Ok, this guy from my karate class (2 belts below and one year younger, but ALOT bigger, im only 5"0 lol) He keeps cursing at me like going in to hit me ast school if i walk by him. It hasnt been bothering me, ive been ignoring it, but today he went to trip my little sister, (3 years younger) so i yelled at him to stop it or i'll make him sorry, and he said oh yeah? come on then. Why is he doing this and what should I do?
2007-05-15 04:20:52 · 30 answers · asked by ~ Twirl Girl ~ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am 15 years old, been doing karate 4 years and am two belts above him, although he is alot bigger than me, im not scared and if it did come to it i would fight him, but i dont wan tto lower myself to his level unless absolutely necessary
2007-05-15 08:39:37 · update #1
Hi there
You need to tell a few people about this. Firstly someone at school. Your form teacher would be a good place to start as they probably know you better than other teachers. Next have a word with your parents because this has now started to effect your little sister and you cant be there to look after her all the time.
last but not least have a word with your karate instructor. It has always bothered me that martial arts are taught to people like this jerk. They shouldn't be allowed to train in my opinion. I don't think your instructor will be too impressed with his behaviour and will have words.
Don't take him on that's what he wants.
Try to tackle it another way one that he wont be able to deal with. One that requires him to use his brain!
When i was a kid boys bullied boys and girls bullied girls looks like the times are changing and not for the better.
Take care
idai
2007-05-16 10:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by idai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to one of my sons when my neighbors kid(13) started taking karate classes.I warned him and told him if he didn't stop picking on my kids I would go to his karate teacher.You take a oath to fight and protect your self when there are no other options.Well I know this kid and he cant be trusted so I told his teacher what was going on and my sons will protect themselves when necessary.Two of my sons take karate one is 17 and the other 10 but they don't go around showing off to anybody.This boy was picking on my youngest who is 8.Well the karate teacher and my neighbor came to my house and wanted to know who beat of his kid.My 10 year old told him that he did because he younger brother was being BEAT up by neighbors kid.My son is 4 feet 5 inches and 65 lbs this boy is 5ft 5 in and 150lbs.He was kicked out of the class until he apologized my son but this has not happened as yet.My oldest is a black belt and the other is a brown belt.Fighting is never the answer but I have told my boys that they need to protect each other and if they get into a fight looking out for each other than its OK.
2007-05-15 05:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Zim 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two things.
One tell karate instructor
Karate instructor bigger then he is and bigger belt so can teach him jolly good lesson in how not to be a jerk and misuse lessons, in such a ways dichead guy knows not to dare touch you as mr karate instructor will deal 10 times what he does to you to him.
Also You girl he guy.
You karate kick balls then drag his *** nad beat him up some more, handcuff him to fence in school and pull down his trousers then call everyone over to laugh also very satisfying...
Especially the bit getting beat up by a girl smaller then he is.
He may be big but his balls are the same as any other boy, as are his kneecaps. Maybe with chilli powder blow in eyes first.
Also u girl he guy...
That means you have weapons he dont have like sexuality...
Girls can lower guys guard with sexuality.
ie you where tight open top which you drop something down mean hes going to be too busy staring at your breast to notice you aiming kick for said nuts or first strike.
Or you can act like you like him and want to kiss him and let him have a feel, but he has to close his eyes first...
you get the idea?
2007-05-15 12:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he go to the same class as you? If so tell you instructor...karate is meant to protect and boost self esteem not for fighting-in fact if this boy goes on to higher belts he can loose his karate license if he is caught using it! Most instructor will take it seriously and you can tell him that you dont want the boy to know you told.
Dont get tempted to use your karate either otherwise you risk getting in trouble. He's probably a sad little boy inside who feels this makes him big and tough.
2007-05-16 07:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy has completely misunderstood the philosophy of karate (as so many testosterone-controlled idiots his age do). It is NOT about "having the power", or threatening, or hurting others. It's about self-discipline, training your body *and your mind*. Definitely speak to your instructors and tell them what's going on. I'm sure this is not the first case of male-dominant idiocy of this type that they've had to deal with.
Why is he doing this? Because it's the only way he can feel like a "big man." Pathetic, really. Go to your instructors and talk to them.
2007-05-15 10:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by anna 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a bully that needs the crap kicked out of him. I would also consider discussing this with the karate instructor since it is for defense and helping ppl the instructor may step in. It is not to know how to professionally beat someone for no reason.
2007-05-15 04:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by shaman 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's a bully who has no concept of the realities of what his karate classes are about. He needs reporting, not least to his karate teacher who might be able to put him right on his behaviour.
2007-05-15 04:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In our dojo we usually allow people to wear the rank that they say they have from another school. But they will not get any kind of promotion until they are up to our standards for the next rank. This goes for all student kyu or dan ranks. You must meet the standards for the next rank before you can test for the next rank. If you say you are a black belt but you skill level is yellow you must go through and learn everything that we require for white belt on until the current rank that you are wearing.You must also know and demonstrated the things necessary for the next rank. Yes black belt have failed the test.
2016-04-01 02:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if a lad fights with a girl he's a puff. Ever heard the phrase "It takes a bigger man to walk away than stand a fight"?
2007-05-15 09:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to your karate teacher, explain to them what has happened and ask them what they think you should do. Although they will probably have a quiet word with this boy themselves.
Good luck!
2007-05-15 04:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋