Why is it socially acceptable to comment on how skinny a very thin, perhaps underweight, person is, but never for an overweight person? For example, you would never say to an overweight person, "Do you eat a lot?" Or, "You need to lose weight, eat less!" But to thin people, who might be considered underweight, they get comments like "Oh, you're so thin! Do you eat?" Or "You need to eat more, you're too skinny" Or"You don't have an eating disorder, do you/" I think to both it's rude and inappropriate and out of line. Skinny people who struggle with being too thin are just as self-conscious about their bodies and their thinness as people who struggle with their being overweight are. Why can't people realize this? By the way, I am basing this question on personal experience---yes, I am thin and struggle with being too thin---I just feel like telling people to get over it and stop making it seem like it's such a big dea
2006-12-18
07:14:59
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