I have been dating a girl for 3 years. I love how caring, respectful, giving, reliable, loyal, hard working, and competent she is. She would make a lovely wife, but I am not really attracted to her appearance. I get a headache when I think of spending my life with her, and I am overcome with EXTREME EXTREME anxiety when I think of committing myself exclusively to her, such as being married to her. Do I need medication to control my anxiety, so that I can get over this hump??? Maybe she is the best thing that will ever happen to me, & I just need to make the commitment, and settle in with her (i.e.GET MARRIED)and after a few years, maybe I will have become comfortable being with a wonderful girl, like her, and everything will be fine.... or am I just thinking wishfully???
2006-10-24
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