This guy ive known for a while tells me that he likes me and that he fancies me. we live in different towns so only meet up when we are in the same town together. Why wont he ask me out on a proper date?
2006-10-24 21:18:43 · 25 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not married!!
2006-10-24 21:25:16 · update #1
Maybe he's doesn't know how you feel and is waiting for some kind of response or signal first. It could even be the different town thing. If he says that he fancies you it seems odd that he won't ask you out though?! I would say that maybe he's shy but saying he fancies you is not shyness.
I think if you told him how you feel whatever that might be I think thing's would become clearer.
P.S Thanks for the 'best answer' on your other question!
2006-10-26 01:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often do you guys meet up together? If he likes you a lot, there's no reason why he wouldn't ask you out. He must be hiding something. Or the moment he said that he fancies you?, he might be flirting, or playing game, ofcourse I could be wrong. How about you test him... like.. play a game or something, the loser has to take the winner to a dinner... corney, cheesy stuff like that..
2006-10-25 04:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough money for a date... with you. Maybe, all he can afford to ask is a neighbor nearby, to go out and have a walk under the moonlight in the neighborhood road.
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2006-10-25 04:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by mug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you should ask him for sure. Think of all the work of the feminist movement... women are in the workplace, performing demanding jobs. The fact that most of 'em still can't reverse dating gender roles is... interesting. Try turning the tables and being proactive
2006-10-25 04:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by djdep13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same boat as you, this guy texts me all the time and when he's drunk they ae very flirty texts but he stil hasnt ask me out on a date. I was out the other night and he ask where I was and if I wanted to meet him and when I said yes he lefted it for abit and then said his mate wouldnt lend him any money so he couldnt meet me.....??
2006-10-25 05:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is, do you really want him to ask you out on a date? Remember long-distance relationships doesn't work without hard hard work! Do you really think things will work out - that you could stay true to him and him to you? I think you should think rational, is this just a fling or is this worth all the trouble just to get hurt? Hope that helps* Jesse
2006-10-25 04:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's ashame do a little push. And if flirting doesn't worked go asked him. and one more thing don't listen to Val the first person who answer just be yourself.
2006-10-25 04:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by Non-English 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casually ask if he'd like to see a movie with you, offer to go dutch. Covers all bases that way.
2006-10-25 05:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be coz he is afraid that u will deny. You can ask him out too.
Comeon....its not necessary only for boys to take a step. He told u about his feeling. Now..its ur turn to respond and make it further going. :):)
all the best
2006-10-25 04:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by contactvikash716 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because he's married with 8 children?
2006-10-25 04:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋