My mother still has the bassinet that she used with us, that her mother used with her, and that her mother used with her. The thing is like 100 years old. I mentioned that I might not want to use it with my child, because I've heard some horror stories about old furniture and safety hazards and such, and she got SO OFFENDED and went off on how "it was good enough for her" and now I can't talk to her without her blowing up about something.
Am I wrong about this? Would the bassinet be fine? It's not like it's in terrific shape, it's been in storage for almost 20 years.
If, indeed, it would be dangerous, how can I explain to her that the safety of my child is more important to me than appeasing the family tradition?
I've even offered just to have the bassinet in the room, for decoration. She's just so offended, she acts like I think I'm better than her or something, when I just want to watch out for the safety of my not-yet-born child.
Help?
2007-08-06
17:55:42
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Maber
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