I'm sorta stuck n the middle of choosing a guy i wanna be with. I usually talk to more then one guy n never really hav a boyfriend but i hav feelings for all of the guys.
the first one we had a relationship b4 and i ended over sumthing stupid but i kno he will styl talk to other gurls when we are 2gether
the second one and i already had sex and he wants to b wit me n he treats me like a princess put i kno ill end up runnin all over him.
the third one is jus like i friend put a potential friend with benefits.
and teh other two are ex's that i never broke up wit i jus quit callin
who should i choose 2 give a chance and y?
2007-05-16 04:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There are many guys out there to get to know, don't limit yourself to just these 5. It is more important that you are focusing on who you are, doing what makes you happy, learning about new things, making plans for your future, and making friends. Sex is best saved for marriage. The risks of unplanned pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases are too great and have the potential to change your life forever. Enjoy your young years without tying yourself down to a boyfriend. This is just my old-fashioned "mom" advice. I have 4 children, ages 27, 25, 22, and 9 and a husband I have been married to for nearly 30 years. Only my oldest daughter is married and it is a happy marriage. My 25 year old son and 22 year old daughter have had several relationships that just didn't work out, both are now re-directing their lives and are much happier following some dreams they never thought they could do before.
2007-05-16 05:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about the consequences of having sex without commitment? Are you using protection -- condoms, the pill, anything? Each time you have sex with a person, you have sex with every other person that person has had sex with. So, if one of those people had a communicable disease, it is quite possible that you, too, could end up with the disease. Additionally, as grandma used to say, why should the guy buy the cow if he can get the milk for free?
Whether you are male or female, respect of person is the true measurement of love. When you're together, you should think about how his/her actions impact you and how you react. Today you have choices. Once you are committed, your choices are limited. So really be honest with yourself and analyze your relationships and what chances or risks you are willing to take. Learn to respect yourself first and then decide who fits your idea of the "right" person to spend time with. Think about your reputation.
2007-05-16 12:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by MH/Citizens Protecting Rights! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are a teenager, I would stop having sex. When you are older, you will understand that there are more important things, like gaining trust and helping each other succeed in school that makes the relationship a good one.
Sex is the least important thing at your stage of life.
Stop having sex with the one guy, and you will find out if he truly cares about you. Most guys that age RUN away when there is no sex.
Hopefully, he will run away, and you can concentrate on school and meaningful frienships.
2007-05-16 11:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by gg 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if u have to really ask who to be with, then none of them are the right guys for u. just wait a little longer.
2007-05-16 14:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by texas_tec_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex with him already?
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2007-05-16 11:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Gone Fishing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋