We have been having sex for 8 months now, but the last time, the condom broke. Could she get pregnant, cause im way too young to have kids. We live in Hawaii, Im 16, and shes 15. We are legal in the state, but I still dont want kids. What do I do? Who do I tell?
Please?
2007-05-01 10:28:27 · 13 answers · asked by chris 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
She had her period this week, does that mean shes not?
The last time we did it was like 2 weeks ago
2007-05-01 10:56:06 · update #1
And, BTW, there is no way im leaving her even if she has a baby, I love her too much.
The good thing is, is that we are well off, so if the worst happens, we will be able to support it
2007-05-01 11:00:05 · update #2
It's possible but 2 weeks is to early to tell wait and she if see gets her period next month, that's why they say men and women should both use some kind of birth control for example:if a man uses a condom the woman should be on birth control pills or any kind of birth control she prefers so you will be protected if the condom breaks . You sound like a good man for your age most teenage boys will leave their girlfriends when they get pregnant and it sounds like you take care of your responsibilities , we need more guys young and older to be more like you I just hope you stick to what you said years later and don't give up on her .Good Luck and I hope everything works out just fine for the both of you.
2007-05-01 12:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by angel eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the condom broke and your semen came out of the condom YES she could get pregnant..... This is the worst part you are going to have to wait for a little while because she either needs to miss a period or you can buy one of those test that say you can have a result in less than 3 days but still I don't think those things are very accurate......
A blood test is the best thing but a pee test can tell you the same thing.
As for the What are you going to do thing..... That is a question that can only be answered by the 2 of you.....Just explain to her that the child will not have a very fair chance at life considering you are both very young and not ready to be parents.... Take this from someone who has been in the same position as you are in now. I had my son when I was 16 and I still struggle today..... that was 13 years ago.....
It is hard and you will never have a chance to have a young life.
Tell your parents an aunt or uncle maybe, right now you need an adult who will be calm and think with their head.
I am sorry that you have to deal with this.... But trust me it will get better.....
Good Luck and you will be in my prayers.....
2007-05-01 17:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by liddo1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible, condoms or any birth control for that matter aren't 100% effective even if they don't malfunction. getting married for a baby isn't always the right way to go either sweetie, it can cause more stress between you two and cause problems for a child who has to grow up in a home without love and constant fighting. please email me for a list of symptoms, signs, preparations, other forms of birth control, helpful websites to get things for the baby (free, cheap or wonderful coupons) and please check my profile and see what i worte to the last 2 questions i answered before this to see what i am talking about. my email is ugfounder@yahoo.com, i'm 19 i have a stepdaughter, i work, take care of the cooking, cleaning, majority of the bills, do most of my stepdaughters care taking, and am 5 months pregnant with my first child ok? and there's a lot more that i refuse to post about but will tell privatly that may help you both ok? sorry i sound so frank, but seeing so many teenagers feeling so scared and seeing how unprepared they are really pulls a heart string for me, i want to help everyone i really do, but with all that i do i'm tired all the time and don't always sound very nice lol. well lt me know what happens (either way pregnant or not, and i will do my best to advise you on either situation should you want any other opinions ok? good luck to you both! many happy years to come
2007-05-01 17:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by PiX iE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a possiblity that she could be pregnant. I would wait it out and see if she gets her period or not and if she doesn't then have her get get a pregnancy test. Then I would worry about telling people about it. No need to worry your parents about all this now.
2007-05-01 17:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lovemykids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if the condom broke, your girlfriend can get pregnant.
Tough Sh*t if you don't want kids. If she wants to keep the baby, you're going to have to be a man about it - unless, of course, you want to be labeled as a dead-beat father, and wind up as another statistic.
2007-05-01 17:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Joa5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only are y'all too young to be parents, y'all are too doggone young to be screwing around.
If you manage to dodge the bullet this time, you'd better keep your britches zipped until you are married, or at least until you are old enough to support any children you sire.
You might be legal, but if that was my daughter, you'd get a pretty good butt kicking, and so would she. I figure she is as much to blame as you are.
Doc
2007-05-01 17:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have sex, condom or no, you run the risk of pregnancy, you need to talk to your girl about this issue and find out where she stands, don't worry until you have something to worry about, and by the way if you are too young to have kids then you are too young to have sex!
2007-05-01 17:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by clyde0523 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you won't leave her. No, she most likely isn't pregnant because she had her period. But BE CAREFUL. If you aren't ready for a kid, you shouldn't be having sex. That is just my opinion.
2007-05-01 18:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not pregnant if she had her period a week ago and the last time you had sex was 2 weeks ago!
2007-05-01 19:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Simpley Me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could be pregnant, and you should have thought about being too young before you abused the powers of creation. I hope she is...
HAHA
2007-05-01 17:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Brent A 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋