We dated 5 years ago and just got back in touch. I am just hesitant, because he got out of a relationship 3 months ago and I don't want to be the rebound. Do you think he is flying me out because he cares about me and wants a relationship or because he wants a booty call? Keep in mind that we talk everyday for hours and he seems really excited about the trip, like he has everything all planned out. I live halfway across the country, so this is a little crazy for me. The only reason I can't see it being a booty call is because he wouldnt need to fly a girl out, he is gorgeous and because we talk so much. What do you think?
2006-10-24 16:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by carolyn k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS: we have been talkin for several hours for about 8 weeks now and he is planning on coming to visit me for New Years...
2006-10-24 16:31:23 · update #1
I'm sure he'd probably love to have sex with you too, but as you said, he probably can find an easier way to get it, if that is all he wants. He doesn't need to spend hundreds of dollars on airfare to get just sex. Since you guys have spent so much time talking to each other, I think you should give the guy the benefit of the doubt.
2006-10-24 16:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by KT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if it is a booty call, you should go with your feelings and feel pretty good that he wants to fly YOU across country just for that. Damn girl you must be good. Take it slow if you need to but be upfront about it and truthful. I would take that as a compliment because any guy can get some strange, know what I mean ?
2006-10-24 16:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that he is going to fly you across the country for a booty call. He may want to see you so you can have another try at a relationship. Give it a chance.
2006-10-24 16:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i really couldnt tell much about it from this but id say like u sed that its not a booty call cmon u n this guy hav been talkin 4 weeks n hours i doubt hed fly u all the way out just 2 hav sex relax n enjoy the fact that he wants u 2 visit him
2006-10-24 16:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to really find out if it is a booty call or not. . . don't have sex with him and see his reaction or if he still talks to you the same when you return back home.
2006-10-24 16:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by ypierre77 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it sounds like he really wants to see you and hey if a booty call comes up well then you do what fills right
have fun!!!
2006-10-24 16:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THIN THAT ANY ONE WOULD WASTE TIME AND MONEY TO BE WITH SOMEONE THAT THEY HAVE TO PAY
TO SEE. WOULD WANT A BOOTY CALL. HE CAN GET
THAT AT HOME. SINCE YOU DO TALK THEN YOU NEED
TO JUST EXPLAIN HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT THIS.
AND IF IT OK. ENJOY THE TIME TOGETHER.
2006-10-24 16:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you talk for hours, maybe he does want more than sex. But he definitely wants sex.
2006-10-24 16:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by WJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any one will just fly some one over fro just sex.. so... cut some slack...he might like you...
2006-10-24 17:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sex is better than a relationship
2006-10-24 16:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋