Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

Should i be concerned that my girlfriend and I say "i love you" to each other? i'm 16, she's 15. it seems kinda early for that. I have been going out with her for 6 months though...

2006-10-24 16:14:42 · 9 answers · asked by cross country runner 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok well I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 and half years now... I really care for him so much. Like a toooooooooon. But a couple days ago we had a talk. He told me he used to be a female... I was shocked when i heard this. I thought he was kidding but he really wasn't. What do i do?? Please help i really care for "him". Does this make me lesbian in any way!!?? Help me!!!!!!!

2006-10-24 16:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we got married she only weighed 120 lbs. After she gave birth to our son last year she gained almost 40lbs. She looks awful naked and I just don't feel attracted to her anymore. I met a girl at work last week and we had lunch. The next day I met her at a Motel and we had sex. It was awesome but I did feel kind of guilty.Should I stop?, I mean I didn't make my wife eat too much and gain all that weight. Why should I suffer. I'm a man and I have needs. Last night my wife was at night school and I had my new girl come over and we made love on mine and my wifes bed. Was that wrong?

2006-10-24 16:13:46 · 49 answers · asked by mrharderson 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If you feel anxious, belittled,betrayed, unappreciated, dumped on.......why is it so hard to let go? I know some of you have been with someone like this. You knew you should leave but you just couldn't. What should I do? How do I get the courage to leave?

2006-10-24 16:12:16 · 17 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 7 months pregnant with his child, unemployed at the moment, and I'm catching him flirting with women online, giving out his number, etc... I've caught him talking to other women on the phone, too. Basically, I've confronted him and he says that "i'm not married to no one." He's not working at the moment either and we're supposed to move into a family house of his until I have the baby and we get back on our feet...he's now saying that he's not sure he wants to do that with me because of the way i've been acting....I've been acting!!!! I have no family to help me out and I have a nine year old son with me. Should I just accept his behaviors and deal with them, be quiet and not confront him anymore...??? He says he loves me and he's not doing anything, but I'm looking at it differently. I'm very emotional right now and I've been there for him the past two years during a serious disability for him and supported him. Now that I'm pregnant and unemployed, I feel like he's not.

2006-10-24 16:12:15 · 12 answers · asked by itsuptome92171 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello, why do women get nose and tongue rings? whats the significance? i find it hot! thanks for your answers..

2006-10-24 16:12:12 · 6 answers · asked by Dan S. White 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres about 1000 things in details i'm leaving out, but the main thing is my childs father after a path of moral destruction and after my duaghter lived me me alone for over a year on my birthday took her to KC to my fathers and moved in on the other side of his double by using some of my fathers hidden angers about women and lies and exaggerations and a ton of other stuff that you wouldnt even beleive. My problem is dealing with my duaghter who is 3 calling all the time with the sadest voice telling me she wants to come home and he says she is home, he also says the main reason he is really doing this is because he doesnt want me to have a boyfriend and has absolutley no care or consideration twords her feelings whatsoever its purely as punishment to me, How could he do this and and have tried legal measures but they just believe him I'm just lost I dont even know what i;m asking basically how to deal with knowing her pain, I was there to at her same exact age.

2006-10-24 16:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by KIMBUR 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 16:10:43 · 15 answers · asked by brig 1 in Singles & Dating

we'll only have about 9 hours to spend together

2006-10-24 16:10:04 · 6 answers · asked by blue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my spouse filed for divorce said it was over and then two weeks later comes and sees me we talk then we made love and continued on but still he still divorcing me but yet still loves me why is he doing this?

2006-10-24 16:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by frances 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cannot hate, loves everyone, forgives easily, still does not hate the ones that hurt them. Cannot stay loyal in a relationship because of what happened to them. and doesnt know how to overcome the insecurity or the fear of commitment and finnally let go of what the thought they'd let go of allready? I guess i dont know how to ask what im asking but if you can relate, you allready understand what im getting at. When your memories are not sharp but dull from your own mental defense to protect you. When your not sure what is truth or lie in your own memories because of the fairy world you made up as a child to protect you...Does anyone understand? Im trying to understand myself. Im also a Gemini (if that has any meaning)

2006-10-24 16:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well this girl I met a few days ago is starting to grow on me. But I suspect that she may have a boyfriend. Whats a disceet way of finding out without being rude?

2006-10-24 16:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by stephenjlb 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my girlfriend for three years and im a hundred percent she is the one. We want to get married after our second year of college and i just wonder if this could complicate things or if i am rushing into it. I personally would marry her tommorow but i just dont want to jump into things to quickly.

2006-10-24 16:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by c b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-24 16:08:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you know, the 2 little dimples that SOME GIRLS have right above their butt, on the small of thier back?! I have them, and I dont see the hype. If anything, I've had people ask me "why do you have those dents?"

so basically, WHY do guys like them so much?!

2006-10-24 16:08:18 · 15 answers · asked by woah 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I have a boyfriend who I love being around, but there's this guy at work that told me that he would ask me out if I wasn't with my boyfriend. I really like this guy as a friend and nothing more. I told my boyfriend about him and he said that it's not wrong for me to keep talking to him as long as I don't think it's wrong. I would never cheat on my boyfriend, but I still like talking to this guy. He always tells me that I'm beautiful and awesome all the time. I feel really guilty and I don't know what I should do. Any feedback is great...

2006-10-24 16:07:39 · 17 answers · asked by alifox40 1 in Singles & Dating

Your outgoing, and you want to act shy.

2006-10-24 16:07:07 · 10 answers · asked by no body special 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married and my kids father and I have always been friends, for about 15 yrs now however he's was incarerated when I got married now that he is out my husband is really paranoid which is causing alot of friction in the household, and he no longer wants me to be friend with this dude,
by the way my kids father and I have never had a serious relationship it was just casual sex every now and then.
Should I let my husband tell me rather i should be friends with him or not?

2006-10-24 16:06:33 · 25 answers · asked by eutaw29048 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just need words of encouragement bc I figure there really is no answer for this...

2006-10-24 16:06:23 · 11 answers · asked by Susan W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think something is wrong with my yahoo messenger

2006-10-24 16:05:54 · 4 answers · asked by edward b 3 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-24 16:05:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband says he wants his personal belongings but yet wont give me an answer to pick them up and we only communicate thru email, we still love each other but he feel he needs to go on his own for awhile he is 46 years old and his a very introvert person but he confuses me when he says he wants them but wont pick them up

2006-10-24 16:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by frances 1 in Marriage & Divorce

has anyone seen her? shes a friend of mine that was last seen headed toward wal mart. i dont think shes in danger, but could be lost.

2006-10-24 16:04:03 · 1 answers · asked by rhonda3826 5 in Friends

no comment!

2006-10-24 16:03:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but I don`t know how to talk to him
What can I do?

2006-10-24 16:03:30 · 3 answers · asked by Jaima 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

lmao!! Im just playin'...Anyway, im 15. I got this bf who's 18 and lives not so close...We met online and we've been talking for like 11/2 yrs now. I really love him, but my family dont know about him. The problem is that im not allowed 2 talk 2 guys or go out w/ em (kinda part of the religion) and im afraid if my parents find out they will freak out and make me lose any contact i have with him. My sister know though, but she just thinks that we are just friends, she doesnt know that were a couple now. My question is should i keep talking 2 him and feel guilty or should i dump him and turn misreable 4 losing the best guy i have ever left? PLz i need help! THNX!

2006-10-24 16:02:56 · 4 answers · asked by LiVE.L0VE.LAUGH :]♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes... i have a big crush for my teacher... you will say i'm obbssesed...i don't know... i guess i love him to much and he attract me so much... The problem is that I don't understand what he want from me. Now he is all smiling seeing me, next he is all angry he tells me hi like he wants me to go away, than he doesn't know what to do to be around me and talk to me , next he pass away near me not evan looking at me....there are like all these body language signs that make me crazy. I actually behave the same like him, but we are in contrast, when i'm nice he is mean , when i barelly say hi he wants to talk with me. I have all my classes in the same building where he teaches and i get to see him like 3 or 4 times , but he is no longer my teacher, but i still feel like a fire going inside me and also stop me thinking and talking with him. Usually he makes fun of everybody , i was the only one who said the people around us that i'm a special person.He aware somebody to not stay around me.

2006-10-24 16:02:55 · 9 answers · asked by cuttiegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well these girls are bein mean to me and touching my head and stuff ( i had on extentions, cip-ins) and trying to take it off and embarrass me.... also one puched me ( i told on her but it got nowhere) and next time on of them does this i want to konw if i should puch them back or hit them.... what should i do?

2006-10-24 16:02:26 · 3 answers · asked by kisses_in_the_rain212 2 in Friends

I am 18. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 years. We love each other so much. Is it wrong to think that I am going to marry him especially since we are still young and still in high school?

2006-10-24 16:02:15 · 3 answers · asked by Melinda 2 in Singles & Dating

I am part of a Catholic family. Recently I found my brother watching gay pornography. He even had a few pictures saved of guys. He is 13 years old. WHAT DO I DO? Do I tell my parents? And if I should, how do I break the news? My head is spinning like a top...
Help me please...

2006-10-24 16:02:09 · 59 answers · asked by TroubledOne 1 in Family