I'm thirteen and pregnant! What should i do?

Question

I accidentally got pregnant with this guy that i really like :/ i skipped two periods and took three home pregnancy tests(all positive) i don't know how to tell my mom or parents nobody knows what should i do?

Answer 1

How can this be if just 6 days ago you asked if sex hurt for the first time?? If you would have had sex already, you would have known. The pregnancy test won't show up positive for at least a couple of weeks, and from the looks of it you've only had sex in the last 6 days... that's if you even did.

Answer 2

First, You Have To Tell Your Parents.
Tell them with honesty and explain to them about your situation.
Let them know that You need their support and the best of all, Their Love for both You and the Baby to Come.
I don't care what other people here would say, Do Not Abort The Baby!!!
Getting Pregnant is already a mistake. Don't make another one. You don't want to have your conscience convicting You.
Talk to your Boyfriend and seek advice from Counsellors from school or a Social Worker.
The most Important thing, Love The Child. There's no Sweeter thing in this World than to have a Baby being born and you seeing it.
God Bless You....

Answer 3

OMG, I would definitly tell somebody. Your mom, your dad, another trusted adult, etc. DEFINITLY tell the father of the baby. Decide if you want to keep the baby, abort the baby or have the baby and give him up for adoption. If you decide to keep the baby go to an OB/GYN to get pre-natal vitamins, a pamphlet of information and other necessary items. Continue going to the doctor regularly. Don't do anything that could harm the baby. Take extra care of your body. But, before you do anything tell someone. Don't try and go through any of this on your own. Definitly don't give birth to the baby and then drop it off somewhere. Good Luck with your pregnancy.

Answer 4

What you should do will greatly depend on what your heart says. First question is do you want to keep it? You cant do anything else until you know the answer to that.
How you will do it depends on what your parents will say. If they will support you and your baby, if you will be able to finish school etc. If not, then if the guy will be able to help you?

If you want to keep your baby, then you can make it, it will just be HARD AS HELL, especially be so young. The more support you have the better.
I have a young daughter, and to be honest... if she was pregnant I would rather her just sit me down and straight up tell me. I would want her to finish school, which would be my main concern.
Your mom wont be happy... may scream and shout... but dont forget, youre HER baby.
Hope everything works out well for you

Answer 5

I'm sorry to tell you but abortion is now illegal. You have to have that baby or you will be in legal trouble.
1) Consult your parents
2) Have them consult a doctor
3) Be prepared from being scolded
4) If you're kicked out then remember why

How could you accidentally get pregnant?

You're too young. Enjoy your life. From having a baby, you probably ruined your life. Next time, think before you do things.

You should have known that mating may lead to pregnancy.

Have fun telling your parents the news. Tell them ASAP, or you will regret it for your whole life.

Answer 6

You need to tell your parents. Even though it was a mistake, you have to take responsibility for what you did. But if you cannot take care of the baby please consider giving it up for adoption. Don't get an abortion! Its murder no matter what people say! Just look at this site http:/www.abortiontv.com

Why would you want that to happen to an innocent human being?

But remember you took the consequences for what you did and you have to step up and trust your heart in doing the right thing.

God bless you and I hope everything goes good for you

Answer 7

More important then you is the growing person inside of you. If you plan to continue this pregnancy you HAVE TO tell your parents. The health of you baby is at risk without proper medical attention.

If you choose not to continue with your pregnancy, you have to make that decision pretty quickly. Again, you MUST talk to your parents as soon as possible.

If you want to play like an adult - meaning having sex - you have to suck it up and be an adult. Too late, now you have to deal with it!

Answer 8

There will be no easy way to break the news about your pregnancy. Tell your mom you need to talk to her and just tell her the truth.Your mother will be shocked at first but she will accept the news. She will be concerned about your future if you don't have an education She may not realize it at first but she will love this baby and will try to help you when she can. Tell your mom that you love her and hope that she will be a part of you and your baby's life. When your baby is born look at your mom's face when she is holding her grandchild. Sometimes life doesn't go according to our plan but it always seems to work out.

Answer 9

oh lord. tell your mom, if she understands what you're going through, she'll be with your every step of the way. don't get abortion, it's your and then guy's fault, why should the poor little innocent baby pay for a mistake you and the baby's dad made? don't be selfish and think of the other people involved, don't make a desicion (sorry, bad speller) that you'll regret later on. and next time if you think about having sex, make sure you're on pills and your man wears a condom. i'm thirteen and that's what i did.

Answer 10

OH sweetheart your so young,,,,you have so much to look forward in your life. Is this something you wish to have? How do you feel about being a mother? Well I think you should talk to someone and make your decision. There are many choices that if you do not want the baby there are thousands of people out there who would love your child if you didnt want it. However if you choose to keep the baby your growing up so fast. My son is 16 and daighter 12. I couldnt imagine it. But I would still love them. I think this decision should be yours and what you decide to do.