If you met a really nice woman, and you found out that she was a widow and was left with five young children, would you try to pursue a relationship, or would that scare you off?
2006-10-24 15:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by chickmomma5 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not me .just because shes a widow with 5 kids doesnt mean shes not worth dating
2006-10-24 21:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found out about 5 young kids from a woman i was interested in, i'd turn and run for the hills...
that being said, i'm only 26 years old, and would be willing to get involved with some one that had one, maybe two kids...
but i'm fairly young myself...
that's just me... i'm sure there's guys out there who would still be interested... a note of advice, keep the man away from the kids to begin with... maybe introduce him to the kids, but don't expect him to come in and be a father figure for some time...
2006-10-24 15:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like children so I would be fine with it. I imagine it might scare some off though. I guess it depends on the type of guy.
2006-10-24 15:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by lopie6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may in fact be a wonderful woman, but, any man who has thought this thing through is going to ask himself " am I prepared to raise another man's kids". If he says "yes", you should either question his sanity, or presume he is telling her what he thinks she wants to hear to get into her pants.
Finally, he should ask himself in all honesty, "why is this man not here"?
2006-10-24 15:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had custody of four young kids and married a girl with three of her own. WOW, what a household!!
2006-10-24 15:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by bper1951 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would scare me cus i dint have that kind of mony plus why would she have 5 kids either shes not smart or really liked a guy whos an idiot
2006-10-24 15:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by MAtt M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't make any particular difference if I was interested in her.
Younger guys would probably be put off though.
2006-10-24 15:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a big resoncible to take on i would have to realy like her i am a farther myself i only have one son but would like to have a few more i would have to think about it
2006-10-24 15:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by edward b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I needed a woman in my life, it would not scare me off
2006-10-24 15:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes! Five? all young? musta had them one after another?
where would she have any time for a relationship?
2006-10-24 15:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by silentnonrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋