Adolescent - May 2007

Hello, I'm 14 years old, I have been dating my BF since October of last year, and all along the line he purchased gifts for me and all sorts of stuff. He even gave me a $200 ring for Christmas.

I feel like i'm stealing from him. I feel like I have nothing to offer, he's been contributing to the relation but I haven't. Should I show my appreciation with s.e.x?

2007-05-25 00:35:48 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a 24 year old male and have recently fallen for a younger girl. She is 16 and feels the same way. Although she is perfectly legal do you think she is still a bit young?

2007-05-24 22:00:41 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous

so this is my sisters curfew. when I was her age mine was 9 on a school night. I think my mom is really messing up with her (I mean she drove off with 3 boys and no other girls). besides this being unfair I also don't find it safe because she oten breaks curfew b/c my mom goes to bed at 10 so my sister can really come home whenever she wants. I think i just was way too good of a kid so my mom thinks my sister will be as good as me which is not the truth. sorry just had to get that off my chest!

What is your curfew on a school night or what is your kids curfew on a school night.

2007-05-24 16:22:06 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i know everyone is probably sick of these questions..but..

how do mothers know everything about you?
how do they know you havent been a virgin in 2years?
how do they know your still dating the kid they dont want you to date because of his parents?
how do they know your pregnant without you telling them?

how do mothers know everything about you without you saying anything? is it like a vibe or something?

id really like to know how they can possibly know everything.

2007-05-24 12:30:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay. well i am 14 and i think i am pregnant. and i don't know what to do. i am still getting my period. but a lot of my friends said that there moms got theres when they were pregnant. and i don't know what to do. i have all the symptoms. and its only been about like 5 or 6 days since i had sex with my boyfriend. and he said he would stay with me but i am not 100 percent sure he will. i just need help. i think i am pregnant. and i am probably spelling that wrong but i don't care. what should i do. i don't want my mom to find out either, or at least until i am 100% sure. what do yall think i should do?

2007-05-24 10:59:38 · 16 answers · asked by layla. 1

2007-05-24 09:59:09 · 39 answers · asked by The First Dragon 7

Ok so I posted a Q about this guy who I like and I thought he liked me and should I give him a note telling him..I wrote it..but then decided I didn't want to give it to him. Well my friend took it and tried to hand it to him but I slapped her and then she handed it to him!! He then walked outside and my friend saw him sit on the ground with all his friends around and after he read it..throw it on the ground! But EVERYONE told me he liked me ALOT!!

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2007-05-24 09:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Fashion_Addict 2

Im 15, a C cup.Mom worries about my health and modesty and makes me wear bras with much support, full coverage and 4 hooks in the back, like the one at the one at
http://www.anita.com/us/en/147,1,104,0,39236__products-detail.htm They are good, but confining and hot, and summer is coming. I tried to convince her to let me wear other kind of bras but she didn'tt change up her mind at all. We have a wonderful relationship, she's a kinda caring and loving mom and I don't disobey, though I don't like those bras. Yesterday she came to bedside and spent almost an hour explaining to me with love why she wants me to wear them. I didn't agree, but she's my mom and I know it's out of love. Is this something worth fighting over? Or should I just accept this without complaints to keep our relationship? And accept the fact I'll sweat a lot in the summer, oh? Dad asked , O hun, be patiemt and obey, don't fight, please, and, unfortunatelly to me, my Dr told mom those bras are good for me.

2007-05-24 09:23:15 · 13 answers · asked by Marta 1

to come back to live wtih me. Can you give me the law in Alabama. pertaining to this. Can you direct me some web sites. Can I find the law of a parent that has a child in Foster care? Thanks

2007-05-24 08:52:14 · 5 answers · asked by whererthere 1

My daughter is 5 weeks pregnant by her boyfriend, who is a total loser!, can he go to jail because it is against the law for a 15 year old to have sex. I keep telling him that if he doesn't get a job and help support the child he made, then I will start legal proceedings against him. Can I?? He is such a loser, he does drugs (pot), he won't keep a job, and he is in trouble w/ the law. What can I do?

2007-05-24 00:12:09 · 51 answers · asked by Friend to all 2

i have a boyfriend and i am in a relationship with him for a year and a half now. and there is this guy. he was after me for years til now and never give up although i asked him to. so, it happens that there was once i was really down and facing this huge problem. my boyfriend didnt sense that there is something wrong with me. he went to bed very early and left me alone. i didnt disappointed because i am the one who didnt tell him i am having problems. but the thing is, this guy, he sensed that i was down immediately after chatting with me for like only a few minutes. i felt that he is really sinsitive and very caring. he even sent a song i really love to cheer me up. he had been there for me for years but i have never had any feelings towards him. but this time, i really felt touched and started to notice his care and love for me. am i falling for him? or am i just touched because he cared for me more than my bf do? what should i do with this feeling?

2007-05-23 19:01:07 · 11 answers · asked by colver 2

say a boy i know is 16 and he is being molested by his dad since 8 or 9 ... are the odds against him of being str8 vs. bi longterm?

and if so how would he get rid of the bi feelings if he wanted to... can they be deprogrammed from his brain somehow?

please dont tell me to call the police or tell my mom.. that is not the question.

2007-05-23 18:17:14 · 23 answers · asked by Justin L 1

I'm 17 and in my last year of high school. My mum has never wanted me to get a part time job but after talking to her and persuading to her that I can juggle my school work, sports, social commitments and a job, Mum said I could find one.

Subway is opening a new restaurant down the road from me. So I applyed and got the job. Four of my friends applyed and only one of them got a job.

Today I got my roster and I found that a girl named Stacey got a fulltime job there.

This girl is the nastiest, selfish and rudest girl I know. I've known her since I was 5. She rung up my best friend and threatened to stab her to death. She also harrased and beat up my other good friend. She's never done anything more serious that a bit of name calling to me.

I really don't want to work with her because of this. I know that there are people in life you don't get along with, but this is a bit different.

We both work on Saturdays and she is the duty manager. I really don't feel comfortable working...

2007-05-23 17:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7

if a parent has knowledge that their teen has no key, no car and no cell phone. yet they still lock the doors without leaving any way for the teen to get inside and the teen has absolutely nowhere to go. all of this in 90 degree weather.

I had to go through my bedroom window, and I got yelled at for that and he[my dad] made it so i couldn't do that anymore.

what do you think of this situation?

2007-05-23 12:26:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How does this happen? And will she become attractive again?She's 14 now and very aware of her face change.

2007-05-23 10:03:01 · 23 answers · asked by ? 7

Teenage pregnacy is a drain in the society and i think that the teenagers should pactice absitinence ( not having sex). I want your opinion

2007-05-23 09:26:13 · 25 answers · asked by Chepina 1

A question so the younger ones can understand that premarital sex isn't all it's cracked up to be. HOnestly, there are sooo many questions about " sex w/ or w/out a condom/my boyfriend and I want to have sex.. "etc... I would like to have this question on record for those who have faithfully waited till marriage(like u should) and made love to their husband/wife on their wedding night. Don't people understand that when you wait until you are married you are not missing anything- Except an std or two ,maybe an abortion. It's even more amazing when you do wait!!

2007-05-23 08:48:54 · 12 answers · asked by LG 2

breast are really tender, i feel kinda wierd in my body, kinda weak in the stomach area. I used to get up early in the morning, now at 10:00am I'm still dog tired!!!

2007-05-23 05:13:35 · 11 answers · asked by markita p 1

Okay, so since...well, maybe about a year, I guess I've grown into depression. I'm trying counseling,but I just can't talk about my problems without crying. I'm really scared about what's going to happen to me. Like, my parents have started to notice and everything. Even my language arts teacher. How can I beat this? Any tips or anything?

Extra: I feel lonely, and sometimes I have days when I'm just really happy, then some little thing will just set me off. Other times, I just feel worthless and stuff. Sorry I couldn't organize this better, but I'm just so confused.

2007-05-22 14:49:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 years old turning 18 this summer. I'm starting University this September. My life is pretty much good right now.....

But I just have this feling for a child. Some one to love me no matter what you know. But im only 10 turning 18 and still live at home and still in school. Can i really give my baby the best life they deserve.

I'm not even sure, there a good chance I could be pregnant right now. And if I am what should I do. PLease help me........

2007-05-22 14:45:20 · 25 answers · asked by Queeny25 2

2007-05-22 14:45:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi everyone I had a question about hazing.

So first semester we had a hazing day for freshmans. I (being a freshman) got hazed badly. The Seniors who hazed me got cuahgt by the admin. for it and they got suspended. But I'm kind of creeped out because the end of year hazing is comming up.

So the question I want to ask is:

Do I show up to school on Hazing Day again to show that I'm not afraid or do I stay at home where I can be safe?

I'd appreciate any advice anyone can offer.

2007-05-22 13:22:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-22 13:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Out of COMPLETE curiosity...

2007-05-22 12:48:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I accidentally got pregnant with this guy that i really like :/ i skipped two periods and took three home pregnancy tests(all positive) i don't know how to tell my mom or parents nobody knows what should i do?

2007-05-22 12:14:55 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do u do when ur bff tells you that ur bf said he likes her? then when u ask ur bf if he said that and he denys everything and is mad at u what are u suppose to do?

2007-05-22 11:45:32 · 12 answers · asked by Boobah 1

The daughter of a fellow of mine, 13 yo,got a really harsh punishment for her mom, for bad behavior. She joined bad crowds, did bad and wrong stuff, though she's a good girl For 1 month the girl, except for school time, has to be in bed all the time, including weekends and holydays. No TV, computer, etc. Friends just for homework at her bedside. The girl, of course, is allowed to use the bathroom, for the strictly necessary time.
Her mom said she has an electronic device similar to a camera, a kind of sensor that can register when the girl gets up and comes back to bed. So her mom can control her punishment without having to watch the girl 24/7. With such device she can know how many times the girl left her bed and for how much time, and decide if it was reasonable for bathrommneed or not.

I think this punishment is simply cruel and can cause seriuos psychological damages. In my opinion its even child abuse.

2007-05-22 09:53:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughters dad just bought her one I was so against it because why does a kid need a cell phone? Im a stay at home mom I take her and pick her up from school What can a 7-14 possibly need a phone for just chit chat!!!

2007-05-22 04:54:22 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to deliver a speech on this topic and I was wondering if I could get some opinions on this topic. For years, we've been told Teenage Pregnancy and Parenthood is a awful thing - period. But is it still that way now? Can teenage parents be successful in raising their children? Or does this always spell disaster and failure?

Comments and Opinions are welcome.

2007-05-22 04:20:10 · 27 answers · asked by - Mononofu Lynn - 1

By this i mean seeing how far he can push the envelope before i snap. I know going into the teenage years is tough what with raging hormones and all but i was wondering.
How far(Within reason of course) should i let my son assert himself before putting my foot down?
I dont want to hamper or hinder his emotional growth but on the other hand he is NOT going to walk on me either. What do you think?

2007-05-22 02:31:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous