There's this guy that I like and he likes me. I talk to a lot of guys at school. He says that the reason y our relationship wont go any farther is because I talk/flirt with too many guys. I really want to be with this one guy... what should I do?
2006-10-24 17:04:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that's a warning sign right there. You are just talking to guys, right? What is the big deal with that? he sounds like he may be a bit jealous and insecure. Maybe once you start dating him you won't be talking to all the other guys, but be careful of guys who are trying to change you before you even start a relationship with them. He should be glad you are such an outgoing and friendly person. that's part of what makes you who you are -and possibly one of the things that attracts him to you!
2006-10-24 17:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a controlling @#$%! I suggest you stay away from guys who try to control whom you "talk to" . But I also can tell from your question that you are very young and will prob end up falling for this mediocre loser. Mostly people only learn from experience but I also can tell that your inner wisdom is kicking in a bit or you wouldn't be here second guessing this clown. There are many books that I will site in my sources below that I hope that you will read my young sister. If you get nothing else from this my answer consider this paraphrase from stunning beauty/legendary actress Katherine Hepburn's opinion about women and relationships: "Why settle for what will be the eventual hatred of one man when a girl can have the forever adoration of many men"? I believe that now. And I am a former big-time serial dater, married and divorced 2 times.
2006-10-24 17:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by blackpurringkat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with this guy, then no, you should definitely not be flirting with other guys. Just be sure that the two of you don't have 'talk' and 'flirt' confused. You're perfectly able to do one without the other, and nobody has the right to prevent you from making innocent conversation.
2006-10-24 17:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's as hot as me probably not, take him out , show him a good time, let loose sing him a song that is how I would do it but only with u and u only because u are the one for me... I mean him sorry I got caught up in all of this romance, man it's been a while I hate it up here in Alaska
2006-10-24 17:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by DoingItRight! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking and flirting are very different.
Talking to many...I see no issue as long as common conversation.
However, flirting with many may give him the impression that you're not stable and serious enough to settle for any single fellow.
Good luck.
2006-10-24 17:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your reason why you always talk to too many guys?
are you really flirting with them,, if yes then stop it if you really want to save your relationship with your guy,,
but if they are nothing but a chatmate then still better control it,,, maybe your guy is just jealous seeing you wiht another guy,,
now that your with him at least give him the due respect as you bf,,
i you can control it or select guys whom you would talk with,
2006-10-24 17:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just talking to other guys, you're not trying to get with them or flirt or whatever. If he's trying to control you before you two are going out, imagine the crazy **** he'll put you through when you two do go out.
2006-10-24 17:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking and or flirting with other guys.
2006-10-24 17:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice to the other guyz but dont act like a little flirt
cuz thats when people talk siht about you and say
how much attention does she need she is a slut and bla bla bla
so just be nice and give most of ur attention to THE GUY
2006-10-24 17:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by ez-goin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop talking to guys
2006-10-24 17:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by mrkitties420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋