I have 4 children: 2 teens, a 3 yr old, and 1 yr. old. I work two jobs, morning and afternoon, get home about 5:30. My husband drives truck so his schedule is never the same. At 5:30 I have to get supper ready, usually 2 meals because the little ones need something different, then housecleaning, laundry, homework, baths, etc. I know you'll say "the housework can wait", but it really can't. I have a family of 6 and it gets out of control fast. But then I have 2 babies in daycare that I see a few hours in the evening during the rush of everything. They do help with the chores even though they're babies, it takes more time but they're with me. My husband and I really can't work less hours because we have to pay bills. We do have the kids with us most of the time we're home, evenings and weekends. Is this enough? Am I just feeling guilty for nothing, or do we need to do something different, and what? So far I'm just tired, stressed and rushed. I don't think that's good for the kids.
2006-09-26
05:11:53
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