Everyday, well, sometimes when i want to be with my boyfriend, he really wants to be with me too. but then when i am with him, it becomes awkward and i hate it. i feel like i want to back off and leave him. I dont really have any more feelings for him and i dont want to be with himn anymore. But there is only one problem, he is upsessed with me.
2006-10-24 14:54:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break it off. The sooner the better there is no reason to string him along, it will end up hurting more. I think that your just wanting a man in your life, the thought of having the relationship, not this man.
2006-10-24 15:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Luckie_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun, you should let him know how you feel. If he does not want to listen then tell him that it doesn't look like it is going to work out. That maybe it is best for you both to go your own ways. Of course he will probably think there is someone else. You will have to explain to him there is or is not.
He will just have to get over you. If he becomes a problem after this, then you should make sure that you tell your teachers. This will help you with peace of mind knowing that there is others out there looking out for your well being too.
Good Luck Dear~
Just remember, staying in a relationship with someone just because they are a problem in trying to get out of the relationship, it will only get worse if you stay. Will lead to more hurt toward you and a horrible life to live. You deserve better than that. Anyone deserves better than that.
2006-10-24 15:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key words you said sound like "I don't really have any more feelings for him," then you need out. If he's obsessed with you that could be a problem since you are on different ends of the spectrum. I would say you've got to be honest with yourself sooner than later, because you are the one you have to live with 24-7, and it will only get more "awkward" if you allow him to keep you living in this "not totally honest" world.
2006-10-24 15:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if your not happy definately start being honast, and if this guy is really obsessed and not normal so to speak be careful use your head and most of all stop giving him things to read into now there are cases and I hope this isnt one of them where things really can get out of hand!! People can make up and kinds of false things up in there head that are there that arent and they also take revenge on those false things so immediately start being honast and stop giving him things to hold on to, Good Luck!
2006-10-24 15:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave him he will follow you .When you get your own apartment and a new boyfriend he will come knocking on the door before he go off to work at 3 or 4 in the morning,upsetting the whole neighborhood and ****.
2006-10-24 15:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by daniellesmith1973 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay you losted me... you said you feel like you too want to be with each other and the minute you are together you don't. you say the feelings are gone then fine let the man go, so a good woman can sweep him off his feet. you know what you got but you don't know what you are getting into. remember that
2006-10-24 15:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by slimchuckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are no feelings from you towards him its just going to get harder for the both of you in the long run. If he is obsessed with you tell him you no longer have feelings for him and the sooner he realizes that the better for him and you.
2006-10-24 15:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Hazeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just do it carefully cuz dude could go psycho depending on how bad the obsession is. Whatever you do, if you feel it's bad already, is get out. It can always get worse and you don't want that to happen either.
2006-10-24 14:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by flutterby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to learn how to spell its Obsessed. and I think you should leave him. relationships really dont last when youre 14 years old. and Yes i know i come off as a B*tch but i dont care.
2006-10-24 14:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Hairdorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Why don't you have feelings for him? Why do you think it's awkward when he's with you? I think you're either misinterpreting and disregarding his feelings, and maybe it's only awkward for you. If he's obssessed with you, Miss Alford, then he loves you strongly, just like the previous guy you betrayed, did.
2006-10-24 14:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋