I am talking about my biological father. He was never around when I was growing up. He never paid child support or came to see me. My mother told me that when she was pregnant he would throw huge temper fits and lock her in the closet right before he left for work and she beat the knob with a high heeled shoe from the inside of the closet to get out. She divorced him when I was a baby. Now all of a sudden he wants to jump into my adult life and say, "Here's Daddy Jon, I Love you." Well I was raised by my mother and my wonderful step father ever since I was 2, who is the only Daddy I have ever known. Somehow my biological father got my telephone number and has called me a couple times, telling me that he loves me and and I just don't feel a thing honestly. I quickly chaned the subject, one time I said, "thank you". I don't know how else to react or if I even want to have a relationship with him at all. Do you tell someone that you don't love them but you respect them?
2007-02-14
12:51:58
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