Some of them are, but most of them don't know how.
I seen to enjoy it when girls are assertive and tell me what to do.
2006-10-24 17:25:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just sit like a good boy and let me take charge!
2006-10-24 17:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men feel emasculated by aggressive women. Aggressive and Assertive are not the same thing and are used interchangeably. Aggressive is pushy and bossy. Assertive is speaking your mind in a respectful way with out being off putting; while still being able to get your needs met.
Men hate women who make them feel threatened. In order for women to have boyfriends/husbands, and the like, some have to cut back on some of the "haterade" to be like-able.
Real men don't need to be told what to do. (sorry)
2006-10-26 10:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So teach her why don't ya. She'll pick it up fast enough. Some men don't like assertive women, but if your girl knows that you like assertiveness, you may not be able to stop her.
2006-10-24 17:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got called selfish for being assertive.
2006-10-24 17:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, but girls have ego's, just like men. If a girl says no to you, how does it make you feel ? Girls feel that 3 times harder than males, because of all our extra hormones happening !.....lol This what I believe.
Hope it's helpful.. Good Luck
2006-10-24 17:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being assertive has its merits and downfalls, woman today are still trying find the balance whilst men do...........well whateva they do.
2006-10-24 17:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love assertive women .but most women they are not, too bad
2006-10-24 17:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA, you say that now, IAM ASSERTIVE, that should be my first name, you dont want to see me in line at safeway though, anybody who cuts in front of me...WATCH OUT, IAM BIG AND I LOVE IT!
2006-10-27 10:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you what to do? where's the fun in that? i honestly prefer a man who knows how to think for himself, knows how to make his own decisions, in short - someone who has his own brains and one who does not depend on his girlfriend for his day to day itinerary and otherwise. i honestly do not appreciate being told what to do either.
2006-10-24 17:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we are assertive, men call us pushy and b****, so imagine why we don't do it more, hhhmmmmmmmm?
2006-10-24 17:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by LatterDaySaint and loving it 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋