for two years off and on. he is 14 years older then me, and works a lot. we first started off as friends with benifets, but in the last 4 months it turned in to something more. im starting to fall for him and not sure how he would respond to that if i tell him. he travels a lot for work and we see each other about twice a month, so that makes it hard. im not sure if i should tell him how i feel or of i should just keep being a friend with benefits.
2006-10-24 16:26:36 · 2 answers · asked by ang. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just keep it how it is and maybe it will go somewhere sometime. I have a friend like that but we have been doing it for 3 years now. I never really have told him how I fell unless he brings it up
2006-10-24 16:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by jstressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you really be able to have a giving, trusting, honest relationship with someone you only see twice a month? How do you know he doesn't have friends with benefits in all the other cities he travels to? Wouldn't you always wonder if there was even if there was some small chance that he wasn't using you and would actually want a relationship? Hon, you deserve so much better than what he's be able to offer you. I'd say try to find someone who wants to be with you more than just whenever he has a spare hour to fill.
2006-10-25 00:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jen B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋