ok so... i know this guy and he is trying to go a little farther than i want. and i've been telling him no and he has stopped. it's not the guy who does it anyway. i'm just looking for another way to tell him that thats not what i wanna right now. How should i tell him in like another way that is not like half way embarrasing?? Like i said, he isn't the jerk that pressures me into doing things... i'm just looking for another way to say that i don't want to do all that he is wanting to do with me.
2006-10-24 15:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit down and talk to him in a time where sex is not on either or your minds. Maybe on the way home from school or something, and explain to him what you are ready to do and What you are not ready to do. Any guy that pressures you to do more than your ready for is not worth sticking around with!
2006-10-24 15:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lilat180 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in spite of desires to be reported to make certain which you to be honest. "can we slow issues down somewhat"...i do no longer understand... I parent, if a guy reacts negatively to you turning him down bodily then he's with you for all of the incorrect motives. If he truly likes you and cares approximately you...he won't get indignant or harm in case you ask him to slow issues down or in case you tell him you're no longer waiting. He ought to appreciate that and should no longer make you experience compelled into something.
2016-10-02 22:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't allow yourself to get into a situation with him where you would have to tell him no. What I mean is, don't be alone with him. Don't go to your or his bedroom alone, don't ride in a car alone, etc.... Then you won't have to worry about having to push him away when he's turned on. Guys don't like rejection. If you aren't ready, then don't do what leads up to it.
2006-10-24 15:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by chickmomma5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so he is not a jerk so just tell him i like you and all but I'm not ready to go any farther and if you like me to then you will respect my wishes good luck
2006-10-24 15:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth always works. He might be uset for a little while but he will have a lot of respect for you.
2006-10-24 15:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say so
do you know why young man sometime get accuse of rape is because we are afraid of being clear
and when one rape a girl he says that he tought she meant yes
well make it clear to him that you are not ready, if he cares for you he will wait
but when men & sex is involve always make it clear what you want
2006-10-24 15:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just push him back or nudge away or get up and move
2006-10-24 15:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋