i dont want to upset or hurt her eventhough i still love her i have other temtations for other girls?
2006-10-24 16:21:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
full fill your temtations otherwise in both the cases you will have mental tension after wards
2006-10-24 16:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mama used to say, as long as there is no ring on your finger, you are free to date whoever you want. The temptation of an attractive woman will always be there, even after you've been married for years and have a family. The important thing is that you act on that temptation now while you are single, and not after you are in a committed relationship. No ring equals freedom to follow your desires.
2006-10-24 23:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her you will not yield to the temptations. The fact that you find other girls attractive is normal, but what you do about it is the thing that matters. It would not be worth losing someone special for a few moments of pleasure because you would always regret having made such an immature and selfish decision. Please don't betray the one you love.
2006-10-24 23:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to have urge to look at other women and to be with them. This is even more evident the younger you are, but my problem is that I looked at your previous questions. They are all about this relationship, so after seeing that i'd say bro you knew from the get go that this relationship isn't going to work out. Man be a gentlemen and face the facts about what you're doing.
2006-10-24 23:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by mathewhp22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stop feeling that temptation you're dead.
Don't beat yourself up over it. You're a guy.
But don't tell your girl. Why hurt her?
Remember that she's the one you love and the only reason that other girl is tempting is because you haven't found out what's really annoying about her yet...
2006-10-24 23:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one. Depending on your age it shouldn't be a life altering decision.
Either way you need to figure out why you're tempted first and the "it's not you it's me" speech... leave that one out.
Staying with someone just so you don't hurt her doesn't help it makes you resentful and when she finds out it hurts more.
2006-10-24 23:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love her that much if your thinking about other girls...
Other girls are just sex - you've got to realise this. To follow your whims would destroy your relationship as trust would have been breached, whether or not she finds out.
Try experimenting with your girl - tell her you need more from her sexually.. you should be able to get all you need from one girl without resorting to 10 second flings with strangers..
2006-10-24 23:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU STAY IN THE RELATIONSHIP FOR THE WRONG REASONS THEN YOU WILL BE HURTING HER MORE
YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HER, THAT WOULD
THE RIGHT THING TO DO. IT WILL HURT HER MORE
WHEN AND IF SHE FIND OUT THAT YOU ARE CHEATING
ON HER. DO NT YOU THINK, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF
THE SHOE WAS ON THE OTHER FOOT.
2006-10-24 23:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont leave her, or take a break ans see which girl u like better, but dont jump into the other girl to soon. byeeee
2006-10-24 23:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a 22 year old female and i would tell you to talk her into a threesome then your getting both of what you want
2006-10-24 23:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋