After I have had time away from my ex it is always so great to see her again, but then she starts getting all clingy and emotional, smothering me. She starts lying and I just end it and walk away again. But she is always planning and waiting for me to come back. She always buys me stuff trying to compensate and I don't like gifts because I know it represents her hard work and time. Anyone else had a similar situation.
2006-10-24 16:23:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have learned the hard way that exes are exes for a reason. Some people grow and change, yes, but the basic personality remains the same. If you had been compatible with the basic personality, you probably would not have split to begin with. Besides...why waste time with someone who lies and tries to buy your affections? Sounds a bit shallow to me. I may be wrong....
2006-10-24 16:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o my gawd he he *winks at jesse* me n this guy named jesse (i always used 2 call him jess) were like that 4 the longest time id be away from him then wed try the whole datin thing agen n id realize y i ended it in the 1st place its normal 2 want ur exes bak after havin sumthin with em u cant expect jus 2 let it be over n done with wen it happens but u can try things over sumtimes doin it agen makes u realize y u did it in the 1st place
2006-10-24 23:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gone back to my ex many times. Neither of us were ready for a serious relationship and just kept hurting each other. Now we are together and going strong.
2006-10-24 23:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because when it is over it is over if it did not work out why should i try to get hurt again i am easy going but i stand firm with what i say
2006-10-24 23:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by edward b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an on-again-off-again thing for 4 years... that is just miserable drama and I think no good can come of it. My new rule: one shot, and when it's over, it's over, don't break up unless you mean it.
2006-10-24 23:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by zmj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... i was sort of more being helped with everything so it was like 'i need him'
all i can say is- remove the chain and run free!
guilt is a heavy burden to carry and will cast a shadow over your 'happiness' with her. She is trying to 'keep' you.
*nobody 'owns' anybody
2006-10-24 23:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋