ok here it is.. first time me and my girlfriend had sex it was unprotected but i did not ***. it has been a few months now and she has had some very irregular periods.. she didnt skip her first 1 which was at the end of the month but the next month it was at, near the start.. but now she was on her period for 3 days and she was not heavy which is unusual because she is always heavy at first but the period stopped and 2 days later it has started agen. im a big worrier and think she could be pregnant.. she has abit of a belly now but she has been abit stressed and eating more.. her breasts have gone bigger.. is there ways i could find out if she was pregnant without doing a test because she is enemic (if thats how you spell it) and ive been told it could just show up positive anyway.. help please thanks.
2007-05-16 08:35:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You may have had unprotected sex and thought you pulled out quick enough, but it only takes one 'swimmer' to make a girl pregnant.
I'm hoping for both your sakes that she's not. You should both go to the doctor or parenting clinic to get a urine sample to show for sure if she's pregnant or not. Definately talk to your parents about this (they may purchase a pregnancy test (for urine)..and stop the waiting, worrying...find out as soon as you can*
Best WIshes*
2007-05-16 09:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well don't go by periods because not for nothing I got mine the first two months (I am 5 months now) Take a test and then call a doctor. Stress can delay and even change the way your period comes but she really REALLY needs to take a test. If she is pregnant the way you worded it, she would be at least 3 months by now which is when she would really need prenatal care. Good luck!
Oh and PS, Considering the fact that you had sex unprotected, the fact that all you might have gotten is a baby is pretty nice, PROTECT YOURSELF
2007-05-16 15:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by preciseonegirl28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your girlfriend have any concern about her being pregnant you can just go to a chemist or pharmacy and get an inexpensive pregnancy test. Let her use the test first thing in the morning for the best accuracy. It doesnt sound like she has the symptoms of pregnancy, but it might relieve both of your minds if you were to do the test.
Dont worry about the stress of a false positive. A pregnancy test detects a hormone called HPT. Anemia doesnt cause HPT to become present in the body. And anemia cant cause a false positive pregnancy test under any conditions.
While you are at the chemist please get yourselves some condoms.
2007-05-16 16:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mildly Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is as young as you sound, she probably just has irregular periods.
Being anemic will NOT make a pregnancy test come out positive. You need to talk to one of your moms. And next time wear a condom. Although you sound too young to be doing that anyway.
Next time, wait to have sex until you can deal with the potential consequences.
2007-05-16 16:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the fact that she's anemic will not change the results of a urine pregnancy test. If you and she are really thinking she might be you should have her take a tests asap. If she is pregnant, it's vital that you both know so that she can start getting the medical care she needs and get on some vitamins.
2007-05-16 15:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has been getting her period although irregular, That is what it is an irregular period. Its is a stressful time and I think it is just you guys are stressing and that is what is causing the eating and plumpness. But just to clam you nerves go take a pregnancy test or go to a pregnancy help center. Its is free and confidential. I should now I volunteer at one. Plus they have a nurse. good luck,
2007-05-16 15:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could get pregnant from pre-*** but it doesn't matter how her period is acting, as long as she still has her period she cannot be pregnant. Doesn't matter how the period is you just don't have it at all. Its called condoms and birth control, it isn't that hard to obtain. Maybe she is just gaining weight when you have your period though you do gain about 4 pounds and stress easily and we girls always get hungry on our period. If she is though prepare for fatherhood and take responsibility for the consequences of your actions.
2007-05-16 18:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt she is - sounds like ya'll are young and well... growing breasts and even waistline is a part of puberty... so are irregular periods.
The only sure way to know is to have a pregnancy test done. I'm anemic and it never messed my tests up before.
Good luck!
2007-05-16 15:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a test! Go to the health clinic if she doesn't have a regular doctor that she goes to, don't let it go on any further without knowing.
2007-05-16 15:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by analicia_d82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard about being enimic affecting a HPT, but if it's true - tell your girlfriend to see a doctor and get a blood test.
2007-05-16 15:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋