2007-02-27 02:51:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
very happy
2007-02-27 02:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Pinka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no other feeling in the world like it. To see this little bundle that has growed inside of you and you could feel it, but not know anything about it. When I first got to hold my little girl I just stared at her could not take my eyes off of her. My only thought was She was the most beautiful sight I had ever seen. I never knew I could love someone so much and would die for without giving it a second thought. She is my entire life.
2007-02-27 11:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by superstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really depends. The idea that a woman instantly bonds with her baby is just an exaggeration. With my first, I had rapid, natural back labor (very painful, no drugs,lol) So when I first seen her I was so exhausted and just relieved she was alright I didn't even realize what had happened. The took her to clean her up said they'd be back in about 20min. So I dozed off. I woke up half an hour later and realized my stomach was down and freaked out, I had thought the deliverary was a dream and didn't know what happened to my baby, lol. Then I remember they be back in 20 min. freaked out again thought somebody stole my baby and I got out of bed and went looking for her. Once I got her back in my arms I was totally in awe.
So its not always like you see on TV with the instant gratification of having a baby.
But by the time my 2nd came around (I had epidural, seriously the way to go!), I was relaxed and impatient for them to give me my baby! lol
2007-02-27 11:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time for some people to start feeling the bonding affect of childbirth and actually it was different with both my children. When I had my first it was pure excitement and I had never felt more love in the world for someone. With my second one I kinda felt guilty since my first was only 18 months old when I delivered my second. I felt the love but it took me a couple of days to actually bond with her. Now they are 5 and 3 1/2 and are my life. I love them equally and would die for them if I had to.
2007-02-27 14:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by darlingdee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no other feeling like it in the world! It is what life is all about, this unconditional love for another human being! There is joy and confusion...how did I ever help to be a part of this miracle? The protective streak that comes out immediately is strange. Blessed to have such a gift!
2007-02-27 11:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. It's really hard to put in words just the amazing elation, love and absolute pure joy I felt when I saw my children for the first time. Both times I was just soooo happy I couldn't stop laughing. I had never experienced that kind of happy giddiness before.
2007-02-27 12:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sylvia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, there was the instant relief of the horrible pain, and feeling of accomplishment, seeing him for the first time and in a split second realizing i dont recognize him, that he's a brand new person ive never seen,yet closer to me than anyone else on earth, and then realizing I love him more than life itself and knowing I would kill anyone who harmed him.
All of that in about 2 seconds.
It makes a woman realize that all the love she had for self, for family and friends, for husband and lover, was like raw hatred compared to the real fathomless love she has for this new little person. Its a love that literally compares to no other love.
2007-02-27 10:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is such an awesome feeling. Its overwhelming love, the actualization of the belief that with Daddy and God's help, you actually MADE a person. You're aware that this little one depends totally upon you for survival and it is a grown up, loving, nurturing and forever feeling. It takes my breath away just to think of it.
2007-02-27 10:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It´s a strange feeling,but I will explain.
When the nurse first gave me my baby I started to feel my heart ache,I cried and then I felt scared.I thought I could not be able to take of her.Basically it was love at first sight
2007-02-27 11:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by soy la mas linda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amazing - Like I did this. It's a wonderful feeling that is comprised of so many mixed feelings. You are glad it's over, you're glad to meet the baby, you're glad to see what the baby looks like. There are so many emotions.
2007-02-27 10:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by downinmn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her mood. Most people are ecstatic and very happy (relieved!). Some women are actually sad. Your hormones are so out of wack by the time you see your little one that anything could happen. I think I actually started laughing. It's a very surreal and very happy experience, no matter what happens.
2007-02-27 10:56:41 · answer #11 · answered by beckdoobster 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋