What do u do when ur bff tells you that ur bf said he likes her? then when u ask ur bf if he said that and he denys everything and is mad at u what are u suppose to do?
2007-05-22 11:45:32 · 12 answers · asked by Boobah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she probly likes him and wants him for herself
2007-05-22 11:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think u need to wait and maybe try looking for proof! Maybe do a three way call with ur bff and see if he fesses up! Plus if she doesn't do the call maybe that means shes lying and u always have other friends to call with... But if ur too unsure and u kinda believe the bff, Just brake up with him even though its hard if he really likes u he'll come back :)
2007-05-22 19:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by katy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do: Tell your best friend that your boyfriend has denied that he told her that. Tell your boyfriend that he shouldn't be mad at you and ask if there was anything that could have caused a misunderstanding with your best friend. If your boyfriend is still mad, it might mean he told your best friend he liked her. If so, talk to your best friend again - then go with your best instinct on who to believe. Has your best friend lied to you before? What about your boyfriend? If you think your best friend is lying, call her on it. And if you think it's your boyfriend? Break up.
I would consider, however, the fact that your boyfriend has not broken up with you. If you are under sixteen and aren't having a long-term relationship, there's no point in cheating - you would just break up. Then he would go out with your best friend if she was a jerk (but not a liar).
I would also consider how your best friend sounded when she told you. Was her wording "I have some bad news. Sit down. Your boyfriend said he likes me...I'm really sorry. I don't know how to tell you this. Do you want to come over and talk to me about it?" Or was it more like "Your boyfriend said he likes me. Guess I'm hotter than you, huh? See ya at the movies!"
But you sound like a smart girl. I hope you can figure this out.
2007-05-22 18:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rise above it and look at the situation with a little perspective. BFs come and go but BFFs are supposed to be forever. Is your BFF really being a BFF to you if she tells you this? Is she telling you this to get you paranoid and to hurt you? Well, consider whether she is really your BFF and she is looking out for your best interests. Alternatively, look at your BF and trust your instincts (try not to over-think and over-react) but trust what your instincts tell you about whether your BF (or your BFF) has your best interests in mind.
2007-05-22 18:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Shibi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have 3 way calling 3way them, without your boyfriend knowing ur on. and just let them 2 talk and see who is lieing. or if u dont have 3way. go to ur bff's house and do it there. Thats what me and my bff\cousin did because her boyfriend lied to her and wouldnt tell her the truth ..and she didnt know if she should believe me so we did that and found out the guy was a jerk. so just try something lyke 3way calling without him knowing. good luck :)
2007-05-22 19:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do u trust more... then trust them. if ur bf likes your bff i would dump them
2007-05-22 19:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sam B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That same thing happened to me sorta. What i did was i asked my bf's best friends. Then i dumped him-- not saying for you to dump him. Maybe talk to him--and her.
2007-05-22 18:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Lindsey♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him like a rock life is to short for that kind of silly crap.
Grow up some first before you do grown up things
Just saying
2007-05-22 18:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas from Miisk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who do you trust more? your bff or your bf??? honestly i would trust my friend over my boyfriend.....hoes before bros!
2007-05-22 18:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by sugarplumfaerie52686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of COURSE he's gonna deny it - what would YOU do. You can like someone and not DO anything about it - it happens.
If it were me, I'd faggedaboudit.
2007-05-22 18:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confront them both and see who denies what
2007-05-22 18:49:35 · answer #11 · answered by skeeter195848 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋