Adolescent - May 2007

theres this girl in my class who always jokes arounds about being pregnant and asking people to feel her belly and asking if they'll come to the baby shower. and shes not even pregnant. and it really annoys me cuase to me its nothing to joke about cuase well i really am pregnant. she doesnt now that shes really nice and understanding it just really bothers me. should i confront her and ask her to stop? or just leave it alone?

2007-05-16 11:04:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

something if I keep entering.

2007-05-16 08:59:34 · 26 answers · asked by Grav!ty 2

ok here it is.. first time me and my girlfriend had sex it was unprotected but i did not ***. it has been a few months now and she has had some very irregular periods.. she didnt skip her first 1 which was at the end of the month but the next month it was at, near the start.. but now she was on her period for 3 days and she was not heavy which is unusual because she is always heavy at first but the period stopped and 2 days later it has started agen. im a big worrier and think she could be pregnant.. she has abit of a belly now but she has been abit stressed and eating more.. her breasts have gone bigger.. is there ways i could find out if she was pregnant without doing a test because she is enemic (if thats how you spell it) and ive been told it could just show up positive anyway.. help please thanks.

2007-05-16 08:35:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been having some family issues for quite a while now. My mother has threatened to put me up for adoption several times now, and says am nothing but a worthless *****. I have been to every psycologist in the county thanks to her, and she keeps moving me from place to place when they say i am normal. She also has had me tested for any disabilities in the doctor's office, bbut they all came back negative. Her persistance in thinking something is wrong with me is extremely degrating. My daad is constantly on the road, and my parents are divorced so he is never around though i believe he actually cares. I feel as if the only erson i can trust in the world is my friend in school.He has ran away before. What i was wondering is what penalties do you get from running away(arested,juvie,etc.) I am 14 and in High School. Also, where can you go? I have money, survival class experience and all the supplies i need. Any advice?

2007-05-16 07:56:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sorta stuck n the middle of choosing a guy i wanna be with. I usually talk to more then one guy n never really hav a boyfriend but i hav feelings for all of the guys.
the first one we had a relationship b4 and i ended over sumthing stupid but i kno he will styl talk to other gurls when we are 2gether
the second one and i already had sex and he wants to b wit me n he treats me like a princess put i kno ill end up runnin all over him.
the third one is jus like i friend put a potential friend with benefits.
and teh other two are ex's that i never broke up wit i jus quit callin

who should i choose 2 give a chance and y?

2007-05-16 04:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

After a little argument about my daughter looking at a porn movie that she found in my drawer. He placed her on punishment and then 2 hours later decieded that he could not go on living with a disrepectful child in the house and moved out. how can I get him to understand that I need his help in disciplining her and keep a happy home?

2007-05-16 03:08:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anyone have any ways to help me calm down. I hate finals so much! I am so worried about my latin final. I dont understand latin it is so hard and strange. Help please!

2007-05-15 17:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Sam B 5

Im 17 years old and my girlfriend is 16 she is pregnate can she move out with me even though her mom says no? I live with my mom and were I live is a better environment for her and my unborn baby

2007-05-15 16:54:30 · 24 answers · asked by alan r 1

My sister called me on the phone yesterday and was crying so hard. She's 21, and im 14. She was telling me how her 21 year old friend had her 14 year old sister over at my sisters house, and how she got so sad because she missed me. I live about 8 hours away from her, and my mom won't let me even go stay for a weekend. How do i talk my mom into this? Me and my boyfriend are very close, so he told me and my mom that he would pay for the trip up there and back, and my sister would come get me as long as he payed. Anyone have any ideas on talking her into it? I really miss my sister..

2007-05-15 16:52:13 · 6 answers · asked by JaggedLittlePill 4

Im i5 years old and i went into dads shed and found books about how to grow marijuana and mags about it aswell. i know it's illegal to have it in australia..i live in australia..and i don't know what to do
1. should i tell the police?
2. should i just let it go?
3. should i tell someone?
4.should i tell my parents that i know they grow it?
5. should i tell a techer at school?
HELP i really don't know what to do im only 15 years old.
im scard that if i tell the police they will take me away, they will go to jail,have to pay a BIG fine...im really comfused please help i just found out that they have been growing it. and my parents have a green house and they grow it there and i just relised that is why they didn't want to to go in there. HELP i really need help...i love them but i think i need to tell someone but i don't know who,how to bring it up or what will happen to me or them..sorry if this doesn't makes any sence just im writing it in a hurry just because im scard help!

2007-05-15 16:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello, I'm 14, at school I left my debit card somewhere and I couldn't find it. I just got home and i want to cancel my card before my mom finds out, I also want to get a new card FAST...How long would it take?

2007-05-15 07:55:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, this guy from my karate class (2 belts below and one year younger, but ALOT bigger, im only 5"0 lol) He keeps cursing at me like going in to hit me ast school if i walk by him. It hasnt been bothering me, ive been ignoring it, but today he went to trip my little sister, (3 years younger) so i yelled at him to stop it or i'll make him sorry, and he said oh yeah? come on then. Why is he doing this and what should I do?

2007-05-15 04:20:52 · 30 answers · asked by ~ Twirl Girl ~ 2

My son tells me there are people (mainly teens) out there who cut themselves and wear dark colors and they call themselves Emo. I know that cutting has been around for a long time but is this something different? Is this a trend or a medical condition? I am clueless. Enlighten me

2007-05-14 11:47:54 · 18 answers · asked by Happy 2B Nappy 2

I had unprotected sex very very early Sunday morning…. He pulled out before he ejaculated…. Today around 12:30 I took “the morning after pill” or “Plan B”…. yet I’m really scared that I’m going to be pregnant. My next period won’t come until early June…. But I can’t go through the last month of school all freaked out….. does anyone have any advice….

2007-05-14 10:17:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jane Doe 1

Do i have a mental thingy going on, it's freaking me out? i'm 15 years old, and i imagine people. every day, i go into my own little world, i pretend to be somebody else living in another family in another state. and i do things with my "brothers and sisters". except when i do this, i'm not "me". I'm Bridget, or Leslie, or whoever i want to be. i'm to old to have imaginary friends. and i'm the only one i know who does this. and i have the perfect life in real life. 2 parents still married, an older brother and sister. friends, church, sports. but no matter how hard i try, i can't stop. i keep zoning out and going into my "world". i hate it. nobody knows i do this, and don't say tell someone because i'm not going to. i've been doing this since i was 6.also i whisper whatever i'm talking to my pretend people,and i act out stuff too.it's weird. and i also come on her,make fake profiles, and pretend to be my "person" (i've deleted them) .i don't smoke anything or do any kind of drugs. HELP

2007-05-14 09:11:19 · 33 answers · asked by :) 3

Everybody tells me that I'm really short, and I can't reach anything.
I wanted to start learning to drive when I turn 15 but it's not going to happen if I can't even see over the dashboard!

I already had a growth spurt when I was 12(4'7")
help?

2007-05-13 20:50:59 · 30 answers · asked by Kyra 1

I found out my 12 yr old son is in a relationshIp. I don't know what to do? I don't feel it's appropriate for children to be in a relationship at such a young age. He's only in 6th grade. What have I done wrong? He's the youngest of 6 male cousins and my sisters never had problems w/ their sons getting into a relationship at this young age. Any advice?

2007-05-13 20:07:06 · 25 answers · asked by higurl_808 1

My daughter is dealing with a foul-mouthed, trash-talking popular kid who is spreading rumors about her. He never says anything to her face, just to everyone around her. She is losing sleep and constantly crying....what can I do?? No pep talk is working..

2007-05-13 18:46:20 · 11 answers · asked by didesm 1

PLEASE MAKE ME FEEL BETTER. i have to go to court in the morning for missing too much school, i had a mystery illness in the beginning of school, and i missed a lot, they are taking me and my mom to court today, well it is midnight and im still worrying about it...we are supposed to show up at 10 am. WHAT ARE THEY GOING TO DO !?!? ARE THEY GOING TO SEND MY MOM TO JAIL OR ME TO JUVIE?!! IM CRYING AND IM REALLY SCARED HELP ME PLEASE....

2007-05-13 18:10:12 · 16 answers · asked by tiffanyy<3 2

Heyyy there! i am ALMOST 18 & just got back from my doctors for a basic physical. My weight was a low 227+ My waist was but a 48 inches, chest 44, i am 5'10. AND have a BP of 142/101 & my body fat % is 31+

It was about a YEAR or so ago when i decided that i wanted to GAIN weight not LOSE it! At the time i was around 161 lbs. & was quite thin. So i decided to "pack on the pounds" per say...

Now a year, plenty of pounds, inches & marks later. i am changing that. Until now, i have not tried to gain OR lose any weight.

NOW i wear a snug 38 jeans. i have a fair share of "sexy" stretchy marks on my love handles/hips & quite a few on my inner thighs too! i also struggle to come to terms w/ the fact i cant do ONE situp! If i try i feel like im DYING!

Now i'm eating very little 'TIL 5 PM! Then i typically have an decent dinner & NICE desert. At 10 i'll have a BIG pizza or 2 burgers 2 liter of DEW & top it off a BINGE of random sweets!

You see... It IS possible to be a lil fat & happy! ;-)

2007-05-13 15:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to ask ,
is it bad for me -moral- to wear my pants without underwear and got out to school or in public ?

i just think that is more interesting ,
but i wanna know if this is disapproved or not ?

i mean ,if any one knows that , 'll it be bad for you ?

2007-05-13 08:29:31 · 37 answers · asked by smash 2

Everytime I try to talk to him about anything I'm not happy about (and, no, I don't act like a five-year-old when I do), he tells me, "If you're not happy, you can leave. I don't care,"
If I ever ask why he does something (rules, etc.), he ignores me.

It's not like I do bad things all the time (I do occasionally, but who doesn't?) & get in trouble at home or a school. So I don't know why he's been so mean to me lately [for exapmle, if I don't get a perfect grade on something, he'll tease me and nag me about it. Even if i get a good grade on something else, he won't congradulate me, he'll stick to making fun of me for the other thing. OR, he makes fun of my appearence. He says things about my hair and clothes.Thanks, dad. It's not I like I had a great self-esteem to start with]

He treats me like I'm five years old (I'm not allowed to see any friends outside of school).

& he doesn't trust me (I haven't done ANYTHING that would require him to lose his trust. I swear)

2007-05-13 06:23:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He plays alone sometimes in his room, he builds forts for them and talks out the scenrio.

2007-05-13 04:47:06 · 12 answers · asked by coco1 1

*1. She has no respect *2. she ran up the cell phone bill to 2,000.00 *3. she said she hates me and the family. she says that she doesnt want to live with us and she hopes I die soon.
*4. she is on the phone all day (literally) or on the computer or both. *5. I overheard her giving a fake name on the phone. *6. I dont know what she does online because she password protects everything. *7. she gets an attitude about everything. *8 i firmly beleive that her eyes are going to get stuck in the back of her head. *9. my 11 year old son says that he loves her but does not want to live with her.
*10. my 24 year old daughter move back home to go to college and has been her 2 weeks. She wants to move out already because she says that although she loves my teen, she cant deal with my teens attitude. *11)her response to everything is "I dont care" or "whatever". *12) she walks away from me while i am talking to her and talks back.
I AM AT MY WITS END! WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!

2007-05-12 20:37:16 · 21 answers · asked by MaryJane395 1

I've told her that it is not acceptable, and she needs to stop doing it. She doesn't listen.

I believe she may be sexually active. I've tried talking to her but she refuses to answer any of my questions.

2007-05-12 20:31:02 · 42 answers · asked by Rissa 1

I want to do it from head to toe. + In my mind and behaviour.

Hair: My hair is mid-back length and heavily layered, dyed and streaked.
I'm thinking of stripping my hair and dying it plain brown. I also want to cut it to my shoulders. No layers. Clip back the side-fringe until it grows out.
Skin: No more fake-tan for me. No make-up either. Pure skin.
Clothes: No more fashionable stuff for me. Just plain clothes.

I'm 12. I'm in Year 7.
I want to get REALLY smart.
I want to get into Selective School.
Do you think I have time to de-trend myself and get really smart?
What do you think my friends will think?
I was their trendy leader.

I really want to do this. Trends don't last.

2007-05-12 20:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 14 and i have a job and my mom keeps taking everyone of my checks saying i owe her because im alive...

2007-05-12 16:01:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What kind of job is good for a 16 year old girl who has never worked before? My daddy said I can't just occasionally babysit he wants me to work like 30 hours a week.

I am a bit spoiled so this type of thing is new to me.

Thank you and good day.

2007-05-12 13:41:43 · 31 answers · asked by Lori 5

2007-05-12 11:44:01 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... i'm making my mom a mix CD for Mother's day. here's what i got so far...

In My Daughter's Eyes- Martina McBride (Her favorite song)

I Hope You Dance- Lee Ann Womack (another favorite)

Somebody's Hero- Jamie O'Neal

Surrender- Cheap Trick (she's got a sense of humor)

Mom- Cyndi Lauper

1985- Bowling for Soup (that was her gradauting year)

Momma - Boyz II Men

I could use some more ideas please!!

2007-05-12 10:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by chicky33 1