2006-10-24 19:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by delias 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's someone out there for everyone. Be patient and love will come knocking eventually.
2006-10-24 19:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not given enough information
so I have to do the best I can to answer your question.
I am not a fortune teller, if that is what you are looking for.
I don't think you can ever find Love. Love is an action, a doing word. It is not based on feelings.
If you mean, will you ever find someone to love, I would have to say, yes, because that is something your heart desires.
Finding a right person dosn't exist because you, have to work at being that right person.
In order to be in a healthy, loving relationship, you have to work on your skills. It's more than just appearance(that dosn't last).
Love is about "giving of yourself totally to another human being".
It's not about getting what you want.
But in the giving, you also receive Love because I what you are doing. I hope that makes sense.
Now, you want to look for that special person.
They don't exist, but you do and you can BE that special person.
Sometimes, we are fortunate enough to meet that person when we are not really looking, but other times it may mean joining
a social group or taking up a hobby in order to meet someone.
Some people find success with online dating. If you wanted to try this, than that's fine. You can actually do your own picking.
Make sure you don't base everything on looks. Sure, there must be an attraction, but falling in Love with someone is about falling
in love with their character, their personality..
It is amazing how attractive a person's personality can be when they have some flaws in their physical appearance.
Keep your expectations at a normal level. Not too high or not too low. Look for someone like-minded. Opposites never attract.
I know. I married someone like-minded and I have a very loving
and supportive marriage.
Lastly, be yourself!! No-one likes a fake at the end of the day.
There is nothing wrong with working on your appearance if it helps you feel better. So,if you have to lose some weight, do so, but moderately. Don't go on any crash diets. Just eat normally and sensibly.
Try a new hair cut or colour or buy some new make-up.
Having a colour expert do your colours is a good way of finding what clothes suit you best.
The most important thing is to enjoy yourself and don't put too much emphasis on trying to "find Love".
Love will find you --- if you work at it.
But you must relax and enjoy yourself.
Hope this answers your question.
2006-10-25 02:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is someone out there for everyone. Of course you will find love!! I didn't think I would, but then one day while I was working at the arcade, doing my job...he walked in. He smiled at me and said hello...and from then on out...we have been together.
It honestly just takes time. Love isn't a rushed ordeal. Yes, it may take time, or no time at all, but when that person comes into your life, you will know it. It will be like an old lady hitting you in the face with a sack of bricks. (Not literally speaking...I mean that it will be so obvious that that is the right person for you.)
When the time comes when you find Mr./Ms. Right, you will be happier than ever. I would rather wait forever for the one I love than be with someone I don't want. I am happily with the one I love now, and it took lots of time for me. You just got to keep your head up and your faith in tact. It will happen, just give it some time.
2006-10-25 02:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Damien's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not
dont lose hope but i think that a person should never look for love and try to find it it will come to u so it can please and live in happiness
i believe in soulmates and i know there is this person who is hiding there in the big world looking for u and waiting for ur meeting so dont rush things and make urself busy with somethig else cuz if it is ur time to fall in love and u were depressed and sad and hopless u will never be able to notice it
2006-10-25 02:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by aha i wanna know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course.
actually you dont find love., LOVE finds you.
no matter where you are or what and who you are, LOVE will always lok for you. jus dont get frustrated or anxious. LOVE works in mysterious ways.
it wont hurt if you consistently pray for it. be specific with GOD. HE is more than generous.
dont worry, i understand how you feel.
=)
2006-10-25 02:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by MARIA JANICE 31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find it when you stop looking for it. Treat everyone like you want to be treated and the right one will present itself.
2006-10-25 02:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Speed Of Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you will, but then again maybe love will find you...
2006-10-25 02:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by BillyDaKidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows !
but one day your heart will beat without giving you a pre notice
so just move on and it will come to you
2006-10-25 02:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by Soulmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell do we know ??? Go ask your magic 8 ball !!!
2006-10-25 02:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it finds you, and if your lucky it doesn't leave you broken.
-NmD!
2006-10-25 02:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋