I have been casually dating this guy for a couple weeks. He works ALOT and we only see eacher maybe once a week besides the two days we have school together... He wants to have a serious relationship with me. I said i diid too but now im having seconds thoughts. Its not like his work schedule is going to change anytime soon. and im going to mexico for 10 days in about 3 weeks, then he is going to l.a. with friends over christmas.. I know myself and i havent been very faithfull in past relationships. I really like this guy but i know spending time together is a big part...If im not with him i might find someone else... i dont know what to do. should i break up with him before things get to serious and i A. hurt him or B. it is a waste of time or shud i take the risk and hope it turns out to wonderfull cuz he is a wonderfull, nice guy.....AHHHHHHH helppp me
2006-10-24 17:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i cheated in the past they guys were lame and yes i know it was wrong but i think if i am attracted enough to one guy i wouldnt think about others.. u know...
2006-10-24 17:34:28 · update #1
People ASK to have a serious relationship?? you are either serious or you are not...tell him you would love to date him, and if things work out well you will both know it and pare it down to just each other....don't be in such a rush to commit to one person...for some reason these days people think that once they date someone it has to be just them...but the smart thing to do is date a few different people...you will soon see who is best suited to you and who you enjoy being with suddenly you will realize...that hes the one.
2006-10-24 17:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Failed good judgment. In God's image does no longer propose we are appropriate. Humanity does no longer fail. i does no longer prefer life any other way. provide me corruption, tyranny, and oppression over utopia any day of the week. i like life, each little bit of it. all the badness in this worldwide is the cost of unfastened will. a great good purchase, I say. some are greater advantaged than others, yet that's the success of the draw. together, i does no longer have humanity any other way.
2016-11-25 19:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by virgen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know you have a problem with commitment then why even bother hurting this guy. If he is so wonderful like you say then why would you want to ruin your friendship by cheating on him when you were dating and have him lose all respect for you.
2006-10-24 17:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by eonetiller 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since you are having your own doubts, it's best that you do not take it serious and wait it out. see what happens while the both of you are away. You heard that saying: "Hearts grow fonder when you are apart" See if this is the case when you are away. if not, then no hard feelings.
2006-10-24 17:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep him on the side :) haha jk, if you know yourself, and you believe you can't be faithfull, then break up with him. In the end if you don't, you'll hurt him, and maybe yourself too
2006-10-24 17:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've always believed that if two people were really meant for each other, no matter where they go, how long they'll be gone, how many people come between the two of them - they will always find themselves in each other's arms. no matter what. think about it.
2006-10-24 17:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be in any relationship if you can't remain faithful. If you do choose to be in a relationship again, you should remain faithful.
2006-10-24 17:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just date him, and see him when you can, date other people, this way it can develop later...maybe
2006-10-24 17:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby you should put it on hold until your schedules are in order. and i'm sure there are ways you can make time for each other, just try.=)
2006-10-24 17:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by nightowl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is having trouble fitting you in around his two other girl Friends
2006-10-24 17:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋