Ive known this girl for a while, and Im pretty confident that me and her share the same feelings about one another. Im not into any fancy pickup lines, Im just looking for some ways to ask out a chick without pressuring her into going out and such. Ive heard the suggestion to not let her say yes/no. For example like in office space where he walks in and talks to jennifer aniston and says he would be over at the restaurant next door. and did the famous line "If so thats cool, if not thats cool too" Is this really effective at all? I was thinking of just being like, hey this is my number call me if you want to hang out sometime and not let her say anything, and just let her think about it. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
2006-10-24 17:31:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lines like that lead to confusion, I would like to know that the person really wants to go out with me..I think the best way to ask someone without pressure is something like this..." have you seen that new movie?...No?..well I was thinking of going on Friday...would you like to see it with me?"that way no pressure if she says no...you don't look like a doofus...and its a real date is she wants it to be...
2006-10-24 17:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in high school, I have dated a couple of girls. My suggestion is go on a couple dates before asking her out. Such as do want to go play tennis or do want to go get some coffee, something not particuarly romantic, just fun. Maybe on the third date be like I have really enjoyed spending time with you, I know we are just friends. I was wondering if you wanted to go out with me. By the third date you should know for sure whether or not her answer will be yes. This will allow you to ask her a yes or no question worry free. Then you don't have to be suave and ist in the restaurant across the street by yourself. Good luck bud!
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2006-10-24 17:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by saved_33ad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be creative !!! send her a singing telegram or send her flowers and ask her out on the card, be different make her want to be with you because of your spontaneity
2006-10-24 17:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a sweet card, in the card say you wanna go out with me?, then draw 2 boxes with yes and no, and leave your number. it worked on me!!! hope that helps. sweet and simple
2006-10-24 17:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by necca789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well just ask her out im sure u want the truth so she will eaither say yes or no
2006-10-24 17:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by fabstar15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to do something one night, like go out for a burger?
2006-10-24 17:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a bravish person...then get a sugar packet and tell her that she dropped her name tag.
2006-10-24 17:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋