Family & Relationships - 24 October 2006

I think someone is trying to drop me a hint yet i dont get it yet!! Two nights ago i watch Jungle Fever a 1988 movie. Last night i watched some movie with Sanaa Lathan dating a white guy!

I am an african american woman and my question is this:
Would you date(NO SEX) a white guy or someone of a different race then yours, who is married, and your co-worker?

I have a list of positive and negative like (positive, -a companion) (negative,- office drama). But i cant make up my mind!

Ladies only

2006-10-24 15:10:19 · 28 answers · asked by tender kiss 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-24 15:09:20 · 17 answers · asked by susan 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on a guy named tony and i see him with the 2 girls i hate every day but i tell my self dont get jealous but i do.. i try not to but i cant help it.. and yesterday i just found out he asked out the girl i hate ooooohh.. see im thinking about it.. anyways..HELP ME..

2006-10-24 15:08:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in polite i mean saying sorry because there nervious

2006-10-24 15:07:16 · 17 answers · asked by fabstar15 1 in Singles & Dating

What I would like to know, is why do some people say " you have to wait to have sex with them, its no fun if the guy has no chase" Why can't people just be upfront and honest, "I like you, you like me" GREAT. Not everyone agrees with you have to wait to hold onto him. My sister met her husband and slept with him the first day they met and they're happily married for 4 yrs now.
Are people that messed up that they have to play "hide and seek" to make someone fall in love with them ? If the chemistry is there ITS THERE. if it's not then you just have a prolonged screwed up relationship. Find out right away, saves wasting time RIGHT ?
Does anyone else agree with this ?

2006-10-24 15:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime they reject my password they send me the same password i just used and it still won't work. has anyone else had this problem?

2006-10-24 15:06:09 · 1 answers · asked by Margie R 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend that is a guy and we are good friends. i really like him. but i dont think he likes me as a girlfriend. should i ask him out?

2006-10-24 15:05:40 · 8 answers · asked by rebecky_2009 2 in Friends

I've been married to my husband for almost 10 years and my husband is in the air force so i've never really had a chance to get to know any of them excpet for the occassional vactions there. When they call to speak to my husband they always ask to speak to me and it just feels so fake and unnatural. Is this normal to feel like this with the in laws?

2006-10-24 15:05:31 · 8 answers · asked by Da2of US 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well 2 boys asked me out in one day like the frist boy asked me out in the morning and in the afternoon the 2nd boy asked me out.Well my problem is i like them both but i have no clue who to chosse.Well the first boy that i like i really don't see him much and the 2nd boy i see a whole lot.Which boy do you think i should chosse. please help me.And i am 14.The frist one he is 14 and the 2nd one is 13.So who do you think i should choose and how do i turn down the other one with out hurting him.Im really confused on witch one to go out with and i have no clue who to pick.PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-10-24 15:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i told my friend some secrets and me and her are like bffs for a LONG time. now she said" i know 3 secrets about you and i can tell the whole school if you dont do something right for me" is that bieng a BFF or an enemy?
Sincerly,
Confused

2006-10-24 15:04:59 · 5 answers · asked by kikiyako 2 in Friends

Most, I am not saying all, but most guys like stuck up or preppy girls. And most stuck up girls are really rude and don't even treat the guy right. I would not miss treat a guy. Yet maybe they like it I don't know. Or maybe all high school guys care about is sex. And they think they can get some from them.

I am a virgin, and I am going to be until I am married, if a guy really likes me he will wait for me until we get married, If he dosen't I can do way better.

But I want a boyfriend but it seems like guys my age don't even notice me because I am sort of shy.

2006-10-24 15:04:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been married 8 years and have 3 kids, and now my sex drive is gone....im not sure if im attracted to my husband. the thought of him touching me makes me vomit sometimes. (no im not pregnant) im just wondering if there is anything i can do to boost up my sex drive and try to enjoy sex with my husband.

2006-10-24 15:03:46 · 2 answers · asked by ang. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few weeks ago, the guy I've been interested in got my phone number from where I used to work. I thought I saw a few signs that he might be interested in me as well, so I told them it was ok to give the number to him. Time went by, he didn't call. I finally managed to get a message to him online. He replied, said he'd try to call over the weekend, and said I could email him back. I also sent him my cell # and email address. He still didn't call, and all I've done since is send him a couple more short messages, nothing serious, and he reads them but doesn't reply. He is a pretty busy man, but I think he could find a few minutes somewhere in the day. Is it possible I could be scaring him away? Should I back off and not try to contact him for a while? He's a great guy and I don't want to mess this up. I'm just looking for honest opinions here. I can't understand why he'd ask for my number if he didn't plan to ever call me. Any ideas?

2006-10-24 15:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by tessa 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a pilot and lives in Sydney Australia

2006-10-24 15:03:11 · 1 answers · asked by Josefina L 1 in Friends

2006-10-24 15:02:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's fiffteen, I know it's early but i have the money!

2006-10-24 15:02:37 · 9 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for a week today. i took me a logn time to ask her but i finally did and she said yes, and i know she loves me... and thats why i wanna get her to open up... she told me she was shy with me and that she didnt know why... Shoudl i give her time to get used to this... ALSO !!! I,m her 1stBF so this could be a factor... any help is greatly appreciated.

2006-10-24 15:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have heard of this and want to know. Could this be true? Is this just something that happens when your little kids or maybe teens?

2006-10-24 15:00:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a violent break up with my boyfriend. I love him but he disrespected me. He yells and humiliates me. He disowns me. I disobeyed my parents just to be him. He even asked me to marry him the soonest time possible. I did have false hopes in the relationship. Now, I realized that I want to redeem myself. I want to recover. I dont know what I will do.

2006-10-24 14:59:42 · 8 answers · asked by just asking 1 in Singles & Dating

i was talking to the girl i like and i made a pic for her and sent it to her, it was a heart with "i like you" writen in it and then she replyed

you love god, not me


does she not understand or does she not like me? i mean she was flirting like she liked me the other day and stuff and i really thought she liked me and so did everyone else on yahoo answers

what do you think?

2006-10-24 14:59:37 · 12 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex-boyfriends friend came over this weekend he is my sister in laws brother and my sister in law told them i was starting college . do you think he told my ex that. and what do guys tell each other about there exs

2006-10-24 14:59:10 · 3 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

old addres was zhang2003003@yahoo.com.cn
owner: Lijun Zhang
Location: Zhanjiang, China

2006-10-24 14:58:50 · 3 answers · asked by Hans J S 1 in Friends

Hi everyone,

What does it feel like when one falls in love? I mean when a guy falls in love with a girl or vise a versa. I want to know if it is a universal feeling. What did it feel like when you fell in love? Feel free to share your experiences.

Thanks,

2006-10-24 14:58:13 · 13 answers · asked by S J 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like a AA meeting for women and for everyone to be able to share their experience. Im an alcoholic who will like to share my experience and havent given the chance to.

2006-10-24 14:58:07 · 2 answers · asked by sandra p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If there is initial attraction, and a Black woman is a full-time exotic dancer, who is nice , loyal, has a good personality, never cheated on a man, would a White man in his 20's be loyal and interested in this type of relationship?

2006-10-24 14:57:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyday, well, sometimes when i want to be with my boyfriend, he really wants to be with me too. but then when i am with him, it becomes awkward and i hate it. i feel like i want to back off and leave him. I dont really have any more feelings for him and i dont want to be with himn anymore. But there is only one problem, he is upsessed with me.

2006-10-24 14:54:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cheat on them or do dirt behind their backs. This is more common nowadays. Wouldn't you rather be told first?

2006-10-24 14:54:31 · 8 answers · asked by Honey Dip 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been seperated for over a year. Anyhow,six months ago, I met this guy in the culture chat room in yahoo. We both fell in love with each other hopelessly. We've exchanged pictures and called each other almost everyday and he knew my marital situation and he told me he loved me and would wait for me till I get the dirvorce..
Suddenly out of blue, right after I booked the flight to visit him , he told me the guilt of being a home wrecker caught up with him and he decided to break it off with me. I am so heart broken now. I thought I finally found someone after the troubled marriage. I have invested so much emotion in this relation...I understand that I did not started this relationship with a clean start; maybe I deserved my heart to be broken. However, I am still so hurt....How to heal? I want to get over this soon. What should I do with the plane ticket which I don't think I'll use it any more....Please help.

2006-10-24 14:54:30 · 30 answers · asked by bumblebeegaga 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I came across my girlfriend's webpage, and a guy that i know is asking her to have dinner, and he wrote on his reply "i'll setup a dinner date". i can't say reading that made me feel all too great. I have never not allowed her to have dinner with other guy friends, but i feel like this one guy has an agenda. i'm sure she knows that i will be able to read his comment, but i wonder if she will at least let me know "hey, is it ok if i go and have dinner with so-n-so?" and i may be like "i have to be honest, i don't feel entirely comfortable with the idea, but i'm not going to tell you what you can or can't do..." am i wrong for feeling like she should at least tell me? i know i can't restrict her from doing what she wants, but i guess it's just that feeling that you're not enough, ya know.

on the flip side, if your boyfriend was going to have dinner with a girl-friend, would you be ok with it? wouldn't want him to at least give you a heads up?

2006-10-24 14:53:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I ERALLY LIKE THIS GUY AND I DONT KNOW IF HE NOTICES ME OR LIKES ME.YESTERDAY WE HAD BEEN PUT INTO GROUPS AND HE WAS IN MINE ALONG WIT MY BFF(BEST FRIEND FOREVER) AND ANOTHER GUY. WELL THAT WAS THE FIRST TIME I HAD TALKED TO HIM BUT I V LIKED HIM 4 3 MONTHS. HES SO NICE AND CUTE BUT WHAT SHOULD I DO O AND WE HAVE ONE CLASS TOGETHER AND HAVE ASSIGNED SEATS IN THAT CLASS.WHAT DO I DO??????????????????????????

2006-10-24 14:52:54 · 3 answers · asked by danielle! 1 in Singles & Dating