Do men ever really get enough?

Question

What is the deal? Is that all they think about for real? I'm beginning to wonder if that is all that ever matters to them. I love to make love, but I also love to do other things with the man I love. I just can't help but wonder though if he cares about anything else. I feel I know him well, but all the guys I meet makes me second guess if we ever really know a man.

Answer 1

Honey, men are very visual and physical creatures. They live for "feeling" things with their eyes, hands, and the "lil'" hand. You need to get to know the man you're with so you'll have some kind of idea where you stand. A mistake that a lot of women do is that they will think that a man is in love with them, but when you ask him he isn't! Some women think when they lay down with a man that is their boyfriend, but that isn't the case. Men don't like strings, and we all know that because many of them cringe at marriage. But there are men out there who want a full fledge relationship and are looking for love. But don't expect to get a filet mignon from mcdonald's. You need to find out from him where you stand in his life. And this may sound selfish, but as far as his sexual needs, if you don't satisfy him or at least some halfway, there are pleanty of women that will. And that is the truth wherever you live whoever you are. Know this: men aren't mind readers.. they lack the "women's intuition". So what we as women don't tell the man what we want, we already think he's automatically supposed to know. But if you tell him what you want and he still doesn't give it to you or some kind of agreement, than keep pushin!

Answer 2

i disagree with the 1st answer--its not based on age @ all n all guys hav the same level of maturity (rite gurlz?)
all guys from teens 2 older men hav the same opinion 4 sex n still wanna hav it jus as much think of a 40 yr old man ud think hed be a lil past sex @ his age but hes still havin it like a 16 yr old n still wants it like a 16 yr old ppl think all the time that wen the man gets older he has less sex n that teenage guys r the only 1s that r so in2 sex that theyre annoyin well think agen cuz 40 yr old men r the same actually all men r the same they think the same way about sex yung from old wen u do find a guy that respects the fact that the relationship isnt based upon sex then grab on2 him n hold tite cuz hes the guy u need 2 b with after havin sex with a guy 4 a wile they start seeing it as a regular thing o well we had sex 3 times yesterday so were havin even more 2day thats how they c it so the more sex u give em the more they expect all guys r not like this but the majority of them r n if u wanna hav sex hav it but just put ur foot down n tell em wen enuff is enuff plus remember 2 tell em that if a relationship was built upon sex ud still b with ur high school bf

Answer 3

That's why I have waited till marriage to have sex and still am.

I've never wanted to give my virginity up to just anybody. Because then, that's all they ever think about and care about it seems. They have something called raging hormones. And I think once they get it, that's it. A lot of guys out there tend to also BASE their relationship on sex.

So you shouldn't be that surprised. It seems like you already realized how the guy's brain is wired. If you don't give it up, it'll force them to find out who you are on the inside... what kind of person you are... just YOU. Or... it'll force them to just leave. But see, that's THEIR loss.

Thank God my boyfriend respects my decision. And everyday I have waited, I am thankful for. Boy would I feel like crap if I already gave it up... no one deserves something that important to me. That will be my wedding gift to my boyfriend/future husband.

Go ahead and keep making love if you want. Just don't be surprised if they act like that's all that matters.

Answer 4

NO, mean dont get enough. u c men r just in their own little world wen u talk 2 them or try to do something w/ them, the reason is wen u talk 2 them they r only using half of their brians.lmao!! thats true and we mature faster then them. And its true they only want to make love and stuff other then talk 2 you..lol...thats all i got.

Answer 5

As with everything else in this world, there are also exceptions to this. Good luck finding your exception.

Answer 6

age and maturity have a lot to do with this. women mature faster and are "wired" differently. Men are visually stimulated, women are not.

Answer 7

your onto something..... men are selfish and will never change.....women are too nice and we believe their crap and when you think about it ...men usually pick women based on how good the sex is and how much can he control his woman and also what can she do for him ....they don't think about our needs until **** hits the fan and we get tired of their trifflin' *** ......