theres this girl in my class who always jokes arounds about being pregnant and asking people to feel her belly and asking if they'll come to the baby shower. and shes not even pregnant. and it really annoys me cuase to me its nothing to joke about cuase well i really am pregnant. she doesnt now that shes really nice and understanding it just really bothers me. should i confront her and ask her to stop? or just leave it alone?
2007-05-16 11:04:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Leave it alone. You have nothing to gain and something to lose.
2007-05-16 11:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend has a mental problem because there is some kind of mental disease that girls can tell themselves that they are pregnant and their body starts to change the same way a pregnant womens body would. Maybe this is the only way that she can get attention? But if I were you I would confront her and let her know how you feel about especially if she does it in class and stuff because that would just make me very, very uncomfortable. If she doesn't stop you should talk to someone at school, maybe a guidance counselor if you are in high school and then maybe that othe girl can get the psychological help she needs.
2007-05-16 18:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by ladyusc229 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone hun, I know it annoys you and probably annoys you even more because you are pregnant and more sensitive to the little things in life.....but this other girl is craving attention....just be mature about it and let her have her "moment" once you start showing hopefully she'll stop and realize that it's nothing to joke about. Best thing to do is laugh it off... =]
Congrats!
2007-05-16 18:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by oOoLaLaiTzSina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not doing it to particularly embarrass you or insult you, then I would just ignore it. If I understand you, this girl does not know you are pregnant so I would just not worry about her jokes.
Being pregnant, you have more important things to focus on, and the health of yourself and your baby demands that you not get too stressed over things that really don't matter.
It sounds to me that your anger at her jokes are less about her jokes and more about how you feel about the situation you are in. If that is true, then don't reflect your anger towards her because it is not her fault that you are pregnant.
Save your emotional energy to deal with you and your baby's well being.
2007-05-16 18:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i would confront her about it. I would tell her the situation and that her joking like that hurts you, or makes you feel bad. The only bad thing is she might spread it around the school (if you dont want that to happen). Maybe not tell her you are pregant but you know someone or you think that it is innapporite. I hope this helps you and good luck with your baby.
2007-05-16 18:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got raped i can understand but if you got pregnant because you willingly had sex then you just have to learn to deal with it and and protect yourself next time. Ignore her, she has a right to do whatever she wants. If she is directly making fun of you then that is different. Concentrate on school because since your going to have a baby things are going to be much more difficult that some girl joking around.
2007-05-16 18:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let nothing like that bother you, just try your best not to let that get to you an live your life. Especially if your pregnant, (No stressing while pregnant it can effect the baby).
2007-05-16 18:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confronting her will make things worse - she'll start making you the focus and you don't want that. Eventually she'll grow up and realize that what she's doing is really immature. Try to just ignore her - don't hang around her if it bothers you that much.
2007-05-16 18:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone. It is taking the attention off of you and I am sure that you are happy about that. Good luck with your pregnancy!
2007-05-16 18:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by hillabee_is_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be someone pissing you off in your life time just let it go and think about things that matter
Good luck hun
2007-05-19 22:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋