Adolescent - May 2007

ugh i cant standd it anymore me and my supposely best friend keep getting into these fights and there like kinda big and i literally CANT stand it at alll and i dont know what to do i hate thinking of like ohh go find some new friends i have other friends but like its hard to just switch around im a sophmore in highschool and wow i just cant stand everything right now! what do i doo help

2007-05-05 18:47:17 · 18 answers · asked by Tay 1

My daughter is 15 going on 16 and is out of control! i just found out she sneaks out almost every weekend to go get drunk and high with her friends. the other day i was cleaning her room and found condoms and a homemade bong made from a powerade bottle! also alchohol has been randomly missing from the house. you can constantly smell the pot on her hair clothes and breath also she is obviously stoned most of the time. im scared that if i talk to her and tell her to stop this i'll lose her. i tell myself its just a phase and she'll get over it but im scared for her safety. out of her group of friends (about 20 people) there is maybe 7 girls one of her closest friends has even been to juvy! i told her not to talk to him after that but she just disobeys me its really upsetting why cant she just be a normal teenager like my friends daughters? they all get good grades and their idea of fun is playing netball not getting drunk and stoned and having sex like my daughter! help me

2007-05-05 17:50:44 · 18 answers · asked by Linda 1

When I'm home alone, I have nothing to do. I want some fun ideas that require NO money and NO outside activites. (Mind you, I'm 12 and not allowed to leave the house when I'm the only one in the house!)

2007-05-05 14:34:28 · 24 answers · asked by RockerChickQLB <3<3<3 1

Well im grounded because i got drunk at school ( I know NOT smart) I know that it was wrong but i didnt care. I have lots of issues and have been seeing shrinks and all that fun stuff. So like my parents no that i havent been doing good and stuff. THey just dont understand. Ive been grounded for 2 months now, because i had gotton bad grades, and i think im going to get bad grades again. I am trying in school, but my parents were both smart and dont understand why school is so hard to me. O and now on top of being grounded i have to go to court now for getting drunk at school, Im getting 5-20 hours of community service, 20 hours of lifeskills(drug class), and i also have to go to a couple of drug classes with my parents. Ive been punished long enough. And i want to get all this stuff behind me. My question is how can i get my parents to let me go out again? Because not socializing with anyone is driving me crazy and its just going to make me do something stupid again.

2007-05-05 12:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not saying I do or do not but just wondering who does and who doesn't.

2007-05-05 09:31:10 · 25 answers · asked by erwafredsfdsfsdf 5

then go back to bed for the night? She's been doing this for about a week now.

She's 15. I'm positive she's not into drugs and she doesn't exhibit any depressed behaviors (aside from the sleeping). She's getting a total of about 14.5 hours of sleep per night now.

2007-05-05 08:30:32 · 34 answers · asked by comet girl...DUCK! 6

How's come people tell you to stay a kid for as long as you can. Yet the moment you do anything childish or immature they tell you to grow up.

2007-05-05 07:17:22 · 10 answers · asked by manatee799 2

something that was, weird... what was it?

2007-05-05 06:52:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How sick is the father for 9 months and who gains weight and who has the pain of child birth ?????Interesting concept ????

2007-05-05 05:25:24 · 5 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

I am thinking to do home studying for my 12 years old daughter, I heard she kissed a boy today and I am very upset. so what do you think about it, please serious answer. Thanks

2007-05-04 18:38:11 · 15 answers · asked by Dalena 2

I was dating this boy since I was 15 and he was 18 I got pregnant when I was 16 and he was 19. I wanted tkeep my baby @ first but I didn't really think my bf was ready for the responsibility and my mother was ready to put me out I got my abortion when I was 11 weeks and 4 days, not a day goes by when I dont think about my baby and what I have done. The main reason I got the abortion was because of my family and my mother. Now I beleive that if i would have kept it she would have stayed by my side and learned to except it I was thinking in the moment and not in the future..I know its to late now and i can't change the past but I am curious to know did I make the right decicion???

2007-05-04 17:43:48 · 26 answers · asked by Only Me 1

he asked me out and his friend which is the guy i like was right next to him i dont remember anything but apperantly i said that yea i would go out with him .,.,.,so i told him i dont want to go out with him anymore BUT i feel really bad cuz everyone told me not to dump him and i did. i didnt know him but i cant pretend to like anyone else, i like his friend everytime i see him i cant breath !! i gave him a note but i dont think he knows it was me cuz when i gave it to him i was in a hurry so i dont think he saw me.,.,.,OH AND MY GUY FRIEND WHO IS FRIEND TO BOTH THE GUYS TOLD ME HE IS COOL AROUND ALL THE GUYS BUT HE CURSES ALOT which i dont care cuz i do 2 lolz!! and from his myspace headline he aint to bright .,.,so after i know all these bad things about him how come i still like him ? so i guess the question is WHAT CAN I DO !! im sooo confused !

2007-05-04 16:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by JUST ME 1

I want to live wit my dad, how should i ask him to live over there. He would love for me to live over there but i dont think my mom wants me to leave but i wanna leave. wat should i do?

2007-05-04 10:50:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy I have a major crush on him and think he has a crush on me.One day me and my friend where standing outside of school and my friend was like he's checking u out really hard.Then he was laughing and he looked over at me and we kind stare at other for a while.one day I was walking in the hall and had turn around and I saw him and I just stare at him and he was stare at me and this was going all until he turned the concer.yesterday I was going to talk to him but I kind of chicken out and we walking and we came to a door and held it for me.Today me and my friends were at library and my friend was like he been looking at u the whole time we were at the lidrary.

2007-05-04 09:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by fist wrapped in blood 3

Diary of an Unborn Child

OCTOBER 5:
Today my life began. My parents do not know it yet, but it is I already. And I am to be a girl. I shall have blond hair and blue eyes. Just about everything is settled though, even the fact that I shall love flowers.
OCTOBER 19:
Some say that I am not a real person yet, that only my mother exists. But I am a real person, just as a small crumb of bread is yet truly bread. My mother is. And I am.
OCTOBER 23:
My mouth is just beginning to open now. Just think, in a year or so I shall be laughing and later talking. I know what my first word will be: MAMA.
OCTOBER 25:
My heart began to beat today all by itself. From now on it shall gently beat for the rest of my life without ever stopping to rest! And after many years it will tire. It will stop, and then I shall die.
NOVEMBER 2:
I am growing a bit every day. My arms and legs are beginning to take shape. But I have to wait a long time yet before those little legs will raise me
NOVEMBER 12:

Tiny fingers are beginning to form on my hands. Funny how small they are! I’ll be able to stroke my mother’s hair with them.

NOVEMBER 20:

It wasn’t until today that the doctor told mom that I am living here under her heart. Oh, how happy she must be! Are you happy, mom?

NOVEMBER 25:

My mom and dad are probably thinking about a name for me. But they don’t even know that I am a little girl. I want to be called Kathy. I am getting so big already.

DECEMBER 10:

My hair is growing. It is smooth and bright and shiny. I wonder what kind of hair mom has?

DECEMBER 13:

I am just about able to see. It is dark around me. When mom brings me into the world it will be full of sunshine and flowers. But what I want more than anything is to see my mom. How do you look, mom?

DECEMBER 24:

I wonder if mom hears the whispering of my heart? Some children come into the world a little sick. But my heart is strong and healthy. It beats so evenly: tup-tup, tup-tup. You’ll have a healthy little daughter, mom!

DECEMBER 28:

Today my mother killed me.

2007-05-04 08:00:22 · 38 answers · asked by Lori T 2

Why do teachers give out homework when they kno we ar'nt going to do it or anyhting. they are just like wasting their time making copies and stuff.

2007-05-04 07:38:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so, i'm 17 and pregnant. I know, i'm young. But me and my boyfriend have both decided that we want to have the baby =] We've been together for awhile now and he asked me if i would marry him BEFORE i got preg. We haven't told our parents yet, and i'm really not sure how to. If you saw my dad you would understand. HES HUGE (Not fat, but very very muscular). How should i tell them, what would you do if you were in my situation??

2007-05-04 04:00:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 13 years old and at school im being bullied and made fun of now I feel like hurting myself and im not eating and I cant take it anymore I've gotten some help but that didn't help What should I do?

2007-05-04 03:13:17 · 15 answers · asked by GirlLab 1

ok so this guy his name is Matt, he's like an older brother to me is joining the navy. i keep having nightmares about it and it's freaking me out. i love this guy like a brother and i really don't want him to join. he's 17 turning 18 in september and right now he's going through all of the physical exams and so far he's doing great on all of them. i just spent the weekend @ church with him so i got even closer to him. he's the kind of guy who loves kids (i'm not a little kid) but i mean like he was taking up the whole couch lying on his stomach at church this weekend when he was sleeping and i just like sat down on his legs and he was like," r u comfortable? cuz i'm fine, you weigh like nothing." so he's really nice. what can i do to stop thinking about it?

2007-05-03 16:49:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my familys from jamaica and i just recently moved over to america and im finding school hard ebcause the work and i don't understand anything that they doing in the lessons i feel like a idiot but i don't want to look like a idiot so i don't want to tell anyone and my first grades from school get sent home soon and im worried about it my parents want me to get As fo everything but i don't understand any of it

2007-05-03 16:31:15 · 8 answers · asked by Azibo 1

2007-05-03 14:28:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is everyone so agaisnt teens having sex. like i dont really see the problem wit it.

2007-05-03 13:49:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you look back at my very first question you will see how that i havent seen or spoken to my boyfriend in weeks. well last night at like 4 in the morning he snuck in my room. i was so happy to see him. he apologized for all the stuff that happened and he was sad that we lost our baby. So we talked and talked and so on and so on. And then out of no where he asked me to marry me. he had a ring and everything. (it was really nice) and he asked me to leave with him. He said he had enough money to support us both and i dont have to worry about anything. I said yes because i really do love him. My parents have no idea. They never even gave him a chance from the start. Just because he is a little older and not full hispanic. Ive already made up in my mind that im going to do it, I just dont know if i should tell my parents or just leave a note. because if i talk to them about it they will try to stop me. i love my parents and all but are madd strict.

2007-05-03 13:42:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 14 and my little sister (10) and I are being raised by our older brother Brandon, 19 (dont ask about mom and dad, please), and I accidently got my sister in trouble. Last night She asked me if she could go out with a friend and her mom and I told her yes but she had to call our brother and see what time she had to be home. He told her 7:30. Well a little bit after she left she called me and said they were going out to dinner and for me to let Brandon know and I said ok. Well, I left to go out with one of my friends and completely forgot. She didnt get home til 9:30 and my brother was fuming. Apparently she got owned when she got home for being "late" and worring my brother. He's not a physical person but I guess he was really worried. Anyway, I told her I'd tell him it was my fault but she wont let me. She doesnt want me to get in trouble. I'm still gonna tell him . He's an unbelievable big brother and loves us but How can I tell him so he understands without getting in trouble?

2007-05-03 13:35:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

because I'm gifted and in advanced classes that I should be getting straight A's. But they dont know how hard that is....

am I wrong to think this?

2007-05-03 11:18:16 · 28 answers · asked by tai :o 2

Ok, im 12 and i got sexuali abused and i got pregnant. And so i want to have the baby and put it to adoption but my parents are forcing me to get and abortion. Me personly im totaly against that but my parent are forcing me. So im realy scared of what to espect.

PS; Sorry for my BAD spelling

2007-05-03 11:16:36 · 36 answers · asked by Megumi 1

I hear all these stories about all these girls loosing their virginity at age 12, 13 and 14!! I can't beleive it. (unless you were raped that is different). It is not even legal! I can't beleive it. I am in 8th grade and there are 3 girls that are pregnant!!!!!!

Listen to this:
My nextdoor neighbor who is 11 years old is developed and has had her period. She lost her virginity. She is 11 years old! She lost it to a 14 year old boy. I can't beleive it! She told me this because she is sort of my friend. I am shocked. How can someone that young have sex? 11 year olds shouldn't even know what sex is! Anyone agree with me? Who else has heard of or is someone that lost their virginity at a young age and regrets it?

P.S I am really sorry if i am affending anyone. Please forgive me i just don't really get it. Please tell me why you lost your virginity at a certain age. Thanks everyone. All answers are open!

2007-05-03 11:14:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bff is 14 and her mom takes her out of school to babysit her little brother who is 2years old. I think that its wrong, she has done this 18 times this year and if she misses 3 more days of school than she won't pass. Do you think this is wrong or is it only me??

2007-05-03 08:00:31 · 20 answers · asked by dragonflygurl_32 3

Should this be alarming?
Question Details: For a few weeks, I've been feeling sorta under the weather. I had major headaches that cause me to have to miss out on stuff, red thorat, being freezing cold, hard to swallow, and other things. Should this be alarming and I have a big dance performance coming up, what should i do?

2007-05-03 05:18:01 · 15 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4

okay we're both 20 my sister wants to have sex she says she'll use a pill and i can use a condom and we'll never ever tell anyone and im getting really tempted because she has nice boobs and yeah i might do it what should i do

2007-05-03 04:40:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous