there was this girl that i liked in one of my classes. so i wrote her a letter saying that i liked her, but there was no reaction from her so i thought she never got it and then i erote another one. that happen one more time so i wrote a third letter. then i finally said to my skelf i just going to go up to her and ask her. when i asked her about the letter, she tells me she has a boy friend. i want to know why she did not tell me after the first letter. what do u think???
2006-10-24 15:15:40 · 6 answers · asked by etat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She didnt tell you after your first letter because she knew that you'll get hurted of what she might tell you.It was good that you asked her in person about it because in general, girls wont answer you back through letters , or would be the first one to come to you just to tell you of her answer.Usually, a girl would say that she has a boyfriend if she doesnt like the person courting her.The reason for telling this as an excuse is that she doesnt want to hurt you that much.
2006-10-24 15:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Pinkz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUm.. you know what see i know this feeelign and it's awkard because when i get into a situation like that i try my best to stay away from that guy so i don't have to tell him that.. because i think it's going to hurt the guy's feelings.. i guess she was maybe too afraid to tell u because of the consequences or she just didn't care.... yah no offense but that can be the case too. You know never do the letter thing one it shows the girl you are too shy what u gonna do ina relation,2 the girl might think it's a prank.... 3 shew mgiht not get it.... 4 its better to go n say it and ask face to face.... because if it is a yes it gives u more confidence.. and if its a no you will know how 2 feel the nest tme u hear a no or i already have a bf.... i eman u get the answer right away like that... the letter way see how u wrote it three times didn't that build up pressure and tenseness inside u? im sure it did, so next time just go ask her dude! Good luck next time ^-^.
2006-10-24 15:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by babyfaced_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably didnt want to say anything becuase she has a little crush on u and didnt want to make it seem like she was unavalibe
2006-10-24 15:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple why she didnt tell you, she didnt want to hurt your feelings. sorry man, keep trying, youll find someone eventually.
2006-10-24 15:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by stephenjlb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably did not want to hurt your feelings
2006-10-24 15:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by atablackbelt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't like you.
srry
2006-10-24 15:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by jennyrosemathew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋