Adolescent - May 2007

My 15 yr old wrote me a note to inform me that she had sex for the first time and is afraid that I will me mad or wont understand. she throw the note away and I found it in the trash. How do I approach her about it. Please help The young boy same age is a nice kid, comes from a broken family do I keep them away from each other or talk to them

2007-05-09 06:14:37 · 20 answers · asked by a mom that is worried 1

She wants a " good " reason

2007-05-09 02:03:31 · 32 answers · asked by jessie 1

Over the weekend he steeped on a stingray and got stung in the foot pretty badly...(pretty foolishly on his part) he waited until the next day to go to the hospital when stuff started oozong out of his foot...do you think he'll be ok?
I mean he won't die like Steve did will he?

2007-05-08 13:42:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

let you have an exchange student for a year. i'm 14 and going into 9 grade this year. and last year my mom and i wanted to host an exchange student, but my dad said no because he wanted me and the exchange student to be the same age. so i said okay and he promised me we can host somebody next year. well this is next year and now my mom and i asked him, but he still said no. we asked him why and he is giving us all these lame excuses. like "where is she going to sleep" answer- on my bunkbed. dad-"that's not a good enough bed' and yes it is. what is the real reason why he doesn't want an exchange student for a year? and how can i get him to let us. and he isn't even around most of the week. because of work. he is only home on weekends. so i don't get why he says no.

2007-05-08 13:42:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay...i had a field trip today, and we went swimming. i have been getting cramps a lot lately, and i feel bloated, so i wore a pad, not knowing we would be going in the water. i went in, and everything was fine, (i was wearing my clothes, so you couldnt see it like if i was wearing a bathing suit or anything). i felt a little itchy 'down there', so i was a little nervous, because i know you can get yeast infections if youre pad is wet. as soon as i got home i went to the bathroom, and all around the pad was this white, like gelatin stuff. it was SOO wierd. i figured that the pad has something in it and when it got wet it like "leaked" out, but im still freaking out.
please help me!!!!

p.s. any bad answers and ill report you, and please some serious suggestions!

2007-05-08 11:58:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

the role the media plays in the lives of young peopl, their famillies and values

2007-05-08 09:42:54 · 5 answers · asked by lil bit 1

i took my mom's car one night to go see my boyfriend to i could spend some time with him but my mom did not know i used her car cause she told me i could not go. well like 3 days later my mom frinds out i went and i had did somethings she did not like and my mom yelled at me alot so what should i do

2007-05-08 08:26:57 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just met my soon to be new step sister today. She's 14, and not as bad as I thought she would be. she's the smile on her face all the time, full of giggles, always making jokes, kind of person. anyhoo, we're gonna be sharing a room soon so i was wondering what we could do together in the first few days to bond together as sisters so we don't end up hating each others guts later on. I'm 17 and even though i won't admit it to anyone, i've always kind of wanted a sister nearer to my age (I already have twin 9 yo sisters). so what could we do to start off on the right foot (our parents are getting married on Friday, and they're moving in on Saturday)?

2007-05-08 07:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by 2 Tough 4 You 1

2007-05-08 07:00:36 · 50 answers · asked by LYNN 1

My son is tormented daily by the kids in his school. They throw stuff at him, hit him, steal from him, call him names, you got it. Evey day he comes home from school either madder than hell or trying not to cry. I have brought this up several times to the principal, the vice principal and the counselor. They do nothing. However, my son may flunk because some days I let him stay home because it just kills my heart to send him somewhere I know he will be tortured. Anyone have any suggestions? I am desperate. There are only about 3 weeks of school left. I have considered just pulling him out of school (you can do that in Texas), but what kind of repercussions would he face? I honestly dont know what to do, but I just finished shaving his head since they threw gum in it yesterday and I am madder than hell.

2007-05-08 06:01:56 · 15 answers · asked by pepper_0713 2

But we both know that our families are going to flip. We will tell them when we know for sure. Is there a certain way we can reduce the flippage?

2007-05-07 18:30:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-07 18:08:03 · 49 answers · asked by Anne H 2

there's this guy, i think he's kinda cute, and i was wondering how i could get him to notice me haha (:

2007-05-07 17:46:24 · 10 answers · asked by sillygirl 2

I'm in the 7th grade. i usually set my alarm to 6:30 a.m.........my dad is SO FREAKIN' ANNOYING! he wakes me up at 5:45 to tell me that the alarm is going to ring soon!!!GRRRRRRRRR!!!i dont get enough sleep 'cause of him!!!!!!!!!!!!i've asked him to STOP doing that a MILLION times, yet he DOESN'T stop! what should i do?????????????pleeeeeeez help!

2007-05-07 15:56:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got my name changed today because its being always spelled and pronounced wrong as a child; it was spelled as Chole and my middle name was Nechelle which isn't right I don't think almost like Michelle. So what do you think? Does it sound right maybe?

2007-05-07 14:46:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend recently decided to quit smoking for me. However, for the past night and all today he has been doing aweful. He started with night sweats, continues to sweat, has a migrane, looks like he's in terrible pain, and now has started vomiting, amoungst other things. I feel soooo bad, is there anything I can do? He is so weak and feels terrible, and has asked me a coupel times to get him a cig so it can go away. Of course I refuse, but I feel terrible. Is he going to be OK? He refuses to use the gum or patch. Please help, I feel terrible and need to help him. He just gets worse and worse.

2007-05-07 13:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by Harmonics 1

I am 14 and I live with my full time single mom. I am not allowed to go outside out of the front yard without her.

I am not allowed to watch pg-13 movies or r rated movies.

I have to go to bed at 8:30.

My mom wont let me take a bath by my self, she will be sitting on the chair while I have it to make sure I am clean, and she will wash my hair, and she applies like 100 squirts of lotion on me after im out.


Is my mom a little overprotective or is this normal for her to do?
I told her if i can have my privacy and if i can go outside but she said its my job as a mom to do these things.

what do you guys think?

2007-05-07 12:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by Joe d 1

she wont let me go out with my friends. (and no she doesnt say tht cause she wants to spend time with me cause she went to a party tht night she told me no)
she always tells me to help her do stuff/do stuff.(laundry, room, dinner, babysit etc.)
she "shushes" me all the time.
i cant stand tht biotch!

2007-05-07 12:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 3

and NO medicine whatsoever....
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I will get off the computer after I'm through with my HW, but I can't go to bed because I have at least 3 hours of rehersal to do...help?

2007-05-07 12:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13, 2 months ago mom decided I gotta wear a bodysuit, that pice of undergarment that covers all your breasts, , torso, back and clips at your crotch. I hate that thing, it's uncomfortable, hot, makes me sweat, but she said I have no choice and and have to wear it everyday, except for sleeping and taking a shower. I posted a question about this last week at http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070503082319AAOmrR8&pa=FZB6NXXtFWMW0cLWwu0S9e_wVEvJLVHV_Tv0gHjOITfpcjqPJ90ewTSwLRTkupQJyyT57jrn.HwHTLmO_yo-&paid=add_watch I talked to mom and she didnt change, her mind, said I gotta wear a bodysuit and that's it. No use complaining and if I rebel I'll be punished.
Since she's my mom and won't change her mind, am I stuck? Will I have to get used t a bodysuit and wear in it in the summer? Does she, as amy mom, have the right to make me wear one though I hate and none of my friends wear one? People told me it's not child abuse, but this sucks, I hate. Mom syas it's to protect me

2007-05-07 11:27:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so my boyfriend is a smoker. He knew I hated it so smoked away from me. I kept asking him to quit, and he finally said he would for me. So it was his second night, and we were laying in bed, and he started to feel really sick, and kept sweating and shaking. I felt really bad for him, so I was holding him close to me, like I was protecting him. I know it sounds really dumb, but I felt really good, and just laid there rubbing his hair. I felt really protective of him. I feel bad for him, but it made me feel special/important, whatever you call it. What was it, maternal instincts or something? Should I feel bad about this? Do any other girls have this guilty pleasure? Am I normal?
We're both 19.

2007-05-07 11:19:09 · 15 answers · asked by Harmonics 1

*i know im asking this again but the first time posting it didnt help*

what do i tell my parents when they discover my engagement ring?

i cant think of too many lies because it doesnt look cheap so i cant say i got it out of a machine or anything


my sister says to just tell them but i cant

should i say i found it?



btw: 14 and live with them so i cant really hide it

2007-05-07 11:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 years old, in two months I will be 18. I am very happy to see that I am going to be legally an adult. However, I believe that, as a teen, I will have too much independence for my age. That it can get out of hand. And I am afraid of that.

2007-05-07 10:11:23 · 6 answers · asked by College Kid 5

My sister is 18 immature/naive/sweet person but messing around with her ex bf who has gf. It has only been 3-4 times but the last time they had sex they did not use a condom she is on the pill but is very forgetful about taking it.She also acts like pregnancy will never happen to her !Why do my sister and other girls behave like this not beeing consistant about taking the pill but expecting it to work?

2007-05-07 07:38:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My almost 14 year old daughter splits her time between her fathers house and mine. She won't be back here for a few days, and I hated the way we put her bed in her bedroom when we moved in here 7 months ago. So I rearranged her room! How mad is she going to be???

2007-05-07 04:05:11 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Kim 4

Many people seem to be misinformed or uninformed when it comes to this potentially deadly and disabling behavior. Huffing is the informal term that describes inhalant use, and other terms include sniffing, bagging, ballooning, chroming, or glading. A friend has a traumatic brain injury (tbi) and other permanent damage including bone marrow (fatty inner lining of the bones) damage from when she huffed at age 12. She's now in her 30's. Studies show that 1 in 4 kids by 8th grade have tried it.

Please do talk with your children about the use of inhaling fumes from household or industrial products used to get a cheap, quick high and how destructive they really are which include glue, paint, gasoline, nail polish, aerosol spray cans, whipped cream dispensers (compressed gas which is actually nitrous oxid) or any other type of gas or solvent. The person can die to become permanently disabled even after 'just' One time!

National Inhalant Prevention Coalition: www.inhalants.org

2007-05-06 10:18:49 · 3 answers · asked by jannsody 7

Do you think a 20 year old should date a 14 year old?
This 20 year old asked me out and I am 14 of course I told him no. But do you all think that is right.

2007-05-06 09:25:17 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's the best way for me to get out of my house and go to the park without my mom noticing that I'm gone. [I got in trouble & my mom's home]

2007-05-06 08:12:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad and my mom bothhave just found i talk to strangers online and that say rude stuff about my mom. well its all true wat i say but still. my dad dosnt kno half the **** that goes on at my moms house so thats why hes getting so mad. the only reason i turn to the internet for help or to talk to someone i b/c no one really ever talks to me about my problems at my moms house or anything. maybe if my da knew that he wouldnt be so mad rite now. well hes gonna kno sooner cause he said hes gonna read evrywhere i have been on the internet but o well. wat can i do about this im so upset rite now. and i guess im not gonna be on here for a long time. so ya bye everyone.

2007-05-06 07:34:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so last nite my bro had a few friends over and he went outside 2 his car cuz he was talkin 2 his gf, well while he was outside, it was just me and 1 of his friends, i was cleaning te kitchen and doing my HW, well he started talking 2me, and i kept tring 2 get away from him cuz he was annoying me, so i went to my room and he came in and then he forced me 2 have sex with him, i didnt tell my bro cuz i am scared 2, and i dont no wat 2 do, the guy is 21 and im 14, should i tell, he told me if i told any1 e would do it again and that he would kill me, what do i do?

2007-05-06 05:09:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous