Adolescent - May 2007

I am 17 and my best friend is 18. We've been friends for a very long time but in the last 2years we've become a lot closer. We both love each other as more than friends.

The problem is, we live atleast a 2hour plane trip away from each other. The next I will see him will be in August. Next year, however, I plan to move up there for University.

We've talked about sex and etc (we are both virgins by choice) and we really want to be together.

Losing my virginity is a big deal for me, him too.

I told him I want to be in a relationship with him and I want to be able to wake up to him the next morning. I also don't want to feel rushed into it and we should take things slowly, and not have sex when I come up to visit in August.

I am on the pill and we will be careful and use more than 1 kind of protection.

Is this sensible?

(I'm not religious and I don't believe you have to wait for marriage btw)

Thank you.

2007-05-02 19:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7

What to say to those who think its natural and makes you smarter to take drugs?
and who think that the government is just trying to hold us down and drugs heighten things and are natural cause they come out of the ground and important to become smarter and expand your thinking. at 15 years of age!!!!
and he says that some of us are put on this world to be visionaries and the drugs help this or something that are supposed to show the rest of the world this.
Help what to say?
I am totally against this btw

2007-05-02 17:44:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you use condoms.. have you gotten pregnant or has it been ok...(experience)

2007-05-02 16:41:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well, I'm 16 & my boyfriend is 16. We have a baby together, she's 5 months old. My mom & dad are getting back together, They both make really good money, My mom is movin back to Texas, & we are currently living in Florida. My life is here, Him & I have raised our daughter wonderfuly so far. I don't want to leave him here, He hates it here. His mom treats him like crap, She hates me, She tortures him emotionally, He feels as if im the only one that loves him and is there for him. Okay, I can't leave him here in Florida to rot, I want him with us, My parents said is was A okay. They were going to help us get our GED's. He alraedy has a Job in Texas for sure. My parents were going to help us get a place to live. Be a family. But his mom is the only one stopping us. What should i do? He can't be here, He will lose it and end up hurting himself badly. And i just can't leave him, He feels as if my family is all he has. And for us to just leave him. What should i do? I want him to be w/ me

2007-05-02 10:10:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 09:40:13 · 9 answers · asked by crazyjlo23 1

Ok, so I am 18 years old, just finsihing up my 1st year of college! I plan on going to Grad school for physical thearpy. I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years nd am currently living with him, in our apartment. I have dreams of being pregnant almost every night. And believe me I really want to have a baby, but i am afraid it will mess up my carrer... What do you think? Is there anything I can do to get my mind off of it? Should I have a baby? Is it possible to continue school with a child? Please help!

2007-05-02 08:38:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 08:12:57 · 29 answers · asked by St. Tom Cruise 3

My Mom is making me go to one of her friends "renewing their vows" I barely even know these people! Its going to be boring and I don't want to go! What do I do? She said even if I am sick I still HAVE to go! Not Fair!! Is my Mom right? Or am I?

2007-05-02 07:03:07 · 19 answers · asked by Brown-Eyed-Beauty 3

to have a test to see if i can have babys, when you have this test what do they do, do you have to have blood taken or somthin pease please help
thankx
and also if you havent stared your period that does mean that you cant have babys dosnt it
im just chekin thats all

2007-05-02 05:17:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a girl with like flamin red hair. I really hate is sometimes and how pale i am i cant even tan every. People act like its painful to look at my legs if i wear shorts or something and it like a joke to them but i dont think its funny! Sometiems i cry because people get so mean. I want to dye it but my parents wont let me what can i do???

2007-05-02 04:55:09 · 41 answers · asked by Tia 2

2007-05-02 04:31:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf and i are planning to have sex..and as much as possible i don't want to use condom, specially in our first time, any tips? thanks!

2007-05-02 01:17:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

How old were you when you first had sex? You went on a first date? You made-out with someone?

2007-05-01 15:02:32 · 49 answers · asked by Sexy♥Sky 2

My teacher has hepatitis from being a heroin addict. He was like, "Yeah I quit...a little" I was like wtf? Instead of teaching us all he talks about it drugs, guns and getting chased by the police. He gives us all F's for fun. He kicked my desk over while I was sitting in it. I talked to the dean and he said, "He has been a valuable member of our team for a long time, since he is sick we need to help him out." wtf??

2007-05-01 13:51:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-01 13:25:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well i realy like this boy and i think he likes me too. He said that i was so lucky cause i'm so perfect and he always tries to tickle me ( i think its cause i tell him to stop and i hold his hand) anyway i realy liek him and i want to kiss him! How do i hint that i want him to kiss me?( plz nothing cheezy like giving notes) I don't know what to do i am so confused! plz plz help

2007-05-01 12:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 3

im like so upset rite now i cant stop crying and stuff. i was about to leave for this pep squad meeting for the hs im going to nx yr. but when my mom picks me up from d-hall she said i cant go. she said since my best friends are doing it she dosnt want me to be in it cause she hates them. she said i need new friends she hates mine. well i love my friends i have known them forever and im not going to stop being friends wit them. she said i also cant do cheerleading cause she believes i dont really want to do that, ya well i really do and thats mainly wh im so upset rite now. she thinks i dont want to do this but she cant see me crying for hrs that i really want to do this. is like anyway to change my moms mind cause i seriously wanna do it but shes not wanting me to. and its not just the meeting she dosnt want me to go to she dosnt want me to be in cheerleading or pep squad at all, she wants to change my classes to ROTC which is so gay i wouldnt do that in my life.

2007-05-01 12:25:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend found out that I have my period and now he asks me all the time if I'm PMSing....It's starting to make me feel uncomfortable...what should I do?

2007-05-01 12:09:36 · 10 answers · asked by Lady T 1

We have been having sex for 8 months now, but the last time, the condom broke. Could she get pregnant, cause im way too young to have kids. We live in Hawaii, Im 16, and shes 15. We are legal in the state, but I still dont want kids. What do I do? Who do I tell?
Please?

2007-05-01 10:28:27 · 13 answers · asked by chris 1

My daughter is 12 and is being called a ***** and a ho by another 12 year old girl who lives on our street. This time it involved a boy they both like. But this has gone on for the past 4 years we've lived there. Me and the other mother have had several talks and nothing is helping. We have argued because she confronts her daughter who denies everything. Her daughter has a crappy homelife but that doesn't give her the right to take it out on my daughter. My daughter is shy/scared and doesn't say anything back to this girl. Now the other kids on the bus on taunting her telling her to stand up for herself, which is just making my daughter feel worse. I have tried role playing with her and being as supportive and encouraging as I can. I want her to stand up for herself too, but my daughter has to decide what she's comfortable with. My question to you all is what more can I do? Go to the school? Talk to her parents again? My daughter is such a sweet girl and it breaks my heart.

2007-05-01 09:31:39 · 25 answers · asked by corona_1215 1

Wouldn't the better solution be to give kids easy access to the devices that make sex safer as well as provide them with a solid education about the topic?

2007-05-01 08:10:42 · 21 answers · asked by trer 3

Ok, I'm punk rock (not mtv or avril) and where I live 99% of the guys are preps. ITS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO GET A BF!! What should I do??!?!?!?

2007-05-01 07:21:53 · 12 answers · asked by [random name] 4

Im 14 and a female,
And well I need that forum signed or my teacher will be calling home.
How do i get it signed.
I really don't like talking to my parents about this..

2007-05-01 07:17:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im cleaning the livingroom and a find a little piece of paper that is folded up that has difficult science definitions in very small letters printed on it. Boy did my childhood come back to me and I remembered my cheat sheets that I made for tests. Im thinking that its a possibility that my 15 yr old daughter may be cheating. Ive never had a reason to think that she has in the past. Im not sure how to handle this. Any advice?

2007-05-01 05:22:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you pull off a butterflies wings and let it go it does not fly away,
why is this?

2007-05-01 01:24:57 · 16 answers · asked by phyrdraka 1