Im 21 and a soon to be step mom to a great 4 yr old boy. He;s always so great for us. But at his mommys it s different, he gets what he wants there by throwing a little fit. I know that is bad for him. Now he has figured out that it hurts us to say 'i want my mommy and paul (her bf)' and when hes with just me and something goes wrong, he'll say "i want my daddy" I feel somewhat responsible for this because he sees how upset it makes me. Is there anyway I can undo that? All I want is for him to love me, but he doesnt want to be with us as much because we arent able to give him everything he wants. He got hysterical on the phone w/ his mom last night (because his dad wouldnt turn the tv on) and she, of course, drove an hour away to get him. Which I didnt agree with,. And now he has even said to them that daddy is mean. This all hurts so bad. Can someone give me advice on any of this or advice on how to be a good stepmother? Should i just give him everything he wants so he will love me?
2006-07-25
05:25:36
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Heather T
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