Girl problems?

Question

I'm a high school student.
I have a pretty good GPA.
I've never been on a date in my life.
I like this girl, and have so ever since the 8th grade (I won't say my grade, but it's been more than 2 years)
She's in 1 of my classes out of many.
I either only say 1 word to her, or none. I don't really know her that well.
I like her. I always think about her. I weep that I can't be with her. Like Superman in Smallville, HAHAHAHA.

I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me, and I can't do anything about that. She's single, but isn't looking for anyone right now. She sits right in front of me in class, and on rare occassions (I put too many s's in there, didn't I?, she says hi to me, and I say hi back, chuckle a little (stupid me) then she turns back around..

Advice please? Please don't tell me that I should wait, get to know her better, try talking to her, hanging out, blah blah blah...you have to try and see what I'm trying to say! It's hard for me to describe...please help......

Seeing from my replies, here are more details:

I've liked many girls, not really by looks, but by natural attraction. I just saw her, and boom, automatic like. Of course, I'm a nice person, a good person. I like to get to know people. It's hard, because in my head, something inside me is telling me, "You can't date until after college". THAT'S THE BIG PROBLEM! I agree with it too. My grandparents burned that into my head when I was little, and now it's stuck there, and I can't do anything about it. I liked a girl from 1st grade to 5th grade, 6th grade, 7th to 8th grade, and the one I like now is from 8th grade to present.

To kat: I can't get over it. If it does, then okay. But right now, I can't.

I'm doing pretty bad in school right now too, and not because of this obsession. I have 4 A's and 2 B's. :( I usually get only 1 B, or straight A's. And I'm not a nerd...I'm a filipino 15 year old high school kid.

Answer 1

whether you want to hear it or not you need to be friends with someone before you can date them. You do need to get to know her, if you're judging her by her looks and saying you like her than that's not right. You do need to get to know her, talk to her, try and bring up topics that you think she's interested in, ask her out with you and some friends at first get to know each other on a friendly basis and see where it goes from there. Hope I Helped! =D

Answer 2

Well if you like her so much then just tell her. you could write her a note and leave it in her locker, or just give it to her yourself. The wrost thing she could say is I am sorry, or no. But if you dont act fast then someone might just sweep her off her feet. so just do what you think is best and if it is ment to be then so be it. but if it is not then there is someone out there for you. I met my husband in the 8th grade and we never dated untill 11th grade. He says he always liked me but was too shy to say any thing. the most we ever spoke was hi or how are you. I ran into his mother in Ingles and she told me how much he liked me so I gave her my Phone # we have been together ever sence. He was not like most of the guys I dated but thats what I liked most about him. so just try talking to her and telling her how you feel. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!!!!

Answer 3

why dont you try talkin to her about what you guys are doing in class and then after complement her on her looks or just ask her something like oh where did you get that and that might strike up a conversation you can also talk to her about memories considering you know her since 8th grade and try to also flirt a little no to much its annoying (trust me) uh it might make you closer friends and later it might turn to couples well good luck with that hope i helped!

Answer 4

i understand where your coming from but either get over her or make your move. is she one of the preppy ones or just a nice girl? either way high school is a huge ***** to go though sometimes and your not making it any easier on yourself by obsessing over this girl who doesn't even talk to you. you could talk to her and try to get to know her, if she doesn't go for it after you try (while being yourself, not nervous or anything) then chalk it up to her loss and and find somebody who likes you and notices you, or if you go to college talk to her after graduation and maybe you can have a great summer together and part your ways for college, and if she does snub you then you don't have to see her every day!! and speaking of college, talk about girls.......you probably will have them all over you. so stop obsessing over this girl and have fun cause that's the best part of high school and the part you will look back on!!

Answer 5

No one can help you. You will have to help yourself.

To prepare for life, get used to the word "REJECTION". You will run into it many times in your life time.

You are going to have to "bow up" and do what you have to do.

What do you want HER to do.....make all the advances??? No, YOU let her know that you find her very attractive and ???? Be nice, polite and let the straws fall where they may.

IF it was meant to be, it WILL be. Otherwise don't let it worry you. Life MUST go on. Good luck. Pops

Answer 6

hmm i met my husband when i was 12 actually, we met on the school bus, he said hi. turned out he had moved in with his grandmother who lived a couple streets away from me. we dated on and off he high school, and got married when i was 19 he was 21. that was 5 years ago. anyway my point is that unless you talk to her nothing can ever happen.

Answer 7

Dang dude, i think u RLY gotta ask her out ur like whats happenin to me this girl doesnt like me and i asked her out she said nothing yet . but towmarrow ill know and u need to stand up and realize this is ur chance to be a man better to have asked then not have. ask her to the movies or diner. i mean diner sounds mature but listen up a movie isnt a date its two peeps watching tv lol!!! u gotta make a move!!! MAKE ONE BEFORE U LOSE HER LIKE I DID!! i liked a girl the hottests girl i had ever saw and i lost her to another man. DONT make the same mistake as me!

Answer 8

Try to create a group of mutual friends so you two can hang out together and maybe you will start to feel more comfortable talking to her.

Answer 9

Get a group together to go out for pizza or something and include her in the group.

Answer 10

Try to tell her really weird jokes.And then laugh at yourself. She will not be able to resits laughing with you. I know, your saying "oh sure then she thinks I'm a real dork" THIS WILL WORK!!!! And it will break the ice too.