My mate has JUST broken up with her boyfriend and shes absolutely shattered. She isnt in the mood to talk or nothing.
I was just curious, what could I say to help her?
2006-10-24 21:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just be with her, make her laugh.
try to make her forget that incident. like let her do some work with u, like helping u .she would surely help u right??!
and this will help u in diverting her towards better things!
Good Luck and God Bless u for thinking so much about ur mate, very few people do that and ur GREAT!!
2006-10-24 22:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Arty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say many things. Be precise and truthful to ur feelings.
People in that ituation may become too much crtical about ur acts. Just listen to what she has to say. and even if she doesnt want to talk abt it...say her that 'Just know, I'm with you and will be no metter what. Whenevr u want to talk about anything I'm alwyas here'
Try to feel her sentiments. As I dont know her nature...so, I suggest u to think after becoming her.
caution: for some people in some situations, no support isbest support.
2006-10-24 21:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by contactvikash716 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be a bit freaked out since it's a little suggestive of "Girl, I kinda have a crush on you..." But if she likes you I'm sure it'll be okay. =) I would try to do it in a way thats a bit more casual. Eg. fold it as you're talking to her in person. It makes her less nervous and you as well.
2016-05-22 12:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep calling her to say hi. If she still moping, go to her place and drag her out of her place, go shopping, dinner, disco, meet new guys, somewhere that will chnage her mood for awhile. Recovery needs a lot of time. help her to forget his x. goodluck!
2006-10-24 21:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her get out of bed and go out. Have a wonderful time. Show her their is more to life than that boyfriend of hers.
2006-10-24 21:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you're there willing to lend her a shoulder to cry on.or better yet,let her for few days,when she finally pull her self up,ask her to talk about it.
2006-10-24 21:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by carmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something funny. try to make her laugh. make her feel important. words sometimes are not the best answer.
2006-10-24 21:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by kruzito21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you are for her. That is all she needs.
2006-10-24 21:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Doc M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋