Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

ok so... i know this guy and he is trying to go a little farther than i want. and i've been telling him no and he has stopped. it's not the guy who does it anyway. i'm just looking for another way to tell him that thats not what i wanna right now. How should i tell him in like another way that is not like half way embarrasing?? Like i said, he isn't the jerk that pressures me into doing things... i'm just looking for another way to say that i don't want to do all that he is wanting to do with me.

2006-10-24 15:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 16 year old seems to pick girls that are rude, rebellious, have no respect for authority, and one was even burning others with a cigarette! I have tried explaining all the reasons why he should not associate with them, but he just says he doesn't want a girlfriend that is a goody two shoes. We have had to make him break it off with a couple of girls because they were mean and abusive. We don't know how to get him to find friends with good morals, values and respect.Can anyone help?

2006-10-24 15:22:17 · 2 answers · asked by moose on the loose 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-24 15:21:49 · 14 answers · asked by edward b 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 15:21:38 · 1 answers · asked by dee 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is wonderful but on the other hand awful he has depression and is on medication. He is good we have been through alot but we have a problem when it comes to money he won't share the household expenses 50/50 thats what i want he only wants to pay half the house payment and some of the light bill i pay everything else including food. Everytime we discuss it he says he wants to move out and get an apartment we are going to counceling to get thru this issue but he tells her everything she wants to hear but when we get home its different. He is wonderful except money what should i do.

2006-10-24 15:21:26 · 10 answers · asked by mistiful2001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is Cambodian and I think he is the sexiest guy out there!

2006-10-24 15:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 15:20:31 · 14 answers · asked by Deanna C 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like girls who are skinny, tall, and not thick or curvy.I myself am 5'10 and like 125lbs so i am not scary thin jst sorta thin.I am not flat chested i am like a 34B with a small waist and a flat stomache but i have no hips or butt or what not and not to mention that i act like what they call at my school aa super virgin.not by how i dress but my experience wit boys is this a turn off?

2006-10-24 15:20:22 · 8 answers · asked by Claire321614 2 in Singles & Dating

I’m an adult man from NYC. I don't want to meet people on the internet. When I go to bars and stuff but I feel over whelmed by the whole experience. Just looking for a better place.

2006-10-24 15:19:38 · 5 answers · asked by Prep school dropout 2 in Singles & Dating

moms be supportive of the ones you love. getting connected any way you can helps.

2006-10-24 15:19:25 · 8 answers · asked by Michele S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a high school student.
I have a pretty good GPA.
I've never been on a date in my life.
I like this girl, and have so ever since the 8th grade (I won't say my grade, but it's been more than 2 years)
She's in 1 of my classes out of many.
I either only say 1 word to her, or none. I don't really know her that well.
I like her. I always think about her. I weep that I can't be with her. Like Superman in Smallville, HAHAHAHA.

I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me, and I can't do anything about that. She's single, but isn't looking for anyone right now. She sits right in front of me in class, and on rare occassions (I put too many s's in there, didn't I?, she says hi to me, and I say hi back, chuckle a little (stupid me) then she turns back around..

Advice please? Please don't tell me that I should wait, get to know her better, try talking to her, hanging out, blah blah blah...you have to try and see what I'm trying to say! It's hard for me to describe...please help......

2006-10-24 15:18:19 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

look my boyfriend hes awsome and hott and cute and sweet and all that stuff but,he is just too tuchy with me!!do i have to say no or can i stay with him a little longer?if i have to say no i dont know how to but im only in like5th grade and every day he kisses me on cheek!common people help me out here!

2006-10-24 15:17:48 · 9 answers · asked by jhoward412 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-24 15:17:00 · 5 answers · asked by DeAnna 5 in Family

I am a woman with no job, no money, no marriage and only 29 years living. I have a good lover but he never promises marriage on me. I got into university for my postgraduation and wish a bright future for me. But I am puzzled how to build it from now on. Who could tell me something? Thanks for your advice!

2006-10-24 15:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by jane j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my friend j whos in 10th grade had beer cans in his car and his dad found them and took them away and j got really mad so he was gunna pretend to hang himself and then he accidently did and then well died. and now like everyone in school is makin up gay shyt like that he purposely did it and stuff. and then like i tell ppl the truth and they say that its just gossip wtf???

2006-10-24 15:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by helen. 2 in Friends

2006-10-24 15:15:58 · 11 answers · asked by hottie 2 in Singles & Dating

there was this girl that i liked in one of my classes. so i wrote her a letter saying that i liked her, but there was no reaction from her so i thought she never got it and then i erote another one. that happen one more time so i wrote a third letter. then i finally said to my skelf i just going to go up to her and ask her. when i asked her about the letter, she tells me she has a boy friend. i want to know why she did not tell me after the first letter. what do u think???

2006-10-24 15:15:40 · 6 answers · asked by etat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 15:15:28 · 10 answers · asked by sportychick 1 in Family

What should I do with these gifts. Do any of you have the same gifts? It is sort of cool, sort of spooky?

2006-10-24 15:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you met a really nice woman, and you found out that she was a widow and was left with five young children, would you try to pursue a relationship, or would that scare you off?

2006-10-24 15:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by chickmomma5 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 15:14:13 · 3 answers · asked by hondapride67 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a great body. I get a thrill out of showing it off. I don't mean wearing revealing clothes. I mean flashing and undressing with the shades up, that kinda stuff. He use to love it too. Now all of a sudden he gets mad.

2006-10-24 15:13:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do? i am really hurt with my friend,her b-day was last month and i gave her $100 gift certificate to help her get an ipod she wanted and now its my b-day and she returned the gift card back to me and said that we should not give gifts just take each other out to lunch,this really hurt because i really like her and wanted to give the gift certificate and i was not expecting for her to give me something back.
she did take me to lunch and gave me a card and the gift certificate i think the lunch and the card was great,
am i over reacting? should i say something? or just let it die?

2006-10-24 15:13:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I went to his house for dinner we have a new baby(2m) & h/brother came in from outta town & wanted to c the baby.So we went and it was nice.(he's muslim)well h. family promotes marriage & has been trying to counsel us since I was pregnant.So coming from the house my mood changed b/c I felt like people were looking @ us like we were stupid and I felt stupid.Because we arent married and he keeps saying he wants to marry me but he's just not ready yet.He says he loves me and made me keep the baby for a reason and isnt introducing me into h/ religion for no reason.Well Im ready now. I have to start building a family for me my children I have an opportunity in Newyork to get my stuff together and I told him we were moving(i have a 1year old too).I told him today and his first reaction was ok it gives me something to think about but I support u n ur choice. Do I go or do I stay. We are currently in Atlanta. We would be gone for about 4years.His family is going to be mad @ him.

2006-10-24 15:13:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we've oficially been dating a year and just got engaged and we're head over heals for each other. My parents (married 28 yrs) are the only couple I know who are just like a honeymoon couple. They slow dance in the kitchen, Spend all their spare time together, hold hands, and always make each other smile, it melts my heart ... Anybody know peaople or are in that special relationship after so long? Whats their story? Or yours?

2006-10-24 15:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by July 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do guys every feel uncomfortable approching girls? i ask because a lot of guys seem so confident and just go for it when u least expect it. like whenever a likes a girl he finds a way to talk to her, but when i like a guy i'm nervouse as hell and wont go near him!! so guys r u naturally just confident or what!

2006-10-24 15:11:58 · 15 answers · asked by char 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i get over my boyfriend of 4 years almost turned 5... he was my bestfriend... we used to talk on the phone almost everyday since we met i really miss him

2006-10-24 15:11:06 · 9 answers · asked by sonovabeeech 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 15:10:57 · 2 answers · asked by donnakhay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not very well endowed, and I can't do much to satisfy my wife with the equipment I have. do you think she wishes I were bigger, or would it be normal if she fantasized about a guy with a bigger package.

2006-10-24 15:10:38 · 13 answers · asked by Steve J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Didn't you also think they were the smartest people in the world?

2006-10-24 15:10:29 · 28 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Family