how do I get over my boyfriend?

Question

how do i get over my boyfriend of 4 years almost turned 5... he was my bestfriend... we used to talk on the phone almost everyday since we met i really miss him

Answer 1

Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with." There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.There isn't a sure-fire way to mend a broken heart but there are definitely things you can to do to make it feel a bit lighter and ready for new love. First, allow yourself to feel what you need to and take all the time in the world to get over the person. For some people it may only take a few weeks to move on and others years. However long it takes, be okay with that. You can't live your life in the past, waiting for a second chance to do things differently. Doing so is only taking you away from experiencing things that could be better. Don't be scared to give love another try.So, you've found out that Mr. or Miss Right isn't the soul mate you've always dreamed about. Now what? The period of loss and pain doesn't have to extend on to an eternity of what ifs. After spending a few days wallowing in self-pity, you'll probably want to start making a few steps towards life after love. To help ease this transition, try a few of the following ideas.Letting loose on your emotions is a quick and self-healing way to recover from incidents of loss and pain. This is especially true of keeping a journal. Make a commitment to write for at least a few minutes every day.Keep your mind busy with new information. Whether you decide to learn a new word or how to do something new on your computer, it will help you keep moving forward instead of looking back.Get yourself out and about with a 20 to 30 minute walk. Just the constant, repetitive motion of moving your legs one after another is enough to help you put things in perspective.Just because you are not attached to someone doesn't mean you can't enjoy going out. Think of it as a chance to go to all the places you've always wanted to go.Maybe there is something you've always wanted to learn how to do. Now is the perfect opportunity to develop it! Try anything from bicycling, joining a walking club, sewing, bodyboarding or surfing, learning how to watercolor, or cooking.Best Wishes

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Only time will help heal that wound. Try a hobby. Get involved in something. Try to get your mind off of him the best way you can. Do something he would never do with you and most of all be happy with yourself.

Answer 4

i m too searching for that answer.. me n my bf broke up yestrday and i really love him n cant get over him. i m just trying to stay really busy so i wont think about it but its really hard. i dunt know about u but whenver i think about him, tears roll down my eyes, i look at the fone n wish that he wud call but no he must be wid some other girl rite now. i m sorry but still try to stay busy and try to talk to ur friends to fill up ur time.
hope it helps

Answer 5

I had a gf of 2 years that split with me too (her friends didn't approve of me), I guess what got me through it was just to "roll on." It may sound stupid or insensitive, but it really works.

Answer 6

This is someting you can not get over, over night, it's going to take time try keeping busy to occupy yourself so you want think about him.

Answer 7

the best way to get over is to get another

Answer 8

im so sorry to hear.. eventually you will and if he comes back he really loves u if he dosent, it was all just a game

Answer 9

go out with another guy.