask me out on a proper date?

2006-10-24 21:18:43 · 25 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend goes through stages of not wanting to have sex and when we do she says she wonders why she ever says no (for real!).. is this just a chick thing? What can I do to make her want it more often? We get on great, are in love and I treat her well - do alot for her, we have a 8mth baby and I always help with him after work at home.

2006-10-24 21:16:31 · 11 answers · asked by hello! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and i have the best relationship...actually we get on better now than we ever did before, and to be true sometimes i look at him, and i still find him very attractive, i have always attracted very good looking men,...but he still has all these feelings for me, and if i'm honest i thought i felt a little something the other day, but quickly realized i was just getting caught up in the moment, and because i speak to him with respect, and we do get along pretty well, he gets the wrong idea...he has actually convinced himself that we can reconcile our relationship, and become more than what we are, i wont even bother telling my partner who i'm with now, because i know for a fact he would hit the roof, and probably confront my ex...so how do i tell my ex that it's only a civilised friendship that we have, and nothing more than that?...... he just keeps pushing.........

2006-10-24 21:15:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a good laugh, fun and treats me well, we have really amazing sex together but he has said (in front of people) he is very unlikely to marry and he has very negative views about settling down in general which he cannot seem to help telling everyone about. I feel it makes me look a bit of an idiot to be dating him and a number of his friends have asked me why I see him.

We have a great time when we are together, he has invited me on holiday, said he will intro me to his parents and also I have recent gifts from him so I feel confused about it.

Sensible advice only please!!!!!

2006-10-24 21:08:52 · 27 answers · asked by Saucy B 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 21:07:41 · 3 answers · asked by Aryka S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 23yr old son, daughter-in-law and 17mo old have moved in with us for hopefully a short time. Son is currently not working but going to school, just got out of the service. I watch the baby during the day. My son does not lift a finger around the house at all. We are not asking for money or even for him to do anything. Twice this week he has left a pair of jeans on the living room floor all night and the next day because he fell asleep on the couch. I said tonight, after the baby toys and all were picked up, "now if we can just get Chad to not leave his jeans on the floor" and he got extremely rude. Told me we needed to pick up our stuff around the house, he's tired of looking at it. That stuff is bills and mail laying on the counter because I haven't gotten to them yet. Said I talk to him like a child. I am so so angry I'm not sure how to calm down. Would that pis* you off or am I being a nagging mom?

2006-10-24 21:05:49 · 17 answers · asked by Chloe 6 in Family

I really want to go, just to take a break, im tired. Just want to see the sea again and relax.This friend-100% friendship! But I can't tell my BF it's a ''boy''friend, if I tell him I need to tell him its a girlfriend. Its really stupid! I just want a break for myself. I know its wrong to lie and I hate it. I don't know what to do??

2006-10-24 21:04:02 · 8 answers · asked by confussie 3 in Friends

This man is 39 years old from India and work in hospital in Saudi Arabia. He proposed my friend to marry her. He told my friend that he's never been married.They've never meet in person. They met online through dating site.They're writng each other everyday back and forth for about a month or so now.

My friend is 53 years old widow and has three children of her own. Now how this relationship going to turn out if she cannot give him anymore kids. According to my India friend an India man accustomed that a wife can give children to her husband. If not he'll find another woman. My friend told this man about the situation and he said to her that he does not care about the ages different and if she can't give him children. I just wonder if this man married and has children and just want to come to united states. I just want to know what do you think regarding this situation. Is this really true and honest love?

2006-10-24 21:03:10 · 28 answers · asked by rauma_raumamary 2 in Marriage & Divorce