Lose a baby or die with a baby in my womb?

Question

ok for everyone, who answered my previous question. (about home abortion or chemical abortion), is it ok to keep a baby when that is threatening to my own life, or lose that baby before it develops more inside of me... i am not proud to kill my baby, but what else can i do???

Answer 1

if it's a threat to your life to be pregnant i'm sure the doctors would be willing to help you abort. although i've known people who were told they shouldn't have babies due to health reasons and accidents happened and the children and parent is just fine. i'm unsure of your condition but if pregnancy is a threat to you chemical or a home abortions is probably not a healthy option for you either. it's best to have an abortion at the hospital or let nature take it's course, that's all you can do. i really hope the best to you.

Answer 2

I'm not sure what your other question was but even though I do not believe in abortion I myself had to have one and it was the hardest thing for me to decide.

If you and your doctor talk this over and this is maybe the best thing for you then yes I think that you should go ahead with it. C-sections are not always the answer for some people and some times it might endanger your health more.
But if you have not talk to a doctor than please do because they can help you out more than you think. Home abortions and/or chemical abortions is not the way to go about it. You can do more damage to yourself or even kill yourself. And if you do survie what if you damage yourself so bad that you can no longer have children?

And how do you know that this baby is going to threating your life have you talk to a doctor yet? Did your doctor explain to you about the higher risk with a chemical abortion? The infections, the fevers and somtimes your body doesn't take to it and you'll end up bleeding to death.

You need to do more reasearch if this is maybe the route that you want to take and not all chemical abortions work. Do you know that some times for the ones that do not work that some women have babies with disabilities and physical deformaties. They also had many other birth defects which caused some of the babies organs to not function properly.
Now not all abortions are a garettine or safe anything that you do to your body withh effect it somehow.

Please go to your doctor if you already haven't and talk to them. Or go to your church ( I had not been to church in 7yrs but I went to my local one and I talked to the minister and cried and it helped me alot) even if you're not religious becasue I'm not but I needed to talk to somebody at that time. Or can you talk to your parents or one of your really close friend's parents. But please before you decide on anything, just know that there are so many options out there for you. Have you thought about adoption? There are even some familes out there that will pay for everything just for a healthy baby.

So good luck to you and I wish you well in your decision.

Answer 3

This is just my personal opionon on abortion. And no I did not read you're previous post, just stumbled onto this one.

I don't thin that abortion should be used as a means for birth control. By this I mean that it should only be used in the folloing cases: when a woman is raped/impregnated against her will, when there is danger to the mother, or when there is irrevocacable damage to the fetus/child and there would be to much emotional harm to the mother and father to carry the child to term only to have it still born or die shortly after. Again this is only my personal opion and I don't want to open a can of worms here.

However, if carrying this child to term, with other birthing options such as cecasrian not possible, would be fatal to you, then yes I would have an abourtion done at a respectable clinic/doctors office.

Answer 4

My advice is to get a SECOND opinion.

Or a third, or whatever.

Why? I had a doctor tell me that I would die if I had more kids,
that it was safer for me to be on birth control than to be pregnant and all sorts of garbage that I found out later was NOT true.

So, even though I thought it was good advice, I found out later it wasn't.

Please go and get a 2nd opinion.
You can go to a crisis pregnancy center. I would say that if you are in the position that your described, then you are definitely in a CRISIS situation.

No one is going to beat you up emotionally for thinking what you are, it's likely they have been there, too.

You can find crisis pregnancy centers in your phone book or go online to search for help. It's free and no one knows better than them how to help.

Good luck, I hope you find the truth and are able to be healthy and safe both physically and emotionally.

Answer 5

usually when the baby threatens the life of the mother, other options besides aboriton are available. some women have c sections a month or 2 before they're due to ensure their health and the babies health. trying to force yourself to lose the baby before it develops more can be hazardous to your own health.

Answer 6

If your life is at stake, go to a doctor who can make the right call and help abort the baby safely so you don't cause more injury to yourself.

Answer 7

You should seek medical help. Go and have it done in a clinic, otherwise you both will wind up dead!!!!
I don't know anyone who would know how to preform an abortion at home.

Answer 8

thats a tough one..but i would rather die then kill my child whether its born or still inside my womb.

Answer 9

i might sound rude but i rather loose the baby then loose my life cause the baby will go straigjht too heaven n youll have time too make more babies .

Answer 10

if you dont like how the baby turned out its okay dont kill it it doesn't deserve to die..give it to a orphanage but never let it die it was not its fault it had been born