Ok.Here's my story. I'm a 28yr guy, my wife is 32 , we got married a few yrs ago. When we first started dating (i was 22) I kinda told her that I don't want children at the time (if ever) and at first that almost broke us up. After a while she came back to me saying that it was all because she's indian and there's great pressure in indian families to have lotsa kids. I'm not indian, I'm white and I just never had any urge to "procreate", to leave something behind etc. etc., I just feel this world is to upside down to bring another in it, at the most I'd probly want to adopt, although right now my wife and I are on the same position. Besides this, we had to move outside both of our countries, started a whole new life, it's a real struglle so I see that as more of a reason not to think of children. Why do people ostracize me and give me the bad-look if I say I don't want children of my own? Why is it perceived as such a bad thing, and I'm the "monster" that doesn't want kids?
2007-02-27
03:57:49
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jonp1978
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