my bf and i are planning to have sex..and as much as possible i don't want to use condom, specially in our first time, any tips? thanks!
2007-05-02 01:17:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if you aren't planning on using a condom...good luck for NOT getting pregnant...but there is a way that you may want to look at it...
in order for this plan to work, you have to have regular (like clockwork) periods...
for example..if your periods are 28 days, from the beginning of your period, count 14 days...that should be your ovulation day...then 14 days from that, should be your period again...(it goes from 1st day to 1st day)
then count back 3-4 days from the 14th day. That period of time (no pun here) and the day after your ovulation day (day 15) should be the off limit days...as sperm can last after being ejaculated into a vagina for 3-5 days in the female while searching for that lonely egg...
if your periods ARE NOT regular, this will not work and you are on your own...also, have you figured how to protect your self against STD's?
good luck
2007-05-03 17:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think I'm trying to be ignorant, but if you & your b/f want to have sex use a condom. Condoms don't just prevent pregnancy, but also STD's. && The pill isn't 100% accurate, you still have some chance of getting pregant & it surely does NOT prevent you from getting an STD. Either have PROTECTED sex and have a better chance of NOT getting pregnant or an STD or don't have protected sex & risk getting pregnant or an STD. I'm just saying if you're going to have unprotected sex then be sure to know the consequences. If you aren't ready for the consequences that proves you are not ready to have sex.
2007-05-02 06:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um i would use a condom escpecially if he's not a virgin cos u could get an sti and plus thats the most effective way to prevent pregnancy.
a condom doesnt feel or make any difference anyway exept you have a WAY less chance of getting preggaz or sick.
buy ribbed or flavoured ones i you think a condom will feel bad these ones make it better lol >_<
being on the pill is a good idea if ur having sex too thn u have nealy no chance of getting pregs specially if u use condoms.
the only other suggestion i can give is get him to pull out b4 he comes....but thts not real effective
2007-05-05 19:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Blitzkrieg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex! It's the only 100% safe method of birth control. Condoms are the next best in your situation. If you are not already on birth control, it can take up to and over a month for it to be considered safe. The withdrawl method doesn't work well, trying to do it on days you think you are not ovualting doesn't work well...doing it on your period is not only gross (especially for your first time) but it is also not 100% effective, meaning you CAN still fall pregnant although it is a slight chance. Go to your doctor or clinic and get some advice or you are gonna be a young mumma! Good luck.
2007-05-02 01:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by West Aussie Chick 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
there are other methods. like IUD's. these are put up inside of you to stop the sperm from reaching the eggs. however, if yo do not use condoms your chance of getting an STD is very high. my daughter was a virgin and she met a boy they fell in love, she was 16. he was her first. anyway he had slept with like 3 other women before her, she was on the pill and they used condoms sometimes, well she after being with him for 2 years she caught genital warts. because they can live on the male/female for up 2 . 2 years. they didn't even no he had them. he had his froze off , she had to apply cream everyday, that hurt her so much, it took months for them to go away. she was in so much pain she couldn't even walk. so you see, you should use condoms.
2007-05-02 02:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by trish p 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to use a condom or pill then I suggest you ask your family Dr. to give you the form of birth control that they give you a shot for. It's as good as the pill but instead of taking a pill everyday you go (I think) once every 3 months or so for this birth control shot. No other form of birth control will be as safe. Even responsible people when using a condom will also sometimes add a spermicide foam along with it. Having sex can be really fun but you really don't want to end up as another statistic of teenage pregnancy.
2007-05-02 01:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lizard 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you aren't ready to have kids, you aren't ready to have sex. No method save not having sex is 100%. Condoms and the pill are the most reliable of methods, unless one of you is sterilized.
2007-05-02 06:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Merrik N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question forgot about stds. Even if this is his "first time" there are other ways he can have stds already that he could pass to you (that he wouldnt have gotten by having sex). Could have inherited it, blood work, etc, he may not even know he has them. You either. So use a condom.
2007-05-02 01:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by lillilou 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
you are taking a big chance, you can get pregnant the first time, if he pulls out, there is a big risk, the pre-seminal fluid contains sperms, so you are still at risk. Try to get the pill, or an inyeccion, otherwise you will fall pregnant.
2007-05-02 01:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lyz A【★】 α∂єℓαι∂α【★】 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex if you dont want to use the protection to protect your self and gaurd against an unwanted pregnancy and the chance of a sexually transmitted disease, then I dont think you are really ready to have sex because your arent using your common sense. NO GLOVE NO LOVE was the way my mom used to preach it to me
2007-05-02 01:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by weeping_spirit 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋