Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - November 2007

my brother-in-law's brother and his wife just had a baby boy. what should I write on a "welcome" card? I'm not english that's why I need your help

2007-11-14 01:26:58 · 10 answers · asked by ilBaronetTo™ 6

And your reasons for it?

2007-11-13 19:13:25 · 7 answers · asked by Kate J 6

2007-11-13 17:37:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this is my second message....Yes me and my boyfriend are employed I already know where im going to stay right where im at we have an extra bedroom and everything. I know im going to be with him for the rest of my life. He really wants this 2 his mother is going to help 2. When I told her about it when i got pregnant the first time she told me anything i need I got it. My mom I already know she will help me 100% i know that off the top. Im livin the adult life any way i make my own money got my bank account saving already and everything....Im doing excilent in school and my baby wouldnt even stop me Im in A GED program, takin college classes already and All. My boyfriend graduated already. His mom is also helping him get an apartment real soon.My family will help me I already know.I take care of my three neices I baby sit for my bestfriend and my job I work with kids.I have another job im guarenteed to every summer that involves kids im really ready even tho there not kids of my own.

2007-11-13 14:47:06 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs.Iverson 1

I am 40 years, wife 31 years. Our son is 3 &1/2. We are confisued if we should have one children forever or try to have another baby.

1. Is it wise to have another one?

Both working parents. Have good Income, Assets, House and Good job.

2.Worried if I die, then what ?

2007-11-13 13:46:18 · 23 answers · asked by JH 3

Whats up with their eyes? And if you had a baby with this what would you do? Because after I saw the pictures i was scared, and then i was like "it could never have a life, and i could never love it even if it was my child"? Then I was like dang thats rude of me. Im only 14 but I planned on having kids. now i don't want to, cuz if their was a chance that it happened?? Could you still love it?

2007-11-13 09:34:51 · 8 answers · asked by ipod 3

Here's the deal - my wife became pregnant three months ago (she has wanted a kid FOREVER and always wanted to be a mother), and she was so happy and excited, and we celebrated all the first month; we cannot WAIT to be parents.

In the last month or so, she has been treating me horribly, even though I rub her back and feet, and go get her anything when she needs it at the store or around the house. She has also gotten a TON lazier...all she does is watch TV now on the couch, and I have to wake her up like 10 times to come to bed until like 2am everynight to get her to come upstairs so she doesnt sleep on the couch all night.

Her car is messier, and she leaves trash around everywhere now...is this an indication of what's to come? It's like she is falling apart.

She has been coming home from work, mad all the time, yelling at me over small things that I didn't do.

I know you women will say "She's just pregnant" but that doesn't give you a right to treat your husband like crap

2007-11-13 09:30:47 · 12 answers · asked by Bob Saget 4

FYI, for me need clarification. Can a man still ejaculate after this procedure, or is my questioning wrong? Can he get someone pregnant?

2007-11-13 09:25:45 · 2 answers · asked by Ace of Spades 5

I am now 10 days late and have slight cramping and nausea but this is very different to number 1. Do I test or could my periods be messed up. My son is 8 months old. Periods did return to normal for the last 5 months.

2007-11-13 07:31:21 · 16 answers · asked by Angela W 4

2007-11-13 07:13:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i have already had one child but He had health issues and we didn't have a baby shower becouse we didn't know if he was going to make it. We want anothere child so were trying. I want a baby shower with this one becouse i missed out on the othere baby. I can't use the same things for this one b/c my son had special needs. (instead of a regular car seat he had a car bed-it lays flat) My son passed away in july and i would just like to do the baby things that i missed with my first. What is your opinion. Is it selfish or is it okay. Please tell me what you think and the underlined rules...lol they are unknown to me..God Bless and best wishes

2007-11-13 05:38:28 · 25 answers · asked by MeLisa 2

Ive been with my fiance since i was 3 months pregnant. He has been there for her birth and all. Her dad has called 2 times when i was pregnant and none since shes been born. He is a massive drug addict. Do you think shell hate me if i let her think thats her dad then explain when she gets old enough to understand. If so please give me some suggestions!

2007-11-13 03:47:58 · 22 answers · asked by boy_lover47031 1

for the past week and a bit i have had a constant headache, it is always there but sometimes i hardly notice it.

i posted a question about 2 weeks ago saying i had swollen habds feet and face.

i went to the doctors the next day and was asked to come back in a few days for them to re check my blood pressure.

that was a week ago yesterday (monday), i was then sent to the hospital as my bp was up a bit from the few days before.

i had blood tests done and was put on the monitor for a bit.

results came back fine and i was sent home again.

this weekend my feet got really swollen and still have been having the headaches, i also have got a really sore throat and have nearly lost my voice.

went to the midwife yesterday and bp was fine no protein in my urine, but still slightly swollen feet and hands and headaches still.

she said to take some paracetomol and see what happens. to phone the hospital if still there after.

(PLEASE READ BELOW, RAN OUT OF CHARACTERS)

2007-11-13 03:05:02 · 2 answers · asked by unichick_06 2

Hi all
actually,my brother"s son who is just 10years old is reading a loads of books on almost any topic every now and then.i could understand that its good for him,but i am afraid he would spoil his health and his eyes as well.he has transformed himself from being a book-worm to a book-snake(means.when we try to stop him he"s really trying to bite us!).is it good for him to be like this and no play for his age.
Need your help on this issue.

2007-11-13 03:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by James 1

3 days before my due date and my partner as been told he will need to work 1 hour and half drive time away from were we live. I sure this is discrimination because i am pregnant. He will be taking two weeks off when the baby is born bet they don't like that. The closer i get to my date it seems the more he gets these jobs working out all over the place. i cant understand why the do not use some one else it always seems to be him. He is a mechanic. When he came back yesterday to the garage after being out in the cold and rain all day the other guys were all in the warmth with the heater on nice and clean playing cricket. (they are like big kids) He will be looking for another job in the two weeks off we both do not want him to work there any longer annoying that he will have to go job hunting on his two week off which should be with his family. I would love to smack the guys he works with over the head with the cricket bat lol

2007-11-13 02:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by Kazzie A 1

I really want to have baby bingo at my sister in law's shower, but here's the reason I think its a bad idea:
She lives in CA, but both families and friends are from NJ. The shower is being held in NJ. The shower is 5 days away, and 3 things have been bought off her registry. I think people are mostly going to give her gift certificates because they are smart and don't want her to have to ship everything back to CA. HOWEVER...I really want my SIL to have the whole experience of opening the gifts and everything!! I want to do baby bingo, but I'm afraid that there will only be a few gifts for her to open and that would make the game pretty sad:(

BTW...this is a baby shower...her bridal shower a few years ago was also here in NJ and she got 1/2 gifts, 1/2 giftcards.

I'm definitely giving her a big gift, but we're going to return it here before she goes back to CA, and she can re-buy it out there. It's just fun to open all the gifts. What do you think?

2007-11-13 01:00:20 · 3 answers · asked by Level Headed, I hope 5

I personally think adoptees should be allowed to see their records if its for a medical reason and if their birth parents agree to meet them. I know Im struggeling with the issue of should I find mine or should I just be happy I have great parents, which I am but part of me still wonders about her and why she gave me up. But in that same part that wonders why Im scared..... Im afraid theres a painful memory for her if I do ask about it. So as of right now I personally dont want to find her. I do if I change my mind have the website to a adoptee reunion site I can sign up for.My adoptive parents know I want to know about her and will support me if and when I do try and so does my husband. Please since this is a sensetive subject treat it with respect. Thanks guys

2007-11-13 00:26:25 · 5 answers · asked by Haven_Summers 6

2007-11-12 23:49:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Personally I would say that there is nothing wrong with that, but people just keep telling me that it is not right. I'm 5 months preg. and I have 2 male Pitbull dogs (15 mos. old), who consider me their mom (i am), and will only become aggressive when I am around both because they get jelous of each other; they're only aggressive to strangers, but not towards anyone in my family. The problem is that I will be staying with the baby in the same room my doggies use to share when they were pups, and obviously my dogs are going to see me with the baby and stuff. I mean, I don't know how they will react, or if it's safe to have the baby around them; my dogs are my kids too, I can't prefer the baby over the dogs because it is not fair. Plus I've heard that newborns shouldn't be in a household were there are certain "animals". I just want to know if any of you have experienced something similar, cause I always think about that issue, but I really don't see anything wrong...

2007-11-12 18:46:02 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any websites you know of that you can post your looking for a babysitting job? I only know of www.sittercity.com

2007-11-12 13:47:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know some things about simulator babies. But i cant find any websites.
i want to get a baby doll that you can feed and change its diapers and cries and rock to sleep.. all the realistic things, can anyone help me.?

thanks.. =]

2007-11-12 12:12:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a friend who i really want to be godfather as he's helped me so much with my daughter ever since she was born and is pretty much her father!! he's not been christened himself though. i've asked at the church if this would be a problem and apparently its against the law. but my godmother wasnt christened, a friend of mine is a godfather and hasnt been christened so does anyone know where i can find something that states its NOT illegal to have a unchristened person as godparent? or indeed if it actually is!?!

2007-11-12 10:33:57 · 23 answers · asked by evilbunnyhahaha 4

I have a 4 yr old, a 4 mo. month old and found out today that I am almost 6 wks pregnant. I am excited but nervous. My husband and I were not planning on any more children. I really wanted to enjoy my baby and have been blessed to get to stay at home with him. The new baby will only be about a yr apart from my youngest now. Anyone else have kids this close together? If so, what are the good points? I really need some encouragement and want to hear some positive experiences. I actually found that the 4 yr age gap between my 2 boys now is not beneficial at all. They can't play together, share clothes or toys and the 4 yr old competes for attention alot. PLEASE HELP ME !!! Give me some hope so I am not dreading this ! LOL

2007-11-12 08:29:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our babys due soon. We both work and my wife earns more than me so we decided that I would be house husband after her maternity leave. My male mates think I'm lucky but all female mates say somthing negative.
I just joke and say "it will be easy" just to annoy anyone who's negative.
Any thoughts?

2007-11-12 08:19:27 · 18 answers · asked by always right 4

Under protection I became accidentally pregnant with my (yes) EX boyfriend's child. He doesn't want it if we aren't going to be together, and I don't want to be with him. I'm very confused about what to do. I'm young and don't have the emotional or financial support for a baby. Perspectives? Please, no prolifes either. I am prochoice and would like opinions of those who have had abortions and those who have had babies at a young age. Thank you.

2007-11-12 07:25:47 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all, I cannot go to the doctors because my mother says she does not have the money to pay for me. I do not have insurance either. I am supposed to sign up to get some thru my work this week...on Thursday, but I do not know when I will actually receive it. My period has been freakishly weird for the past few months. For 35 days, my period did not stop at all. It was really light though, I thought it could have been implantation bleeding. But I had a pregnancy test done, and it was negative. I was put on birth control to regulate it. I started it on 25 August. The period stopped on 27. 5 days later, it started again except this time it was really heavy. This one lasted 2 1/2 weeks. When it finally ended, it waited a month, then started in October about the same time. This one lasted 7 days, but was freakishly heavy. One day, I had a tampon and a pad soaked in less than 2 hours. It remained heavy for pretty much the whole week. This month, it started yesterday.

2007-11-12 06:33:06 · 2 answers · asked by texas_tec_chick 4

I just found out that I was pregnant about two weeks ago and I currently do not have benefits. I started my own company a couple months ago and was going to get my own health care. However, I was just recently offered a great position at a company with great benefits, but I don't know if their benefits would even cover my pregnancy because I thought it is considered a pre-existing condition? Since I was pregnant before I got these health benefits. Does anyone know more information on this??
Thank You!

2007-11-12 06:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by coastalgina01 1

I'm a workaholic. I just feel tired all the time, but working for me makes me happy. I suffered burnout 3 times and seem to feel lazy and worthless. My husband is worried that I would lose the babies. What can I do?

2007-11-12 01:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by SNAKEDOG 3

ok for everyone, who answered my previous question. (about home abortion or chemical abortion), is it ok to keep a baby when that is threatening to my own life, or lose that baby before it develops more inside of me... i am not proud to kill my baby, but what else can i do???

2007-11-11 16:57:16 · 11 answers · asked by Dana G. 1

ok so i just found out that i am pregnant again this is my 2nd child im not sure how far along i am yet my drs say that i am 8 -10 weeks??? not really sure but i have been leaking. i didnt have this problem with my first till i was like 6 mo is this a sign that i could be longer along?

2007-11-11 10:19:57 · 7 answers · asked by PROUDMOMMY 2